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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1550123 United States 02/16/2018 01:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | now i have story :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76205280 once me and my boyfriend were walking in the park. and he was talking about some memories that he had with a friend of his and he wasnt very happy about them. I was listenning and nodding as if i know anything..then there were some kids playing nearby and there was this old woman. and this old woman while we re passing just by said..do you have a kid naughty like this? showing us a kid probably her grandchild or something and then insisted do you have a kid. i laughed said no. and suddenly he got angry, when we just passed them a little. how dare she, he said. i said whaa? what happened? how does she know what we are going through in our lives regarding kids? what if we were a couple trying to have a kid and failing with it? what if we were a couple who wanted a kid and never be able to get one what if we were a couple with a lost kid. (ok i added that part..but to show you what he means) Look into your heart and soul to see what the meaning is of what this lady said. I lost a daughter to stillbirth. She would have been 44 years old tomorrow, February 17th. So I have a happy day today for my youngest daughter's birthday, but a sad day tomorrow as I remember another daughter who is not here with me. I would always have hope that you will see this child again. Jesus holds out a resurrection hope for the dead during his thousand year reign. He wasn’t doing resurrections in the Bible for nothing but to show us that he can undo the curse of death for us. |
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User ID: 76234835 United States 02/16/2018 01:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is a medically documented fact that my daughter was missing for 3 days. All that time I had at least a dozen ultrasounds. Call me what you will, but I am speaking the truth. I believe you Tiger and so glad you are with us here today, what a story! "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 62446110 United States 02/16/2018 02:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look into your heart and soul to see what the meaning is of what this lady said. I lost a daughter to stillbirth. She would have been 44 years old tomorrow, February 17th. So I have a happy day today for my youngest daughter's birthday, but a sad day tomorrow as I remember another daughter who is not here with me. I'm sorry for your loss. |
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User ID: 39588477 United States 02/16/2018 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I was pregnant with my youngest, I was very sick. Even some of my pro-life friends told me that if I had an abortion, it would be OK, as my life was in danger. What kind of mother would I be, to sacrifice my child for myself? Quoting: tiger1 This is a long read, and I apologize in advance, but this must be told again. My daughter's story was in a 2 local newspapers years ago. Today is my youngest daughter's birthday. She is 23 today, and I was in my early 40's when she was born.I had a horrible pregnancy, sick all the time, a lot of complications. I had major abdominal surgery when I was pregnant with her. The doctor thought she was in the tube instead of the womb, when I was about 3 months pregnant. When they tried to do a laprascope, they discovered my abdomen was so full of scar tissue from previous surgeries that there was no way my womb could expand any more and the scope could not take care of it.So, I was sliced open from my belly button down to the bottom for them to remove the scar tissue. As for my daughter, they could not find her. She wasn't in the womb, and she wasn't in the tube, but the tests showed I was pregnant. This was on a Friday. They did repeat ultrasounds all weekend, and still couldn't find her. Monday morning, when they did another ultrasound, they found her, just where she was supposed to be, happily scooting around my womb. Where was she those 3 days? I will go into that at the end of my post. Fast forward to February 16, 1995. The incision from the massive surgery I had to remove the scar tissue, never healed up right. There was not one good day all through the entire pregnancy. The OB told me that if I could make it to at least December 12th, which is the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, that she would live.I carried her full term, to everyone's surprise, including the OB. I woke up the morning of that February 16th, swollen from head to toe like a puffer fish. I was not in labor, but I knew something was wrong. Even though I was sick all through the pregnancy, I had no swelling issues until that morning. I went right to the ER. They took me up to Labor and Delivery, and monitored me. I had no labor pains, and everything checked out OK. They could not find a reason why I suddenly swelled up. After a couple of hours,they told me to get dressed and go home. As soon as the doctor and nurse left the room so I could get dressed, I was hit with pain like I never had before. I screamed. The doctor and nurse came running back in. I was in labor, 3 minutes apart and 1 1/2 minute long contractions.The doctor grabbed a portable X-ray machine and did a quick pic which showed my daughter was coming out breech, feet first.They took my vitals, and they were almost non-existent. I was dying.The doctor and nurse grabbed my hospital bed and wheeled me down to the Operating Room.The doctor told me he could save my baby, but might not be able to save me. The last thing I said before losing consciousness, was for him to save my daughter and not worry about me. I was given a 1 out of 10 chance of making it, after my daughter was delivered by emergency c-section. By the Grace of God, I am here talking to you all today. Here is some more detail of the scar tissue surgery and all the events around this, and the after story. Just as the nurses were starting to wheel me out of the room for the scar tissue removal surgery/laprascope, a Priest who I knew, and had left a message for earlier, came in the door. I was anointed and my daughter was baptized by pouring Holy water on my belly.I left everything in God's hands, as to what would happen. As for my daughter, she was a very precocious child, starting to talk at 2 months old, the first word being "Momma". She could hold a conversation with an adult at 1 years old.When she was not quite 2 years old, I told her the story about what happened the day they took me down for surgery for the scar tissue, and couldn't find her. I told her she was gone for 3 days, until she finally showed up.She looked at me and smiled. She said "I was up in Heaven with a lot of other children. There was lots of animals to play with. It was so pretty ! Jesus came and served us all food at a real long table." I asked her why she came back. She said "because you needed me, Mommy". Read this through tears, Tiger...thanks for sharing. And HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your miracle daughter!! All Praise to God our Father in Heaven. |
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User ID: 76215020 United States 02/16/2018 02:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tiger, you and I have been "karma friends" for a long, long time. I also consider you a friend in real life. You are an amazing lady, truly blessed. Thank you for sharing your story. I love when miracles are proven possible :) Always, lots and lots of love to you! "Standing on a hill in my mountain of dreams, Telling myself it's not as hard, hard, hard as it seems." "see, that's there we differ. you can learn a lot more in the journey than in the destination." ~eekers "Benghazi. We remembered you". ~JypsieWind |
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User ID: 75758443 United States 02/16/2018 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That was a great heartwarming story. I believe you about the ultra sounds. Jesus can and does wonderful things. We as humans can only hope to do what he can. Quoting: asymetriclogic lots of love to you and yours Silence in the face of evil is itself evil; God will not hold us guiltless. Not to speak is to speak. Not to act is to act. -Dietrich Bonhoeffer |
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User ID: 76078640 United States 02/16/2018 02:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is a medically documented fact that my daughter was missing for 3 days. All that time I had at least a dozen ultrasounds. Call me what you will, but I am speaking the truth. WOW! Just WOW! What an amazing story! And our Lord was able to save us all in like fashion! And rose on the third day. Blessings to you Tiger1! I'm sure there are many more blessings heading your way! Thanks for sharing you harrowing story. I'm sure God adores you and your daughters. May God Bless your entire family. Come And Take It! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76205280 Turkey 02/16/2018 02:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | now i have story :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76205280 once me and my boyfriend were walking in the park. and he was talking about some memories that he had with a friend of his and he wasnt very happy about them. I was listenning and nodding as if i know anything..then there were some kids playing nearby and there was this old woman. and this old woman while we re passing just by said..do you have a kid naughty like this? showing us a kid probably her grandchild or something and then insisted do you have a kid. i laughed said no. and suddenly he got angry, when we just passed them a little. how dare she, he said. i said whaa? what happened? how does she know what we are going through in our lives regarding kids? what if we were a couple trying to have a kid and failing with it? what if we were a couple who wanted a kid and never be able to get one what if we were a couple with a lost kid. (ok i added that part..but to show you what he means) Look into your heart and soul to see what the meaning is of what this lady said. I lost a daughter to stillbirth. She would have been 44 years old tomorrow, February 17th. So I have a happy day today for my youngest daughter's birthday, but a sad day tomorrow as I remember another daughter who is not here with me. ermm do you think my heart knows better than my boyfriend? For you to discern. I believe my Bf. he was right. she was being rude. i would remain silent if i had a child. wouldnt ask couples such thing. that may break their heart. in case somebody couldnt and wanted to have one. I wouldnt tell fancy stories of how i got her and i would pretend I am her sister and we are born from a tree. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75187366 United States 02/16/2018 03:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My youngest daughter was an "OOPS". I had just given all my baby stuff away 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant with her. :( I also had a Oops baby, I was 44 and it had been 11 years since mt last child, I thought I was done. Oops babies are very special souls, a blessing to have and hold. |
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