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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72138947 United States 02/16/2018 12:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | they are wrong about so many things, such as: "we can't see any baby" well, i remember a smart person once telling me: there's a reason why we don't have a CRT screen across our belly. |
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tiger1
(OP) User ID: 19262565 United States 02/16/2018 12:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | now i have story :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76205280 once me and my boyfriend were walking in the park. and he was talking about some memories that he had with a friend of his and he wasnt very happy about them. I was listenning and nodding as if i know anything..then there were some kids playing nearby and there was this old woman. and this old woman while we re passing just by said..do you have a kid naughty like this? showing us a kid probably her grandchild or something and then insisted do you have a kid. i laughed said no. and suddenly he got angry, when we just passed them a little. how dare she, he said. i said whaa? what happened? how does she know what we are going through in our lives regarding kids? what if we were a couple trying to have a kid and failing with it? what if we were a couple who wanted a kid and never be able to get one what if we were a couple with a lost kid. (ok i added that part..but to show you what he means) Look into your heart and soul to see what the meaning is of what this lady said. I lost a daughter to stillbirth. She would have been 44 years old tomorrow, February 17th. So I have a happy day today for my youngest daughter's birthday, but a sad day tomorrow as I remember another daughter who is not here with me. ermm do you think my heart knows better than my boyfriend? For you to discern. Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
tiger1
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The Comedian :D
User ID: 75152937 United States 02/16/2018 12:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Im a woman. And all I said was her pregnancy sounded like a nightmare and insisting on bringing a baby into the world at the expense of her own life is somewhat inconsiderate to the child. So no. I dont think this is all roses and sunshine and thats trolling?? "So you ban people who disagree with you?" is the universal shill mating call. I make them sing it all time, usually after they accuse me of being a fag and crying how I hate "free speech". So if you don't want to be tagged as a typical AC dipshit, don't sing their national anthem. Last Edited by The Comedian :D on 02/16/2018 12:07 PM Saint Comedian, Patron Saint of Bringing the Butthurt to Dipshits ‘There are some assholes in the world that just need to be shot.’ - General Mattis, USMC, Secretary of Defense [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] "Subterfuge and social pressure are the wheel and fire of the 21st century" - Some asshole Legal Disclaimer: All comments are intended as humor and/or fiction and not advice, and not to be confused with any event or person, living or dead. |
tiger1
(OP) User ID: 19262565 United States 02/16/2018 12:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i wonder, do you ever doubt their opinion that you needed surgery at all to get through the preg? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72138947 they are wrong about so many things, such as: "we can't see any baby" well, i remember a smart person once telling me: there's a reason why we don't have a CRT screen across our belly. My belly was so packed with scar tissue there was no way for my womb to expand. The scar tissue is possibly a reason why I had repeat miscarriages. They let me see the ultrasound screen when they did all of the ultrasounds. I couldn't see anything either, until monday morning.Monday morning, there she was, bouncing around like a superball !!! Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
tiger1
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Sassy Trumpette
User ID: 76014156 United States 02/16/2018 12:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tiger1 Thank you for sharing this experience! I'm sure she was in Heaven. No doubt in my mind! May God bless you both. Last Edited by Sassy Trumpette on 02/16/2018 03:29 PM [link to qanonmap.github.io (secure)] Thread: q-list of abbreviations Thread: "DOT" Global Consciousness Project [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.” Quoted by Lincoln-written by John Lydgate THIS world is not conclusion; A sequel stands beyond,Invisible, as music, But positive, as sound.-Emily Dickinson |
Sassy Trumpette
User ID: 76014156 United States 02/16/2018 12:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Im a woman. And all I said was her pregnancy sounded like a nightmare and insisting on bringing a baby into the world at the expense of her own life is somewhat inconsiderate to the child. So no. I dont think this is all roses and sunshine and thats trolling?? "So you ban people who disagree with you?" is the universal shill mating call. I make them sing it all time, usually after they accuse me of being a fag and crying how I hate "free speech". So if you don't want to be tagged as a typical AC dipshit, don't sing their national anthem. [link to qanonmap.github.io (secure)] Thread: q-list of abbreviations Thread: "DOT" Global Consciousness Project [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.” Quoted by Lincoln-written by John Lydgate THIS world is not conclusion; A sequel stands beyond,Invisible, as music, But positive, as sound.-Emily Dickinson |
deplorable but adorable davvi
User ID: 12716342 United States 02/16/2018 12:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Im a woman. And all I said was her pregnancy sounded like a nightmare and insisting on bringing a baby into the world at the expense of her own life is somewhat inconsiderate to the child. So no. I dont think this is all roses and sunshine and thats trolling?? Inconsiderate to the child???? Funny, but to me choosing one's self over an unborn child, and never allowing that child to live, is rather more inconsiderate. I hope if I am ever faced with such a choice that I will love my baby enough to give my life for hers/his. I hope I would have Tiger's courage. |
tiger1
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tiger1
(OP) User ID: 19262565 United States 02/16/2018 12:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Im a woman. And all I said was her pregnancy sounded like a nightmare and insisting on bringing a baby into the world at the expense of her own life is somewhat inconsiderate to the child. So no. I dont think this is all roses and sunshine and thats trolling?? Inconsiderate to the child???? Funny, but to me choosing one's self over an unborn child, and never allowing that child to live, is rather more inconsiderate. I hope if I am ever faced with such a choice that I will love my baby enough to give my life for hers/his. I hope I would have Tiger's courage. I am not that brave, but I love my children ! Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
tiger1
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Sassy Trumpette
User ID: 76014156 United States 02/16/2018 12:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: tiger1 My youngest daughter was an "OOPS". I had just given all my baby stuff away 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant with her. :( Oh, I grew up with a bunch of girls toys thanks to two older sisters. I found solace in the cat toys. Thanks for that, Zedakah :) That was a good laugh! I now make sure my cats have the best toys just in case. LOL [link to qanonmap.github.io (secure)] Thread: q-list of abbreviations Thread: "DOT" Global Consciousness Project [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.” Quoted by Lincoln-written by John Lydgate THIS world is not conclusion; A sequel stands beyond,Invisible, as music, But positive, as sound.-Emily Dickinson |
Sassy Trumpette
User ID: 76014156 United States 02/16/2018 12:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | now i have story :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76205280 once me and my boyfriend were walking in the park. and he was talking about some memories that he had with a friend of his and he wasnt very happy about them. I was listenning and nodding as if i know anything..then there were some kids playing nearby and there was this old woman. and this old woman while we re passing just by said..do you have a kid naughty like this? showing us a kid probably her grandchild or something and then insisted do you have a kid. i laughed said no. and suddenly he got angry, when we just passed them a little. how dare she, he said. i said whaa? what happened? how does she know what we are going through in our lives regarding kids? what if we were a couple trying to have a kid and failing with it? what if we were a couple who wanted a kid and never be able to get one what if we were a couple with a lost kid. (ok i added that part..but to show you what he means) Look into your heart and soul to see what the meaning is of what this lady said. I lost a daughter to stillbirth. She would have been 44 years old tomorrow, February 17th. So I have a happy day today for my youngest daughter's birthday, but a sad day tomorrow as I remember another daughter who is not here with me. ermm do you think my heart knows better than my boyfriend? I would hope so. I could not have children and it did not bother me when I saw other children or shared in the joy of other's expecting babies. That only led me to adoption. If I could not have children perhaps God had one of two out there for me and he did! I did not find it hard to say to anyone, No I can't have children. Last Edited by Sassy Trumpette on 02/16/2018 03:21 PM [link to qanonmap.github.io (secure)] Thread: q-list of abbreviations Thread: "DOT" Global Consciousness Project [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.” Quoted by Lincoln-written by John Lydgate THIS world is not conclusion; A sequel stands beyond,Invisible, as music, But positive, as sound.-Emily Dickinson |
deplorable but adorable davvi
User ID: 12716342 United States 02/16/2018 12:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: The Comedian :D No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Im a woman. And all I said was her pregnancy sounded like a nightmare and insisting on bringing a baby into the world at the expense of her own life is somewhat inconsiderate to the child. So no. I dont think this is all roses and sunshine and thats trolling?? Inconsiderate to the child???? Funny, but to me choosing one's self over an unborn child, and never allowing that child to live, is rather more inconsiderate. I hope if I am ever faced with such a choice that I will love my baby enough to give my life for hers/his. I hope I would have Tiger's courage. I am not that brave, but I love my children ! You are brave my dear Tiger and how special your daughter must feel knowing how much her mother loves her... |
deplorable but adorable davvi
User ID: 12716342 United States 02/16/2018 12:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | now i have story :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76205280 once me and my boyfriend were walking in the park. and he was talking about some memories that he had with a friend of his and he wasnt very happy about them. I was listenning and nodding as if i know anything..then there were some kids playing nearby and there was this old woman. and this old woman while we re passing just by said..do you have a kid naughty like this? showing us a kid probably her grandchild or something and then insisted do you have a kid. i laughed said no. and suddenly he got angry, when we just passed them a little. how dare she, he said. i said whaa? what happened? how does she know what we are going through in our lives regarding kids? what if we were a couple trying to have a kid and failing with it? what if we were a couple who wanted a kid and never be able to get one what if we were a couple with a lost kid. (ok i added that part..but to show you what he means) Look into your heart and soul to see what the meaning is of what this lady said. I lost a daughter to stillbirth. She would have been 44 years old tomorrow, February 17th. So I have a happy day today for my youngest daughter's birthday, but a sad day tomorrow as I remember another daughter who is not here with me. ermm do you think my heart knows better than my boyfriend? I would hope so. I could not have children and it did not bother me when I saw other children or shared in the joy ofother's expecting babies. That only led me to adoption. If I could not have children perhaps God had one of two out there for me and he did! I did not find it hard to say to anyone, No I can't have children. I have met so many special moms on this forum...Bless you all. |
StillDeplorableSerenaSeesAll
User ID: 75222910 United States 02/16/2018 12:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Whoa Tiger, what an awesome testimony! Quoting: Sleeping Giant Thanks for sharing, my friend. I'm glad you are here with us. I am glad to be here also. It has been such a Blessing to see my youngest daughter grow up, my older daughter's to grow up, and to live to see my 7 grandchildren. I am very Blessed !!! ============================================================= Noticing Miracles Is My Hobby The Bible - When you carry the Bible, Satan has a headache, when you open it, he collapses, when he sees you reading it, he loses his strength, AND when you stand on the Word of God, Satan can't hurt you! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74694658 United States 02/16/2018 12:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is a medically documented fact that my daughter was missing for 3 days. All that time I had at least a dozen ultrasounds. Call me what you will, but I am speaking the truth. I'm an ultrasonographer. How far along were you at that point? ULS 23 years ago was not very reliable. And techs were not academically trained in scanning since no one really understood the entirety of what US could do at that point. |
Kamchatka
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74694658 United States 02/16/2018 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is a medically documented fact that my daughter was missing for 3 days. All that time I had at least a dozen ultrasounds. Call me what you will, but I am speaking the truth. I'm an ultrasonographer. How far along were you at that point? ULS 23 years ago was not very reliable. And techs were not academically trained in scanning since no one really understood the entirety of what US could do at that point. Just noticed... the op say "about 3 months" That means 8-10 weeks gestational age. And because you're not sure of exact age, it's likely even younger/smaller. Size/dating was not realizable back then. And.. Sometimes the uterus is in a position that makes scanning difficult. (Retroverted). Early pregnancies (5 weeks) can be missed even today when scanned transabdominally. And especially when the equipment 24 years ago was so poor and low resolution. Just because they "couldnt find" her doesn't mean she was actually "gone." It means the equipment was typically low res. And likely that the tech...and yes, even the doctors...didn't know what they were doing. Most doctors today refuse to scan because it's a very difficult med exam to perform. And back, then, they did NOT know what they were doing. Nothing like today's scans In my years in medical, I've seen crazy things happen. I've seen doctors mistake pelvic kidneys for "complex masses." I've seen misdiagnosed anencephalic fetus ...where the baby was actually born full term without a head and no one ...not the tech, not the doctor...caught it. I've seen twin pregnancies missed. I've seen ectopics missed. Etc, etc... And those misdiagnoses occurred relatively recently I don't mean to offend. I know there is a lot of unknown and mystical reasons for things...for life. But in the medically speaking, your experience is something that can be easily explained in the medical world . |
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CAstro hik
User ID: 37467158 United States 02/16/2018 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Im a woman. And all I said was her pregnancy sounded like a nightmare and insisting on bringing a baby into the world at the expense of her own life is somewhat inconsiderate to the child. So no. I dont think this is all roses and sunshine and thats trolling?? sounds like it worked out - so... your point? yes, trolling. When you feel the need to pass negative judgement on an uplifting story, yes, that is trolling. Sounds like you are bitter and looking for someone to take it out on. Great story, OP. Glad you held in there and got the help you and your daughter needed. I have a birth story too and I feel I got some kind of spiritual assistance during her birth, as well. So happy your daughter got to be born and have her mom to raise her. |
**Aurora**
User ID: 73316671 United Kingdom 02/16/2018 01:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What a beautiful story you have. Your daughter sounds so incredibly precious and blessed. Thanks for sharing OP. God is very good and shows His love in the most amazing of ways DRESSED IN THE FULL ARMOUR OF GOD -Helmet of salvation -Breastplate of righteousness -Belt of truth -Sword of the Holy Spirit -Shield of faith -Sandals of the gospel |
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BleachedPink1111
User ID: 43600782 United States 02/16/2018 01:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Id be interested to hear more about your daughter now. It sounds to me like she was chosen by God from inception. Quoting: docsquat My youngest was born 1 day before the anniversary of my stillborn daughter. My youngest daughter was born with double toenails, one on top of another. My youngest was straight A all through school, always graduated at the top of her class, even in college. She skipped a grade, and could have skipped more, but for social reasons, I felt a 1 grade jump was enough. She is an Accountant with a Fortune 500 company. She is the kindest person you could ever meet. She puts others first, and her last. She has voluntarily helped to deliver donations to charities since she was able to walk. She was a volunteer swimming coach for younger children, since she was about 14, and a tutor and mentor. She had to give that up for her current job, but still helps out with charities. She is my right hand, and such a great helper in all respects.She never complains about anything, and never has a mean word to say about anyone. She has no enemies. Her friends cannot be numbered.Her friends come from all backgrounds, and are a bouquet of God's children. She is not a Bible thumping religious person, but her heart is true. When 911 happened she was in 1st grade. When the news hit, the kids in her classroom were hysterical, totally frightened. The Teacher could not get them to calm down. My daughter gathered her classmates together, and they prayed. They calmed down. There were no atheists in the public school that day, and no one complained about prayers. Aww, your daughter reminds me a lot of my daughter, who is only 5 so far (about to be 6). I hope someday mine will turn out just as great, and just as successful. I Have a little story of my daughter from before she was born. When I was pregnant with her, I told myself before going to bed one night, that I wanted to meet my daughter in a dream and see what she looks like. I believe it was that same night when I had the dream about her. She was in what felt like a class room setting, and her "teacher" (felt like a spirit guide to me) allowed my daughter to meet me. She ran up to me and gave me a big hug. She had really long, blonde/brunette hair that seemed kind of wild. That's all I remember from the dream. Fast forward a few years to when my daughter is old enough to where I can start to see her facial features and personality coming through. Around age 3 and onward, my daughter had a big thing with giving everyone hugs. She would hug her daycare classmates, her daycares teachers, and every time I picked her up from daycare she would run up to me and give me a big hug, just like in the dream. Her hair was super fine, and broke easily with a hairbrush, and took a while to grow in, and I would always notice girls her age would have 2-3x times longer hair than hers. Her hair has always been pretty wild looking, lol. But as she's getting older, her hair is finally past her shoulders and getting thicker. I think it was due to an Iron deficiency she had when she was younger. I had another acknowledgeable dream when I was pregnant: The night before my water broke, I had a dream that I was in the hospital sitting in a chair, hooked up to a machine with a bunch of wires. And the nurse was telling me "nothing is happening." >>>Well, the next night at around midnight before I was about to get into bed, my water broke. But I wasn't having any sort of contractions yet. So, we weren't sure if we should just go to the hospital right away, or just wait around until contractions started? So we decided to pack what we needed, and go to the hospital. Everything I had read said that a baby needs to come out within 24 hours of water breaking. We were admitted at 3am, and by noon the next day, STILL no contractions! So I believe it was around 1pm they decided to start the Pitocin and started hooking me up to all sorts of wires. Wires to my arm, wires up where the sun don't shine. Very similar to my dream, lol. She ended up being born right before midnight. I had 4 hours of just pushing at the end. I realized the time, and thought about the date: 3/12/12 and realized I liked that date and wanted her to be born on that date, so I did all I could to make sure she came out before midnight, lol. I thought 3/13/12 wouldn't have felt as good. Last Edited by Bleached1111 on 02/16/2018 01:15 PM |
redhed6971
User ID: 72089733 United States 02/16/2018 01:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Whoa never doubt the power of Christ. “Quite an experience to live in fear, isn't it? That's what it is to be a slave.” "Hello, I need a replacement filter for a Hoover Max Extract 60 Pressure Pro." “You actually slaughter each other over affairs of the spirit.” Da’an Earth-Final Conflict |