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Anonymous Coward User ID: 51586761 United States 02/16/2018 11:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For sharing, bless you Tiger, attacks come attacks go, but where He wants us, Thats the place We go If what I am saying was not the truth, they wouldn't attack me. Different opinions are just that, just as your truth is yours. So because somebody disagrees with you you are right? Don't use this illogical assumption that you are always right. God bless you |
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The Comedian :D
User ID: 75152937 United States 02/16/2018 11:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My youngest daughter was an "OOPS". I had just given all my baby stuff away 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant with her. :( Oh, I grew up with a bunch of girls toys thanks to two older sisters. I found solace in the cat toys. Saint Comedian, Patron Saint of Bringing the Butthurt to Dipshits ‘There are some assholes in the world that just need to be shot.’ - General Mattis, USMC, Secretary of Defense [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] "Subterfuge and social pressure are the wheel and fire of the 21st century" - Some asshole Legal Disclaimer: All comments are intended as humor and/or fiction and not advice, and not to be confused with any event or person, living or dead. |
The Comedian :D
User ID: 75152937 United States 02/16/2018 11:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Saint Comedian, Patron Saint of Bringing the Butthurt to Dipshits ‘There are some assholes in the world that just need to be shot.’ - General Mattis, USMC, Secretary of Defense [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] "Subterfuge and social pressure are the wheel and fire of the 21st century" - Some asshole Legal Disclaimer: All comments are intended as humor and/or fiction and not advice, and not to be confused with any event or person, living or dead. |
The Comedian :D
User ID: 75152937 United States 02/16/2018 11:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He has 3 days to consider the err of his ways. Amazing story, Tiger. Thank you for sharing. LJS FTW! Saint Comedian, Patron Saint of Bringing the Butthurt to Dipshits ‘There are some assholes in the world that just need to be shot.’ - General Mattis, USMC, Secretary of Defense [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] "Subterfuge and social pressure are the wheel and fire of the 21st century" - Some asshole Legal Disclaimer: All comments are intended as humor and/or fiction and not advice, and not to be confused with any event or person, living or dead. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75147420 United States 02/16/2018 11:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I was pregnant with my youngest, I was very sick. Even some of my pro-life friends told me that if I had an abortion, it would be OK, as my life was in danger. What kind of mother would I be, to sacrifice my child for myself? Quoting: tiger1 This is a long read, and I apologize in advance, but this must be told again. My daughter's story was in a 2 local newspapers years ago. Today is my youngest daughter's birthday. She is 23 today, and I was in my early 40's when she was born.I had a horrible pregnancy, sick all the time, a lot of complications. I had major abdominal surgery when I was pregnant with her. The doctor thought she was in the tube instead of the womb, when I was about 3 months pregnant. When they tried to do a laprascope, they discovered my abdomen was so full of scar tissue from previous surgeries that there was no way my womb could expand any more and the scope could not take care of it.So, I was sliced open from my belly button down to the bottom for them to remove the scar tissue. As for my daughter, they could not find her. She wasn't in the womb, and she wasn't in the tube, but the tests showed I was pregnant. This was on a Friday. They did repeat ultrasounds all weekend, and still couldn't find her. Monday morning, when they did another ultrasound, they found her, just where she was supposed to be, happily scooting around my womb. Where was she those 3 days? I will go into that at the end of my post. Fast forward to February 16, 1995. The incision from the massive surgery I had to remove the scar tissue, never healed up right. There was not one good day all through the entire pregnancy. The OB told me that if I could make it to at least December 12th, which is the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, that she would live.I carried her full term, to everyone's surprise, including the OB. I woke up the morning of that February 16th, swollen from head to toe like a puffer fish. I was not in labor, but I knew something was wrong. Even though I was sick all through the pregnancy, I had no swelling issues until that morning. I went right to the ER. They took me up to Labor and Delivery, and monitored me. I had no labor pains, and everything checked out OK. They could not find a reason why I suddenly swelled up. After a couple of hours,they told me to get dressed and go home. As soon as the doctor and nurse left the room so I could get dressed, I was hit with pain like I never had before. I screamed. The doctor and nurse came running back in. I was in labor, 3 minutes apart and 1 1/2 minute long contractions.The doctor grabbed a portable X-ray machine and did a quick pic which showed my daughter was coming out breech, feet first.They took my vitals, and they were almost non-existent. I was dying.The doctor and nurse grabbed my hospital bed and wheeled me down to the Operating Room.The doctor told me he could save my baby, but might not be able to save me. The last thing I said before losing consciousness, was for him to save my daughter and not worry about me. I was given a 1 out of 10 chance of making it, after my daughter was delivered by emergency c-section. By the Grace of God, I am here talking to you all today. Here is some more detail of the scar tissue surgery and all the events around this, and the after story. Just as the nurses were starting to wheel me out of the room for the scar tissue removal surgery/laprascope, a Priest who I knew, and had left a message for earlier, came in the door. I was anointed and my daughter was baptized by pouring Holy water on my belly.I left everything in God's hands, as to what would happen. As for my daughter, she was a very precocious child, starting to talk at 2 months old, the first word being "Momma". She could hold a conversation with an adult at 1 years old.When she was not quite 2 years old, I told her the story about what happened the day they took me down for surgery for the scar tissue, and couldn't find her. I told her she was gone for 3 days, until she finally showed up.She looked at me and smiled. She said "I was up in Heaven with a lot of other children. There was lots of animals to play with. It was so pretty ! Jesus came and served us all food at a real long table." I asked her why she came back. She said "because you needed me, Mommy". Thank you for sharing Tiger. What an amazing story. (Note- Lady Jane, didn’t see your post. Almost identical comment) |
Éireann
User ID: 73050092 Ireland 02/16/2018 11:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My youngest daughter was an "OOPS". I had just given all my baby stuff away 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant with her. :( Oh, I grew up with a bunch of girls toys thanks to two older sisters. I found solace in the cat toys. Thanks for that, Zedakah :) That was a good laugh! Eireann~ I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. - Galatians 2:20 |
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Zedakah
User ID: 75058951 United States 02/16/2018 11:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My youngest daughter was an "OOPS". I had just given all my baby stuff away 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant with her. :( Oh, I grew up with a bunch of girls toys thanks to two older sisters. I found solace in the cat toys. Thanks for that, Zedakah :) That was a good laugh! I now make sure my cats have the best toys just in case. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76205280 Turkey 02/16/2018 11:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | now i have story :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76205280 once me and my boyfriend were walking in the park. and he was talking about some memories that he had with a friend of his and he wasnt very happy about them. I was listenning and nodding as if i know anything..then there were some kids playing nearby and there was this old woman. and this old woman while we re passing just by said..do you have a kid naughty like this? showing us a kid probably her grandchild or something and then insisted do you have a kid. i laughed said no. and suddenly he got angry, when we just passed them a little. how dare she, he said. i said whaa? what happened? how does she know what we are going through in our lives regarding kids? what if we were a couple trying to have a kid and failing with it? what if we were a couple who wanted a kid and never be able to get one what if we were a couple with a lost kid. (ok i added that part..but to show you what he means) Look into your heart and soul to see what the meaning is of what this lady said. I lost a daughter to stillbirth. She would have been 44 years old tomorrow, February 17th. So I have a happy day today for my youngest daughter's birthday, but a sad day tomorrow as I remember another daughter who is not here with me. ermm do you think my heart knows better than my boyfriend? |
tiger1
(OP) User ID: 19262565 United States 02/16/2018 11:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Id be interested to hear more about your daughter now. It sounds to me like she was chosen by God from inception. Quoting: docsquat My youngest was born 1 day before the anniversary of my stillborn daughter. My youngest daughter was born with double toenails, one on top of another. My youngest was straight A all through school, always graduated at the top of her class, even in college. She skipped a grade, and could have skipped more, but for social reasons, I felt a 1 grade jump was enough. She is an Accountant with a Fortune 500 company. She is the kindest person you could ever meet. She puts others first, and her last. She has voluntarily helped to deliver donations to charities since she was able to walk. She was a volunteer swimming coach for younger children, since she was about 14, and a tutor and mentor. She had to give that up for her current job, but still helps out with charities. She is my right hand, and such a great helper in all respects.She never complains about anything, and never has a mean word to say about anyone. She has no enemies. Her friends cannot be numbered.Her friends come from all backgrounds, and are a bouquet of God's children. She is not a Bible thumping religious person, but her heart is true. When 911 happened she was in 1st grade. When the news hit, the kids in her classroom were hysterical, totally frightened. The Teacher could not get them to calm down. My daughter gathered her classmates together, and they prayed. They calmed down. There were no atheists in the public school that day, and no one complained about prayers. Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
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tiger1
(OP) User ID: 19262565 United States 02/16/2018 11:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For sharing, bless you Tiger, attacks come attacks go, but where He wants us, Thats the place We go If what I am saying was not the truth, they wouldn't attack me. Different opinions are just that, just as your truth is yours. So because somebody disagrees with you you are right? Don't use this illogical assumption that you are always right. God bless you A disagreement is one thing, but to be nasty and hateful is another thing entirely. Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
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tiger1
(OP) User ID: 19262565 United States 02/16/2018 12:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My youngest daughter was an "OOPS". I had just given all my baby stuff away 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant with her. :( Oh, I grew up with a bunch of girls toys thanks to two older sisters. I found solace in the cat toys. I was the only girl in a family of brothers. I climbed trees, built forts, and went fishing. I didn't care for dolls, overall. Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
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tiger1
(OP) User ID: 19262565 United States 02/16/2018 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, we ban people who are pointless adolescent vandals and trolls. Do you know what those words mean, little guy? Im a woman. And all I said was her pregnancy sounded like a nightmare and insisting on bringing a baby into the world at the expense of her own life is somewhat inconsiderate to the child. So no. I dont think this is all roses and sunshine and thats trolling?? So the solution is to kill the child? Praise God from Whom all Blessings flow !!! |
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User ID: 12716342 United States 02/16/2018 12:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is a medically documented fact that my daughter was missing for 3 days. All that time I had at least a dozen ultrasounds. Call me what you will, but I am speaking the truth. What a wonderful, unselfish, loving person you are and may G-d bless you and your wonderful daughter always... Thank you for sharing. |