Married People have the Best Sex

Many couples believe it’s essential to try and “rekindle the flame” or “recapture the magic” of when they first got together, but Perel believes that’s an error, even though “the romantic ideology is tenacious,” she says.

The fact of the matter is, it’s impossible to recreate the feelings you both had when first getting to know each other, so it’s a waste of time trying.

Instead, you should be focussing on the positives brought about by being in a stable, committed relationship

[link to www.independent.co.uk]