I am a white female who dates outside my race because white men feel they are entitled to a woman without children!

OP:

The problem is not white guys, the problem is your own self-esteem.

You project expected rejection and therefore receive it, and then you nail it down to "Race" because deep down, you are a racist and this lack of self-esteem makes you choose what you personally believe is a lesser being, something you "deserve"

In turn, these "Lesser" choices will prove out, and one way in which their "lesser" traits will manifest is in the abuse of your children and bad role-modeling with things like unemployment, crime, prison, drugs, sexual abuse, etc.

Your children will then perpetuate the cycle.

That's okay, you don't really love them anyway. Again, you feel you don't deserve love. Therefore, the kids are neglected and verbally abused and denied a father figure to ensure they will grow up not loving you, based on your own broken lack of self worth.

If you loved them at all, you would put them up for adoption if they're not already ruined.

You are wrong about one thing here, many of us white guys have in fact dated women like you. I remember one incident years ago, I really liked the women but did not appreciate her lazy spoiled son. The woman's son was actually quite intelligent but he used that to manipulate his mother, I of course being a man who believed that real men learn to make their way in the world tried to call her attention to this state of affairs. Of course she would have none of this, her son was as pure as the driven snow and that is what led to me going my own way.

This is a troll from OK Cupid to get all you GLP Cucks to join. Well done troll.

OP dokey!

Face the fact that because of your life choises you will not get a young white man. Try someone in his 40s who also has children from a previous marriage/relationship. Good luck!

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Since i put onto my dating profile that i have two children and if you don't like that you can go to hell i get almost no messages from good looking white men, everyone who messages me is non-white or ugly fat white desperate guys. I'm sick of it honestly

If you were a White widow with two White children and had your tubes tied, I'd seriously consider dating and even marrying you, though I'd take no responsibility for your children. I'd treat them well, but they're not MY children.

I'm looking for the right woman as partner, sexmate and helpmate. I'd do a lot for the right woman, and nothing for the wrong one. I won't get involved with any drama for any reason.

Finland...a man in his 40's with kids from another is a seasoned self educated man. (Even if it is from making mistakes). Why would he in the prime of his life start fooling with women who can't decide what race they like. Sounds like she needs a man from finland. They all look and sound like eckhart tolle without the brilliance...so maybe that wont work...thats probably why all the woman are running to the loser militant refugees out there..perhaps

We expect you to focus on raising your kids instead of finding the next dong to fill your sag-hole.

Last Edited by Literally Hitler on 07/01/2017 02:32 PM

Who is asking you to turn down men to make white men feel better?

I don't care what you do.

But unless you grow and become a responsible adult, other responsible adult people wont touch you, no matter the race.

I can guarantee you that an attarctive 24 year old WIDOW with 2 children, has none of the problems you describe.

The more she focuses on the kids, the more they are verbally abused, and the longer they lack a father figure the more they are going to go bad/astray.

I'll bet mommy is a smoker and probably has a tattoo of a marijuana leaf somewhere on her body.

The white race it's doomed! So the Juices can be proud of all their satanic work!

It's probably that you are a land wale.

Why should a guy settle for your already used and returned merchandise? Why should they take on your former fuck buddy's responsibilities?

You're a self centered retarded cunt.

The non whites don't want a long term relationship with you. They know like any other male you are in a desperate position. They like women like you because it's easy prey. But keep a track because there will be many as you find out its only your easy honey pot they want and in a lot of instances your kids....have fun with it, because the seeds you sowed a while back are about to bare fruit. It's your kids I feel sorry for..poor babies.

These "other races" going to provide for those kids or just "tap that ass"?

Who pays for dinner?

Is Mom proud?

I'd have to agree with this. You are a little young to have two kids on your own, and your choices do reflect negatively on you.

That said, don't just settle for any guy that will have you either. There are plenty of white men out there if that's what you want, maybe divorced with kids of their own, who might want a blended family someday.

But first your focus should be on taking care of those two kids yourself. Do you make a good enough living to support them yourself? You need to. Focus on that and being a good mother. Don't just expect some new guy to come along and rescue you from your situation.

What happened to the father of your children?

You can meet a guy that also has a family.

You are young and pretty.

A little bit older guy with kids is perfect for you :)

Don't listen to the mean people.

We need more cute blondie babies,love them.

This is hilarious, notice she says that non whites are the only ones that message her? White men never message her. How come she can't put in some effort and message a man she is looking for, if she wants a white guy on the dating site, she can look for what she wants and message the guy first.

Her passive attitude is repulsive. Not only is she passive about not going for what she wants, she gets a passive aggressive anger for the men who don't message her, as if she is entitled to having good quality men approach her without any effort from her side.

fathers,fixed it for you

No i do get messages from white guys but only fat ugly and desperate ones wanting to buy me flowers before we even met which I am NOT attracted to even in the slightest, not all the non-white guys who msg me are nice looking either but some are ok.

and about me messaging first well i do do that and they do reply but when they find out i have children they say not what they are looking for n stop replying to me as if it's a judgement call against me for daring to have children.

LOL, you fucking serious? Maybe you should change the "go to hell" part. That would turn off many guys right there, even if they were cool with you having kids. It sounds like you have an attitude, and guys can pick up on that right away. No wonder you're getting a bunch of rejects messaging you...


Women like you give the rest of us a bad name.

And why are you so concerned with finding more dick?
Where the hell is the daddy? ESPECIALLY when you have 2 kids with him? Or if they are from different men, you are a whore.

How about this? Forget about dating right now until your kids are older. Grow up. The only thing you are doing is exposing your children to questionable men who might do harm to your children someday. Put them first. Stop frequenting dating sites and go get a fucking hobby.

and a tramp stamp, maybe an african tribal symbol.


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touche.

Did I just read

So because quality white men turn you down you get your revenge by making your pussy an open house for pigmented penis

Those pigmented men don't care that you have kids because they see you as desperate and an easy source of the premium white pussy the crave.

Hooking up with them is like playing Russian roulette with your kid's life. They love getting back at the white man by snuffing out his seed - happens all the time!


You are destined to become a statistic soon enough you selfish whore!

:GTFO:

The thing about you single moms is you are a monster whichever way you want to look at it. Unless you are a widow, you are in either category:

1. You left a good, responsible, stable man whom fathered your children because he wasn't exciting enough, wasn't buff enough, didn't make you feel special enough, wasn't dominant enough to fulfill your sick 50 shades of gray fantasies.

In this case you are a monster for leaving a good man, and you don't deserve another.

2. You left an asshole who is not a good husband or father, but was exciting, dominant, and aggressive so you were attracted to him enough to have children with him.

In this case a good man doesn't want to have an jerk guy like this around so much, it's a danger to his physical health. And it shows that she has a dysfunctional attraction to aggressive low quality men, and a good man will not fulfill her sexual needs. She might pretend to be attracted to good stable men, but it is a lie, and at some point she will leave the good man or cheat on him with the brute again.

You see, either situation is not an enticing relationship for a nice high quality man. So you must resort to thugs who will hit on you.

I don't know what happened in your life with the previous husband.

If you get in touch with the older white men that are divorced / widower then that's a good match because you both have responsibilities for your kids so you have the same schedule in life.

Good luck and don't listen to the mean comments they are jealous that you are young :) and still have a chance to fix your life :)