Sex BEFORE a first date is normal now

Thats cool to be talented and stay busy but thats during the day , What do you have left to enjoy the night? And the thousands of nights you still have left of your life on earth. Sex only lasts 20 min to an hour and then what?

I call it cheating but they personally referred to it as homewrecking, which is a sort of specialized form of cheating which in this case does not accurately apply to the situation. It's thoroughly stupid, is what it is.

Millenials are mostly very socially awkward. If there is a lot of sexual chemistry and you make them wait for sex... they will fall for you... hard. If you are a millenial this is a hint. If you are not it's a warning. Sone things never change. Keep this in mind.

My theory is that due to all these millennials being so emotionally unstable is due to this exact reason. Sex is just not sex. It's a powerful transfer of energy between the two that are entwined. And due to them basically fucking anything willing that has two feet, they really have lost all conceptions of reality because they are feeling all the sad soils inside them.


Such a lost generation.

Last Edited by Nikel-n-Dime on 02/07/2017 11:47 AM

A life strategy of people who can't afford a real life so they maintain the illusion of affluence by perpetuating adolescence well past middle age.

Exactly! The biggest difference now, is that you can text people, snap them, whatsapp them, whatever, and you get to talk a lot before going on a date. So when you go on a date if you find the chemistry, then you just seal the deal.

And now, since everything is on social media, I guess people are now figuring this out?

I was dating in the late 90's and back in those days I remember exchanging numbers with females and many times I would spend hours with them on the phone trying to seduce them so that on the first date, I would get lucky. Now instead of talking on the phone, you just send selfies, snaps, whatever. same crap, different technology which makes it a lot faster.

These people don't realize the damage they're doing to themselves with sexual immorality. They open themselves up to STDs and unwanted pregnancies. They also separate themselves from God by living in sin. Pray for them.

I'd much rather have the easy lay than no lay. And I'm beyond believing that a difficult girl will ever put out. Therefore, if I don't get laid on the first date at the latest, it's "NEXT". No point in wasting time and money just chatting up a girl that might never put out at all.

Obviously, you've never had sex. For me, it lasts three days unless work interferes.

But we need a scapegoat generation to make us feel better about ourselves!!!!

By the way, I'm a female but it no doubt works both ways. Sex without passion is just exercise. Save the flings for someone you don't want a future with.

3 day? Your hand is going to crap up and you'll go blind.

well to each their own right? I dont need an easy lay to get laid. I am just saying that I dont want a pig, I dont want to fuck a pig or kiss a pig. If a woman is willing to fuck b4 or on first date then they have no morals. I think its pathetic when guys fall for that idea the woman only did cuz they were "Special" lol.

SHe is a slut, and she is not only a slut with you but also with every other man she meets.

Shuuuuuuoooooooot!!! I have a culturally, challenged, millennial niece that believes in making not one, but two babies with the same guy before she dates him! Her parents dare not make a stand against her choices for fear of alienating her. To bring more wood to the fire, she is almost daily posting memes on her fb page showing her love/hate delusional side for this black dude.

Top that!

sex lasts 3 days huh Romeo? wow arent you quite the stud? no matter how many bullshit stories you make up your tiny pecker wont get any bigger

Last Edited by NeKromAncy on 02/07/2017 12:02 PM

I'd rather not. Maybe it's time for the shotgun, or at least some pills in her food.

Lol...I never dated.

But had plenty enough sex..

Cute.

It's not sex(IMHO) unless it involves a man and at least one woman. Preferably only one. And yes, three days in bed with a hot woman with bathroom and meal breaks is quite doable and quite lovely. Sleeping naked and entangled counts too. There's a lot of possibilities between two bodies that need to be explored, and I never get bored of any aspect of a hot woman. Conversation is entirely optional.

This is very sad regardless of race of the guy. She is obviously in a downward spiral and needs a therapist, counselor, coach, something...

Maybe you can get her into rehab mainly for the counseling.

I don't think its a coincidence that this is the generation that is fatherless, emotionally or otherwise. Children need their fathers.

Comedian is so funny because he denies Jewish involvement in the decline of the White race.

I think 'dates' are viewed differently among millennials. I know a 19 year old female who had been in an almost 3 year relationship and still hadn't been on a 'date'.

Taking a young lady out for dinner and a movie is just not as common for millennials as it was. They 'hang out', text and have hook ups.

It's actually a good thing for older guys, because you can really impress the hell out of them by taking them out and having a nice dinner, showing them more attention than your cell phone and just treating a woman like you were raised to.

We live in great times, I banged 4 different chicks in less than 2 weeks. Thanks to Tinder, Whatsapp and facebook.
10 years ago I would be sick and depressed for months when a girlfriend dumped me, now she is replaced the same night and forgotten a week later.

And you're not truly interested in these girls because they were so ridiculously easy to get. Admit it. If one of them breaks up with you, you will not care even half as much... not even for a minute.

Nothing wrong with the hook up culture. I can respect a woman more if she wants sex with a guy she wants and has it,than wanting that sex and not having it because of fear of what others think of her.
A free thinking individual that is aware of her own needs and desires and is not afraid to fulfill them. Having sex does not define who a person is. The other things we do in life does that.
Most people don't agree with it because of some words written on a 2000 year old papyrus based on a religion that made women a second class citizen,or on men who have tiny egos, who if they start a relationship with this women will always think that they might not be the best she has ever had. I suffer no delusions in this matter and it doesn't bother me in the least.
I would rather have a woman that leaves me lying on the bed a wasted mass of jello because she just fucked my brains out than some no nothing that left me thinking meh and I don't care how she got there.
Just because a woman is sexually free does not mean they can not be happy in a relationship or love or be faithful. One thing has nothing to do with the other.

I've been with about 20 women the past two years, and only went on dates first with 5 of them(one was just a bar though). The rest we fucked as soon as we met. Pretty sweet!

Blaming just one ethno-religious group is irrational, and misses too many targets.

The enemy is much broader than your silly fantasy holds.

nasty AWALT

I agree! The problem is she won't. She sees this as being acceptable in today's society and yet we see her slowly dissolving away as a person from the inside out. No identity, no care. I'll see, within a few months, if this is "approachable" without it blowing up in my face. Thank you for your concern...

Millenials ask me out... in person. I not on Tinder or any other "dating" site. Last year, a 24 year old took a humiliating fall after trying to show off for me on a skate board which he later admitted. We talked for about 15 minutes. He pretty much asked me to be his girlfriend. It was very odd. I didnt end up calling.

Millenials ask me out. I believe that they find it hard to resist a challenge. I can't explain the phenomenon any other way. I'm probably a jerk for not calling skateboard guy. I liked him as a person but he wasn't really my type for a relationship.

Tinder is stupid. A millenial showed me his Tinder app a year or so ago and the age limit was 13.

Yes 13. We were both shocked.

I dnot know if that's still the case. Maybe someone that has the app on their phone can check it for me. I truly hope they raised the age limit.