I'm so so so sad My Mom passed away today | |
deplorable but adorable davvi
User ID: 12716342 United States 01/01/2017 01:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just want to put it out there in the Universe! Quoting: Lilac.Nights She was very sick for a very long time, she suffered so much. She was so beautiful, but such a tormented soul. She is no longer my Mom, now she is part of something else...and I'm so sad! I can't even go to the funeral, she is on the other side of the world. She passed away from pneumonia in just 10 days. We had our difference and fights and went without talking for long periods of time. But we were also close and helped each other. I was planning to spend a whole year back home with her, I was planning to refurnish her apartment, get her a new laptop and do some short vacations around Europe..now I'm going back to an empty house...and I will never see her seating in her kitchen with her small tv and her laptop. I MISS YOU ALREADY!!!! I want to remember her like this forever: I don't think I'm going to write here again...I'm too sad today! I am terribly sorry about your loss. I lost my mom in Sept 2016 and I am still not over it. We were best friends. She had dementia for a few years before and I thought I had already lost her, but here death hit me with a fury that I had no idea was coming. Quoting: The deplorable steelseries Talk to people. It apparently helps. ( my son tells me) I can't even think of her without crying. I send my thoughts and prayers to both of you... I am so sorry. |
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User ID: 71345460 United States 01/01/2017 01:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just want to put it out there in the Universe! Quoting: Lilac.Nights She was very sick for a very long time, she suffered so much. She was so beautiful, but such a tormented soul. She is no longer my Mom, now she is part of something else...and I'm so sad! I can't even go to the funeral, she is on the other side of the world. She passed away from pneumonia in just 10 days. We had our difference and fights and went without talking for long periods of time. But we were also close and helped each other. I was planning to spend a whole year back home with her, I was planning to refurnish her apartment, get her a new laptop and do some short vacations around Europe..now I'm going back to an empty house...and I will never see her seating in her kitchen with her small tv and her laptop. I MISS YOU ALREADY!!!! I want to remember her like this forever: I don't think I'm going to write here again...I'm too sad today! Communism is for LOSERS Communism is SLAVERY Fuck Joe Biden |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 59560698 United States 01/01/2017 02:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My mom passed away 5 years ago today. She will (like your mom) be forever missed, and she will (like your mom) be loved forever more. My sincerest and heart-felt condolences for you and your family. But as long as she lives in your heart, she will never be truly "gone". Your mom is beautiful, by the way |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73188307 United States 01/01/2017 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm so sorry for your loss. It's very very hard. I lost my mom last June, she was 95 and killed in a car crash I block from her house. She was with my sister, who just barely survived. They were hit head on by drunk illegals in Mesa Az. Lots of other ppl were injuried. Mom was in good space for 95, I think she would have lived several more years had she not been taken from us . |
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R.P. McMurphy
User ID: 73140680 United States 01/01/2017 02:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your mother was very beautiful.... I'm very sorry for your loss. Last Edited by Mike Ehrmantraut on 01/01/2017 02:41 PM "Moral of the story is I chose a half measure when I should have gone all the way. I'll never make that mistake again. ==== ESTJ-a (Executive) 93% Extroverted, 82% Observant, 83% Thinking, 82% Judging,72% Assertive ==== |
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User ID: 72862546 United States 01/01/2017 02:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Condolences and prayers to you. I lost my father two weeks ago from today, I know what you're going through. Jude 1:4 "For there are certain men crept in privily, even they who were of old written of beforehand unto this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ." |
anonymous coward User ID: 70752978 United States 01/01/2017 02:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She definitely will signal you with perhaps a scent of her perfume or something else to let you know she is fine, and her ONLY heartache is seeing you miss her. Take care of yourself because people often have weakened immune systems after the loss of a parent, for quite some time. Do as little driving s you need to because you are not as alert as before and are at risk. Relax and do something you would have done with her she will be there. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73704100 Canada 01/01/2017 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just want to put it out there in the Universe! Quoting: Lilac.Nights She was very sick for a very long time, she suffered so much. She was so beautiful, but such a tormented soul. She is no longer my Mom, now she is part of something else...and I'm so sad! I can't even go to the funeral, she is on the other side of the world. She passed away from pneumonia in just 10 days. We had our difference and fights and went without talking for long periods of time. But we were also close and helped each other. I was planning to spend a whole year back home with her, I was planning to refurnish her apartment, get her a new laptop and do some short vacations around Europe..now I'm going back to an empty house...and I will never see her seating in her kitchen with her small tv and her laptop. I MISS YOU ALREADY!!!! I want to remember her like this forever: :mom 2: I don't think I'm going to write here again...I'm too sad today! I am terribly sorry about your loss. I lost my mom in Sept 2016 and I am still not over it. We were best friends. She had dementia for a few years before and I thought I had already lost her, but here death hit me with a fury that I had no idea was coming. Quoting: The deplorable steelseries Talk to people. It apparently helps. ( my son tells me) I can't even think of her without crying. I send my thoughts and prayers to both of you... I am so sorry. :5-14 HaBi: Thank you so very much. I never thought I would have this much difficulty dealing with this. I so feel for Lilac in her grief. And wish her a peace I still am seeking. |
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Kirk
User ID: 52801094 United States 01/01/2017 03:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Death is terrible for the living. I console myself with knowing pain is no longer theirs, they are with the Lord and I will see them again up yonder when my time has run. There will be a plate set for you at your Heavenly Father's table and a candle in the window. Remember the advice and good times you shared. Government is a body largely ungoverned. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70051072 Italy 01/01/2017 03:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry but remember that this is part of life. Without death, life has no meaning. As you age, you will see your own life fade away as places you used to go or houses you used to live in get torn down. Everything in life is either a Blessing or a Lesson. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70775995 United States 01/01/2017 03:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just want to put it out there in the Universe! Quoting: Lilac.Nights She was very sick for a very long time, she suffered so much. She was so beautiful, but such a tormented soul. She is no longer my Mom, now she is part of something else...and I'm so sad! If it helps you any, imagine what the son of actress Debbie Reynolds and brother of Carrie Fisher is going through right now. He lost two major members of his family back-to-back, deaths separated by only one day. One loss was totally unexpected - since a 60-year-old person isn't as likely to die as an older one - the other death possibly triggered by the first one and thereby adding to the sadness. Life and hard reality really will do a number on all of us, all the time or some of the time, often waiting to pounce without any forewarning. |
Éireann
User ID: 73050092 Ireland 01/01/2017 03:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Though you may feel a deep sadness in your heart, rest confident in the fact that your mother is not living in fear anymore. She just had the most beautiful experience a human being can have. The release from fear and union with Divine Love. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45377329 Peace be to you friend. AC - You've said everything I couldn't put into words. Don't worry, Lilac. We're here for you and there's no reason to reply. Grief is a heavy weight for one to carry, but together we can make it lighter for you. Eireann~ I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me. - Galatians 2:20 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73240262 United States 01/01/2017 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lilac, my words will never ease the loss of your mom but i do believe SHE would definitely press ahead in a kind of silent strength. you will always be her daughter,the same way she remains your mother. ___ now i don't know of any way to say this beyond the fact that not everyone wants people all around them when they are dying or want to burden their family w/it. this may have been her way and in her heart her way of keeping it simple and less distressing. my own beloved but tough as nails grandmother even said to close the door and we knew she wanted to be alone. she didn't even want a "wake" and that's another story. PS my dad passed on new years day the same after a quick illness. |
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User ID: 73708922 United States 01/01/2017 03:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Always sad to lose a Mom, prayers for you Lilac and others. Until you do, you can't even imagine the pain "It's a friendly friendly world" (Andy Kaufman) Calm seas do not a sailor make, Nor easy horses, a horseman. And Jesus was a sailor when he walked upon the water And he spent a long time watching from his lonely wooden tower and when He could be certain only drowning men could see Him- Leonard Cohen |