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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70644653 United States 12/24/2016 11:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am praying for you, and love you. Please believe that you are not alone! There are many of us here, lonely, and sad but we continue to go on, because of a belief much greater than all of us. Do not despair! My God loves you and needs you. As do I. Please continue on. You have a purpose. |
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uh... User ID: 73664518 United States 12/24/2016 11:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm sorry for your pain. Sounds like your struggling with some demons!! I prayed for death a few years ago, going though a messy divorce. I had this ideation that God needed to take me and my 9 yr old son out of this world in a car wreck. It was my hope that neither of us would suffer. Low and behold, we were in a near head on collision not long after that, within weeks. Driving down a country road, I'd just read a letter that my attorney was dropping my divorce case because we couldn't find my husband. I was hopeless, angry, and feeling defeated by life. I came around a curve going downhill and there's a car in the wrong lane coming straight at us. With a ditch on both sides and another car just behind him in the other lane, I swerved and clipped his front end. Our impala rolled 6-7 times according to an eye witness and we broke a fence post and landed on a telephone pole. The entire passengers side of my car was caved in and I could not get out. My son was unconscious and I crawled out over him in the back seat. Shortly thereafter he came to, complaining of back pain. I could feel the hairline fracture in my arm and we were rushed to the hospital. All reports came back clear-minus the fracture that didn't need treatment and whiplash. I know God sent an angel to protect us and that was my wake up call!!! Lesson learned...be careful what you ask for. Don't let evil win!! Your in control of your own peace of mind and you just have to find a way to block everything else out. Speaking is healing. Your mind is more powerful than you could possibly imagine. Feed it well and do not dwell on the negative. Don't let the wicked steal your peace-evil seeks to kill, steal, and destroy!! I spent the last few years staying busy with school and a new career. My children are my focus now. If you need help, do not be afraid to ask for it...someplace outside of GLP where they're just deleting it. Peace be with you & Merry Christmas!! Thanks for listening to my story. Quoting: heartsonfire UH...THANK YOU ..THIS HELPS...AND I HOPE/PRAY IT HELPS WHOEVER IT 'NEEDS' TO....I'M STRUGGLIN WITH X MAS HERE AND NOTHIN AT ALL LIKE SUIDICE...MORE WITH THE ANGER...'SPEAKING IS HEALING'...WOW, I SENT AN EMAIL TO A RELATIVE WHO IM NOT HAPPY WITH...AND I FEEL BETTER AND INSTEAD OF THE USUAL FAST SNARKY RESPONSE..IM GETTING SILENCE WHICH MEANS THAT THEY ARE THINKING...IT'S A GOOD THING RATHER THAN...A QUICK QUIP IN 'RETORT'...I SENT IT YESTERDAY...BUT YOUR COMMENT REALLY REIFIES OR REIFYS IT.. THANKS FOR BEING CONSIDERATE AND MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU AND YOURS! CAPMAN |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72588113 United States 12/24/2016 11:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm sorry for your pain. Quoting: heartsonfire Sounds like your struggling with some demons!! I prayed for death a few years ago, going though a messy divorce. I had this ideation that God needed to take me and my 9 yr old son out of this world in a car wreck. It was my hope that neither of us would suffer. Low and behold, we were in a near head on collision not long after that, within weeks. Driving down a country road, I'd just read a letter that my attorney was dropping my divorce case because we couldn't find my husband. I was hopeless, angry, and feeling defeated by life. I came around a curve going downhill and there's a car in the wrong lane coming straight at us. With a ditch on both sides and another car just behind him in the other lane, I swerved and clipped his front end. Our impala rolled 6-7 times according to an eye witness and we broke a fence post and landed on a telephone pole. The entire passengers side of my car was caved in and I could not get out. My son was unconscious and I crawled out over him in the back seat. Shortly thereafter he came to, complaining of back pain. I could feel the hairline fracture in my arm and we were rushed to the hospital. All reports came back clear-minus the fracture that didn't need treatment and whiplash. I know God sent an angel to protect us and that was my wake up call!!! Lesson learned...be careful what you ask for. Don't let evil win!! Your in control of your own peace of mind and you just have to find a way to block everything else out. Speaking is healing. Your mind is more powerful than you could possibly imagine. Feed it well and do not dwell on the negative. Don't let the wicked steal your peace-evil seeks to kill, steal, and destroy!! I spent the last few years staying busy with school and a new career. My children are my focus now. If you need help, do not be afraid to ask for it...someplace outside of GLP where they're just deleting it. Peace be with you & Merry Christmas!! Thanks for listening to my story. Merry Christmas. |
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NowIhavetothinkofaname
User ID: 73665272 Australia 12/25/2016 12:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But if you're struggling at Christmas with your life; then there's lots of people to talk to. NowIhavetothinkofanameohnoithurts It's all bull! Nevertheless, the ruler is not truly wise who cannot discern evils before they develop themselves, and this is a faculty given to few. Niccolo Machiavelli Karma is funny, people who kick dogs usually get bitten. If someone doesn't add value to your life, then that someone shouldn't be a part of it. You can always trust people to do whatever is in their own interests. It is certain wastelands will be brought under cultivation. |
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heartsonfire
(OP) User ID: 73496898 United States 12/25/2016 10:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the ignorant one who remains hidden, yet leaves bad karma with name calling: Let me start by saying, I am far from selfish...In fact, I work as a nurse and give everything I have to my my children, including doing without so that they have nice things. Almost all of my spare time is spent with either them or the rest of my family. Here is an interesting article regarding the stigmatiism on mental illness and suicide...just remember that these people feel everyone is better off without them. They don't see any clearer direction and many of them are empathetic-taking on feelings of others to the point they can no longer sustain balance. Ex..."The Green Mile" “Selfish” has to be one of the most common adjectives people think of when thinking about suicide. Those of us who are involved in mental health advocacy could probably rant at you for hours about how this word perpetuates the stigma that mental illness and suicide carry in our society, how useless and counterproductive it is to accuse a suicidal person of being “selfish,” and so on. In fact, if you get nothing else out of this post, I hope you reconsider using that word to describe suicide if you’ve done so before. But I can understand where this sentiment comes from. While everyone loses loved ones at some point in their lives, relatively few people experience suicidality first-hand. For this reason, people understand the latter situation much less than the former. Faced with the thought that someone you love might kill themselves and put you through all the resulting grief just because of some inner turmoil that you can’t see or understand, it makes sense that you might feel that suicide is selfish. At the same time, though, conceptualizing suicide as a “selfish act” sends the message that people somehow “owe it” to their loved ones to stay alive despite immense emotional pain. When you say that suicide is “selfish,” you’re implying–even if you don’t mean to–that the individual’s pain, as well as their potential to improve, isn’t what matters. What matters is how they’ll make the people around them feel. I don’t mean to discount the grief that people feel when someone they love commits suicide–that’s real, valid, and deserves attention. And, obviously, I believe that people should not commit suicide. But I believe that because I also believe that people can recover from the pain that’s causing them to consider suicide, not because they owe it to others to live. What all of this comes down to is that most people do not (and perhaps cannot) understand what actually goes through a suicidal person’s mind. Maybe they assume that suicidal people are just sad the way all of us sometimes get sad, except maybe a bit more so. (I honestly don’t know how mentally healthy people think about suicide because I haven’t been one for a while.) It would indeed be rather selfish to put your friends and family through so much pain just because you felt sad one day. But that’s not how suicide works. The way I see it, the tragedy of suicide is not (or is not only) the fact that an individual’s suicide also hurts others. Rather, it’s that the individual could have found a way to heal, be happy, and live out the rest of his or her life. Calling suicide a “selfish” thing to do erases that latter tragedy and implies that our primary purpose in life is not to create a meaningful and worthwhile life for ourselves, but to keep our friends and family happy at all costs. Our first priority should be to convince those who want to take their own lives that those lives are intrinsically valuable and should be preserved for their own sake. Only when they’ve accepted that premise can they even begin to think clearly about their obligations and interactions with other people. Telling a suicidal person that suicide is “selfish” only reinforces the guilt they already feel. People should choose to live because their lives feel worth living to them, not out of a sense of obligation towards others. Are you self aware, self-enlightened or do you portray your weakness off on others? Just something to think about... |
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. User ID: 68896267 Australia 06/28/2017 04:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so his wife was spared the horror Was fucking selfish. Not explaining your actions to anybody who would give a shit about you, before you go, is fucking selfish Making our beauties in the care service industries clean up the aftermath of you offing yourself is fucking selfish Wasting a body pumping full of blood and usable biological material is fucking selfish |