Beware the Narcissists Sociopaths Psychopaths!

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i think i read that is common...i guess part of the gaslighting that seems to go along with narcissistic behavior

gaslighting is TRULY evil

i dont know if narcissists are born or made, but i think people who gaslight others were definitely born EVIL

Did you always know of your personality disorder? Have you come out to anyone?

Narcissism was brought to my attention about ten years ago.

I have always been smart. I even went to a special school.

My life is like driving behind someone going 10 miles an hour in a 55mph zone blocking both lanes all the damn time.

I have studied lots of things, experienced lots of things, and feel I have mastered and overcome my narcissism, and when I saw your postings, wanted to jump on it and share my experience and knowledge.

I’ve described this look before–I’ve seen it on my mother’s face and it gave me nightmares for weeks. I saw it once on my ex’s face when he was drunk and angry. It’s not so much a demonic look (which has a sort of life to it) as a dead, lifeless look that is far worse. It’s a malignant look that makes you want to get away from them fast. Like there’s nothing inside them except an vast and endless black void of nothingness. It’s like standing at the precipice of a black hole, and what can be more terrifying than some nameless void that can suck you into itself–and can even swallow light?

Many people have mentioned the intense stare a psychopathic person will fix you with, even when they are trying to charm you into trusting them. During the “wooing” phase, you may think this intense stare indicates attentiveness and strong interest in you as a person, but actually all they’re interested in is how they can use you and later destroy you. Make no mistake–they are predators out for the kill. If you have met someone who seems to stare at you excessively, or in a predatory way that makes you uneasy, that person is probably a psychopath or malignant narcissist trying to get their hooks into you. RUN LIKE HELL.
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narcis are scrappers and will use any information they have at any time to achieve anything, so yes, i have told others before.

the stone face. yes. i can do that.

I appreciate that!

It's especially bad if they can just try to blast you with microwaves when the narcissist feels neglected, irritated or bored with their "victim".

On the other hand, it is equally negative for the narcissist to be so obsessed and/or addicted to their victim that their whole life tends to revolve around them. They created their own imprisonment - for both the victim and the narcissist. It is a two-way street...

Psychopathic narcissists tend to view people as mechanical objects to be tinkered with. Or more kind of like pets or toys that they bond with initially, but become trapped with later. Once the narcissist is stung somehow, it becomes a vindictive power trip to find a way to get rid of the victim. Usually one can break up, move away or file for a divorce and/or get a restraining order.

Others are not so lucky....

Narcissistic abusers can attack at any given moment, using their choice weapons of sarcasm, condescending remarks, namecalling, and blameshifting whenever they perceive you as a threat or whenever they need entertainment in the form of an emotional reaction. They can also use their nonverbal language in the form of a sadistic smirk, the cold deadness in their eyes while professing to love you, their bored, sulky looks or their cruel laughter to bully you into believing that you are inferior to them.
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The NSP will try do everything in their power to convince you and everyone around you and themselves that you are the NSP. Even if they are the abuser, it's how they get their profoundly disturbed ego fed. Their ego is so threatened by goodness they get addictive pleasure out of destroying and manipulating others for ego inflation because there is no other way towards identity validation.

They have no identity of their own, so they morph and mold their interests to mirror those they use and abuse.

They are often criminals,sex and porn and substance addicts, drifters, and most frequently parasites living off of those they manipulate,trick,and fool. They get a high of off physical violence. They seek out vulnerabilities which gives them a temporary leg up. They are frequently domestic abusers and felons who think thselves superior, but they are living lie because they are soulless and empty inside, so they prey on thegood hearted and decent people who have experienced the same treatment.

Psychopaths however, are not superior,they have fractured egos which propels them into feeding off others for a high, leavingbrhem constantly seeking attention to a desperate point which leaves them addicted to needing constant stimulation.

They are the least evolved individuals, unable to delve deeper into submitting to healing profound emotional disturbances in their psyche. They project these insecurities onto people close to them so they can temporarily be alleviated of their deep inner shame of emptiness and pain. Denial is their modus operandi. Sadism is their weapon.

Psychopaths thrive on chaos. Psychopaths always get worse.

Psychopaths have a deep inferiority complex because they are unable to feel, so to compensate for this incurable defect, they see themselves as superior. It's the ego and it's defense mechanisms at work.

There is a massive global pandemic of psychopathy and it touches every facet of our society. It is the perfect embodiment of the damaged ego in overdrive.

I am going to bed soon, but will be back tomorrow to answer any questions you may have.

remember, narcis are generally hyper-competitive, and to beat them you simply have to beat them, prove you are superior or on my level.

Thank you!

Excellent analysis.

Narcissists, especially high on the spectrum, walk on the dark side and this shows in their obsession with things like the occult, mass murderers, the Holocaust, or weapons. They may listen to dark music such as death metal or watch slasher movies. Many people are interested in these things, but a malignant narcissist or psychopath, even if they put on a mask of being an upstanding moral citizen, usually have a secret hobby or interest in something dark or evil. They may not talk about it in public, but they have one.

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I often wonder if that was the agreement when they got married.

Specifics?

Burned myself very badly with one. And she's a woman.

Just reminding you all:
Narcissists & Sociopaths & Psychopaths exists in Both, men AND women!

My wife seemed to the outsiders to be very kind, caring, bit shy, clever, good looking. But in reality was the exact opposite.

Be safe and talk about your relationships with people, sometimes you can't see what's really happening around you.

When I read the title I thought this was an anti-trump thread..lol

To cut a long story short, beware of world leaders.

What a twisted logic. What positive crap you narcissist want anyway? Any specific example of someone else having something you want (the positive energy you claim to want) and create a too expensive price for it?

Empath usually gives positive energy freely if you really need it. No much price to pay except asking for it. Unless you meet with me who could give you a bullet or hell if you try your manipulative game, most naive empaths just give freely without much cost. So this claim that others are so evil making high price for the thing you want is nothing but fucking bullshit. Beside in a libertarian world, no one has any obligation to give you any shit. The proper way is to ask for what you want or to trade in a win win way instead of covert manipulation. As a narcissist, you must be careful now since with the proliferation of narcissism information, more people are more aware of the existence of a conscienceless narcissist and some may be willing to give you bullets.

Prayer for you and yes the earth is very sick and full of sick Thank goodness there is One who will save us

You are the most beautiful woman on here. You need to remove yourself from your relationships and come live with me where I'll take care of your every desire and treat you like the Queen that you are.

I bet you were a lot of fun in the sack when you were off your meds.

The narcissistic psychopath I encountered is a convicted domestic abuser and felon and was the worst relationship I've had. But I subconsciously called this dynamic into my life to change, heal and move forward and it was a massive learning lesson in order to grow and get where I need to be so I could reset my life. I've become stronger, wiser, aware, awake, and serene and have learned to protect myself from future attacks. It's said you can heal, but the NSP never changes.

Sounds like gay recruitment tactics.

Most if not all gays are narcs

Yeah, that's the most beautiful bullshit.

The first lesson for a narcissist's victim is, not to listen to people who told you you're the most beautiful in the whole galaxy cause you might fall into another narcissist's trap.

This an 'eye of the beholder' situation. It is an injustice but it has to be overcome.

Many victims of narcissists are a bit narcissistic too.

It's how you handle it.

That's true from my observation.

It mainly affects insecure people.

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