Beware the Narcissists Sociopaths Psychopaths!

You just described 95% of the members and AC here..

Aw thankyou for that :) sweet loving beautiful feeling people I adore all that you are!

Great job! I think it is important to have awareness! Give people a fighting chance...

what the hell are you babbling about? ugh. -This Narcissist

oh i get it!! lmao, YOU GOT DUMPED!

He's so superior and above it all that he doesn’t even care anymore. He thinks you’re an idiot, and he doesn’t care if you disagree. He will use you, abuse you, maybe even steal from you, assault you or kill you, but then he will sit down and eat a bowl of cereal like nothing else happened. That’s the ultimate in narcissism. You don’t exist as another human being to him. You’re a pure object, a tool, a means to an end. You may as well be a steering wheel or a hammer – that’s how much humanity you have to him.

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Yeah, you're not on his level. Do you know how he knows?

Has anyone else seen this recent trend in spotting narcis and the rise in libtarding?

Not everyone gets a trophy in real life. Not everyone is a professional athlete. Some people are better than some people. Some people only exist to be used. The reason the US is so troubled is we spend so much time worrying about hobos and losers and what dumbshits think and feel. The narci is able to rise above by exploiting the weaknesses in others. It's just business. Typically, the same people who don't like narcis are Bernie fans.

We didn't have this narci alert trend a long time ago because wanting to crush others and be #1 was a normal part of everyday american life. That's how america became #1. Then we got away from that, and I think we should go back to it.

Sociopaths lie the most because they are incapable of feelings and do not want to understand the impact of their lies. They may even get a thrill out of lying at your expense. Once they tell an initial lie they go on to tell many more lies in an attempt to cover up the lies they started, or just for the “fun” of it.

A sociopath rarely reveals his or her feelings or emotions. You won’t often hear them laugh, cry, or get angry. These kinds of liars tend to live in their own little world and always find ways to justify their dishonest deeds. They do not respect others and place their own needs first and foremost.

If someone questions the sociopath’s lies they can be incredibly devious in the way they cover things up. This can include placing the blame at someone else’s door or by inventing complex stories to cover up their untruths.

Sociopaths can be so good at lying that they are able to pass lie detector tests. This means they often escape jail or don’t even get prosecuted for the crimes they permit. (That’s not to say all sociopathic liars are criminals, of course).
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Assessment – “What does this person have that I want?”
Idolization – “If I praise this person, she/he will have no other choice but to feel obligated to give me what I want.
Devaluation – “I have what I want and now this person has the audacity to ask me for something in return? It’s time for the blaming and shaming. I answer to no one.”
Discard – “This person is dead to me. Next!”
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Yeah, obviously you're not understanding anything. You're only looking at the front burner when you're supposed to be looking at the back burner.

This isn't rocket science.

Once the sociopath has you under his control, it is now time to remove other people who might take up your time, or worse, convince you, that this person is not right for you. The sociopath now sees you as somebody that he owns (his possession). At this point, you have just been through the seduction stage, and everything is heavy with anticipation of a bright and brilliant future with your perfect soul mate. You have no idea what is about to come next.

You give more attention and focus to your disordered partner, and forget about your own needs. You are now striving to make someone else happy, and starting to lose your own identity.

The longer that you stay with this type of person the worse that it will become. Once the tap starts dripping, it is never turned off. The tap continues to drip drip drip…. feeding negativity into you, until you start to feel very bad about yourself. You do not know why or why something that started off so perfect is now going so badly wrong.

There is only one reason why. You are being emotionally abused. Emotional abuse will not stop, not until you remove yourself. Turn off the tap, and establish no contact.
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Last Edited by Earth420 on 09/22/2016 03:24 AM

Another MO of the destructive partner is to never take responsibility for a relationship issue. If there is a conflict, or you bring up a need or complaint, or question a suspicious behavior, he may use escalated anger to stop the conversation, or turn the problem around to something you have done wrong, or say you are being “needy, paranoid, crazy.” He may dismiss what you have to say as ridiculous, stonewall with silence, or walk away. He will never admit wrong or have remorse for a behavior that has caused you hurt. His blaming behavior may cause you to examine yourself, wonder what is wrong with you. This is because you are willing to take responsibility in the relationship, as a responsible partner would, and he is counting on this.
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Yeah because you're a moron, duh.

Sadly abusers are all too often highly addicted to drama. If we react dramatically our energy levels go into overdrive. Even though the energy we are sending out is negative, it is still going to feed them. Abusers aren’t so interested in positive energy anyway, so the anger, frustration, resentment and aggression that we give out are a perfect and satisfying meal for an abuser.

The end result is that we are left exhausted, debilitated and drained—the abuser is nourished. It is that simple.

When we refuse to role-play the abuser eventually has no choice but to end the role they play too.

Abusers will try every tactic in the book to push buttons in order to gain a reaction. It is our responsibility not to give them what they are looking for.
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Sorry not feeding you ha ha

Meh I was kinda feeling OP but she is using gender specific pronouns now which shows a blame game mentality which leads me to view her as the narcissist doing their projection game and playing the victim.

Yeah but ok since you're talking to me now.

It is not the negative energy that we (I) want.

It is the positive energy. I know how to get you to harvest it and then give it to me. However, you won't give it to me willingly. I have to make you give it to me.

I had to call you a name in order to get you to even acknowledge me now, for like two hours.

Does that make sense?

If you read the first page you will see me admitting that I am a psychopathic schizo affective...

Yes I do have narcissism by proxy due to this relationship...

I thought you guys just like any energy... Is the positive more boosting?

You can not blame someone else for your narcissism. It does not work that way. You have to take personal responsibility. It is your narcissism you created for yourself that attracted you to another narcissist.

It was explained in the video I posted. Good luck.
Your problems are yours. That is the bottom line. You can not blame him for the things you do.

Last Edited by Merit on 09/22/2016 03:52 AM

Damn some bastard must have done some serious damage to your fragile little heart.

I see what you are saying... I just feel these traits are stronger than before... I am hoping to heal it... I have a ways to go... Thankyou for the good luck! I'm gonna need it ha ha

Do you know what it feels like to be locked up, placed in a dungeon of a partner’s creation? If so, you’re not alone. If not, pray you never do.
Abuse comes in many forms and affects many people in the victim’s life. Emotional, physical, and sexual abuses are equally degrading and harmful. One is not better than the other or worse than the other. They are ALL abuse.
This story is specifically about emotional abuse at the hands of a narcissistic sociopath.

In romance, narcissistic sociopaths often appear too good to be true. They are charming, agreeable, and engaging. The narcissistic sociopath loves (or seems to love) everything about you. He hooks you. Then he breaks you. His emotional abuse is VERY subtle. The victim may not know she is being victimized until it is nearly too late.

The answer is: Through excessive charm, pretense, and an uncanny ability to hide behind whatever mask of lies they need to wear depending on their audience. They lie to everyone with calculated projection and transference, resulting in a false sense of absolute power and control over everyone in their lives. Armed with this false sense of intellectual superiority and the belief others will always comply with their whims out of fear of having their deepest secrets and insecurities exposed, sociopaths epitomize evil and everything that’s wrong in our materialistic and greed-driven society. And by remaining fearful and not speaking out or saying “no” to these fools, the rest of us perpetuate and allow their power, abuse, and destruction of our collective moral compass to grow exponentially.
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My narc ex wife basically tried to convince me that I was a narcissist... after reading enough about it I realized she was.. anyone experience that?

We want the positive energy to balance out the negative energy. We already have negative energy. We want to get rid of it. By taking positive energy, we can achieve balance and clarity. However, once someone learns they have something someone else wants, they create a price for it, often too expensive. So the next strategy is to take, through manipulation.

What do you think of your soul? Do you believe in God?

well...i am speaking about faking being someone's narcissistic supply as a means of infiltrating a terrorist or other negative group....bc narcissists are attracted to hate, imho

they self-love so such that anyone NOT like them is an object lower than they are

capice?

so, you temporarily act your way through buying into the narcissists game...you become their narcissistic supply as a means

it isnt exactly nice to do, but these people dont have regular emotions (as you describe above)....the point is you can play them for the greater good if needed

it is danger will robinson as far as actual involvement goes though!

not all leaders are narcissists, but there are notable evil leaders such as hitler, who was definitely a narcissist

people who admire hitler are narcissists....i dare anyone to find a current day hitler supporter who isnt a narcissist

Yes, of course. My soul is me. I do believe in God, and I very much believe that not everyone gets into heaven.