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Beware the Narcissists Sociopaths Psychopaths!

 
BMKSY

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yeah man, Donald Trump is pretty bad. I agree. Beware!
 Quoting: Joshua___Harmon 73037412


definitely possible

same with HRC though

G-d spoke all these words, to respond:
"I am the Lord, your G-d,
Who took you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.
You shall not have the gods of others in My presence.
You shall not make for yourself a graven image or any likeness which is in the heavens above, which is on the earth below, or which is in the water beneath the earth.
You shall neither prostrate yourself before them nor worship them, for I, the Lord, your G-d, am a zealous G-d, Who visits the iniquity of the fathers upon the sons,
upon the third and the fourth generation of those who hate Me,
and perform loving kindness to thousands [of generations],
to those who love Me and to those who keep My commandments." ~ Exodus 20:1-6


"Woe to those who say of the evil that it is good and of the good that it is evil; who present darkness as light and light as darkness, who present bitter as sweet and sweet as bitter." ~Isaiah 5:20

"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

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“America is great because she is good. If America ceases to be good, America will cease to be great.”~ Alexis de Tocqueville

“Liberty cannot be established without morality, nor morality without faith.” ~ Alexis de Tocqueville

I'm voting for Hillary!!!

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I just realized Hilary is guilty of spousal abuse.
I am called all names under the side by her.
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Killary is no victim. Both she and Bill are psychopaths.

They aren't spouses

They are crime syndicate partners.
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2 years gone and all 3 of my children have had to go away from me cuz he was in my life...

He was my student at 17. I was the teacher assistant at 19. 4 months so in love, then his parents sent him to a behavioral modification program... Ripped from me! I was bipolar, this is when I split in 2 and became schizo affective... My oldest daughter... I was so crazy and luckily her dad came thru, she went with him and his family...

On and off contact thru years... Reconnect 2 1/2 years ago thru FB... Had to move from Colorado to California, my son goes to his dad, I take my youngest daughter, months pass and due to a feeling seeping into me I was going insane needed to go to mental hospital... Couldn't figure out what was wrong! She moved back to Colorado... So lucky my kids could go on I am grateful! And so very sorry! My heart! How was I so blinded by love like a fog I could not see thru! I have so much healing to do!

The parents of a narcissistic sociopath do not deserve to be mourned!
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if you understand how a narcissist works you can use it against them should the need ever arise

say you needed to infiltrate a terrorist group or somesuch and there is a narcissist involved...it is your way in!!!

G-d spoke all these words, to respond:
"I am the Lord, your G-d,
Who took you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.
You shall not have the gods of others in My presence.
You shall not make for yourself a graven image or any likeness which is in the heavens above, which is on the earth below, or which is in the water beneath the earth.
You shall neither prostrate yourself before them nor worship them, for I, the Lord, your G-d, am a zealous G-d, Who visits the iniquity of the fathers upon the sons,
upon the third and the fourth generation of those who hate Me,
and perform loving kindness to thousands [of generations],
to those who love Me and to those who keep My commandments." ~ Exodus 20:1-6


"Woe to those who say of the evil that it is good and of the good that it is evil; who present darkness as light and light as darkness, who present bitter as sweet and sweet as bitter." ~Isaiah 5:20

"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

[link to immigrationcounters.com]

“America is great because she is good. If America ceases to be good, America will cease to be great.”~ Alexis de Tocqueville

“Liberty cannot be established without morality, nor morality without faith.” ~ Alexis de Tocqueville

I'm voting for Hillary!!!

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I also moved to Idaho 6 months ago and only lived there one month before I got hoovered back in... Then back to Calli
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narcissists are only interested in people who provide them with "love" and praise or who feed their own agenda in some way, be it shared beliefs, etc., or people who they can use nd / or manipulate
 Quoting: BMKSY

This aptly describes Donald Trump. Anyone nice to him are his narcissistic supplies. Anyone not bowing to his whim should be destroyed.
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if you understand how a narcissist works you can use it against them should the need ever arise

say you needed to infiltrate a terrorist group or somesuch and there is a narcissist involved...it is your way in!!!
 Quoting: BMKSY


I started planning my escape months ago... I asked God to free me... Felt my empathy draining... Felt evil seeping in... Felt it go ying yang in me half good half evil... Turned psychopath! I watched him, learned online... Being psychopath I could fall out of love with him, detached... Layed low under the radar... He didn't even notice... I didn't care I was a psychopath now and saw the game...

And revelled in the fact I could play it! So sad I had to know that people like this could be... No empathy! No connection! My heart crumbled in a million pieces and was buffered by my ability as an empath to turn psychopath in this situation! Thank goodness cuz he said well then 98 was a mistake then (that's when our 4 month student teacher relationship happened) I felt nothing! But if I hadn't become psychopathic that could have almost sent me to suicide...

How the hell does someone talk like they do? Cuz you are an object! They do not care about you and can't even feel anything!
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Please be aware of these people! They have no empathy, no care of you at all! There mind games and emotional abuse are staggering! When dealing with them block yourself from the comments, gas lighting, and humor meant to be a jab at your self worth! Learn they're techniques! Especially the Narcissist ones, they think they are so special but they are all textbook...

Watch the love bombing! That's how they "hook" you!

Narcissists and those with antisocial traits tend to subject romantic partners through three phases within a relationship. The idealization phase (which often happens most strongly during the early stages of dating or a relationship) consists of putting you on a pedestal, making you the center of his/her world, being in contact with you frequently, and showering you with flattery and praise. You are convinced that the narcissist can’t live without you and that you’ve met your soulmate. Be wary of: constant texting, shallow flattery and wanting to be around you at all times. This is a technique known as “lovebombing” and it is how most victims get sucked in: they are tired of the “games” people play with each other in communication and are flattered by the constant attention they get from the narcissist. You may be fooled into thinking that this means a narcissist is truly interested in you, when in fact, he or she is interested in making you dependent on their constant praise and attention.
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I think this is the wrong place for this-considering how everyone on here seems to be pro-Trump-who exemplifies all of those behavioral traits
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My life experience has taught me that a sociopath will kill your spirit and a narcissist will murder your soul.
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At least the psychopaths get women easily. Many are chads. The beta incels are too boring/unassuming for women.
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Could watch you drown and eat a cheeseburger...
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Could watch you drown and eat a cheeseburger...
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Op is on:

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Before youre diagnosed with a specific personality disorder you have to qualify for the generalized criteria of falling under a personality disorder.

how much you wanna bet none of you even met a narci and just can't handle life's assholes.

a real narci has a skill set that is so cool you couldn't even imagine.
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Yeah I'm still psychopathic and actually picked up narcissistic traits from him...

Will take some time! But being around real loving feeling humans again is helping...

I feel so free and lucky!

And also would love to play the game with the elite and fight for good against the evil... For JUSTICE!!!

Sometimes you need some evil to fight evil...
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Could watch you drown and eat a cheeseburger...
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wet works
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It’s important to realize that all people when their wounds are triggered have a tendency to become narcissistic. We focus on our pain and our emotions, becoming self-absorbed and less aware of the effect our actions and words have on the people around us. What this means is that Empaths can be narcissists, too. However, once we get out of a Victim stance and we start taking responsibility for our emotional state, we tend to behave narcissistically less often. We have grown ourselves out of the trap of the narcissist. What is this trap?

From what I have seen in my practice and my personal experience, the narcissist has a core wound that makes him or her feel unlovable and worthless. However, this wound and the belief is buried so deep that it is completely unconscious. To compensate and to not feel this pain, they over-achieve, they become know-it-alls, and/or they build up a facade that allows them to feel good about themselves. Feeling good is all they can allow or else they will access that deep pain. Many narcissists will sacrifice just about anything and anybody to avoid facing such pain. Such a person is unlikely to be able to do his work in order to heal because they are avoiding that core pain.
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Cool thread 5*

How great it would have been to understand these psychological principals early on like in high school! lol.

this is telling and makes sense of the unfortunately common mentally abusive relationship. This described my former brother in law. but the wife's sister immediately got back into a relationship and married only months later. Which is fine unto itself but she has the same behavior as she did in previous relationship. We've 'diagnosed' her as co-dependent.

I wonder if all of these behaviors, which are well known and explored in most college level courses - actually help sociopaths and the like, make realizations? Or are these behaviors 100% subconscious? Including the built-in defense mechanism which is to not have the ability to objectively self analyze.

interesting how common this example from the article is. And the reactions of those females with low self esteem.

"What typically happens when someone talks to us as if they were a parent, in a ‘fatherly’ tone of voice? Chances are it will affect our mindset, our sense of liking the person, and our emotions! Manipulators are often very aware of these things and in an instant can transport another adult back to childhood with the associated emotions of wanting to please and feel loved and accepted."
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As you can imagine, this living-by-appearances is crazy-making for the average Empath. She begins to doubt herself; the Empath can get stuck in a mental loop of analysis of the situation and the relationship without making the realization that the Hero is happiest living a lie and wants it that way. However, eventually the relationship disintegrates when the Empath either becomes so drained the Hero has to find another support person, or the Empath leaves the relationship out of desperation for her sanity. For many Empaths it can feel like an act of survival to leave this relationship while everyone else involved thinks the Empath is the crazy, over-reactive one. Most Empaths who have been through this scenario have been in the relationship for years. It also takes them years to recover.
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Unfortunately, my daughter found out the hard way with one of these scum. They are separated now, but have a child together. He's a real piece of work. The lies that have come out of his mouth! He actually said he was a prisoner of war in Afghanistan and escaped and that he lost a child and girlfriend while he was there and they wouldn't let him come back for the funeral. Piece of shit has never even been out of the country!
 Quoting: TrustNoOneKS

Most people, including me, found out the hard way cause most people (including me) are self righteous know-it-all thinking their philosdophy of life or their understanding of human nature is already the best or the most ethical. When you have compassion or are an empath, holding rigidly to the notion that all people are basically good, that you should "love" and "sacrifice" for the humanity, you are bound to fall for narcissistic manipulation cause your unproven belief system about people makes you blind to the reality that the narcissist is manipulating you. Not that treating others with kindness is not good, it's necessary and great for human relationship, but it's also necessary to judge a person by his fruits or judge a person based on reality, not based on unproven delusion that all people are good. All people have the potential to be good, but their background and karma may not make them good at that point in time when you encounter them.

The point is, if you found out the hard way, you're partly responsible for being their victim and you should learn to be a better human by not thinking you know-it-all or your belief system is so great when it's not tested in the street. An encounter with a Narcissist is a great lesson to bring people back to reality, that we're a fool, in a lot of areas of life. And knowing you're a fool or start as a fool is a necessary foundation for your spiritual growth, you start to be opened to the real wisdom of life.
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I like the narcissist that call everyone else narcissist they can not get to agree with them or who they know see through them. It is a projection shift game they like to play when they know they are found out and they accuse someone they are afraid will call them a narcissist a narcissist first to deflect.

Then they play victim.

It is funny and interesting how they all have the same exact behavioral patterns, from a scientific stand point.

Like they all went to the same school of narcissim.


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Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse used by narcissists in order to instill in their victim’s an extreme sense of anxiety and confusion to the point where they no longer trust their own memory, perception or judgment. The techniques used in “Gaslighting” by the narcissist are similar to those used in brainwashing, interrogation, and torture that have been used in psychological warfare by intelligence operative, law enforcement and other forces for decades.

The intention is to, in a systematic way, target the victim’s mental equilibrium, self confidence, and self esteem so that they are no longer able to function in an independent way. Gaslighting involves the abuser to frequently and systematically withhold factual information from the victim, and replacing it with false information. Because of it’s subtly, this cunning Machiavellian behaviour is a deeply insidious set of manipulations that is difficult for anybody to work out, and with time it finally undermines the mental stability of the victim. That is why it is such a dangerous form of abuse. The emotional damage of Gaslighting is huge on the narcissistic victim. When they are exposed to it for long enough, they begin to lose their sense of their own self. Unable to trust their own judgments, they start to question the reality of everything in their life. They begin to find themselves second-guessing themselves, and this makes them become very insecure around their decision making, even around the smallest of choices. The victim becomes depressed and withdrawn, they become totally dependent on the abuser for their sense of reality. In effect the gaslighting turns the victim’s reality on its head.

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Real life conversations with a narcissist are exhausting, dizzying, nerve-racking, and make you feel like you’re going crazy – or at least drive a compassionate person to question their own reality, and even their sanity at times. The circular conversations leave you feeling worse off than if you had never had them in the first place. You begin to blame yourself, doubt your instincts and wonder what the heck is going on?
Conversations with a narcissist, especially if you hold opinions about anything that contradict with their opinion of what is the gospel truth, are jam-packed with a barrage of covert manipulation tactics that are intrinsic to the narcissist and entrenched in their personality. They will make you wish you never disagreed with them in the first place and regret that you had ever dared to express your point of view. A simple disagreement will often incite a full-fledged attack on you. Somehow, they manage to twist the conservation so you wind up feeling like the bad guy/girl, while they assume the role of the innocent victim – of you.
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There is much truth in the quote, “Deceit’s favorite role is playing the victim.” It’s no wonder why when the narcissist isn’t playing the hero, he/she is playing the poor victim. Through garnering pity, narcissists will play the victim, while vilifying the true victim, as a way of concealing their abusive behavior and avoid taking responsibility for their cruel and manipulative behaviors. Narcissists capitalize on the compassion of others and exploit their sympathy in any way they can, depending upon what their goal is at the time. If the narcissist doesn’t want to keep a promise and you become upset, your feelings won’t be validated; there will be no apology or display of empathy. Instead, the narcissist will vilify you for being upset and blame you for your lack of empathy in not considering that they may have had a bad day.
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Enjoy that those who really want to know about these things. It gets to a root of psychology most ignore. Everything starts with ourselves.

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reprobates are everywere.
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You will be called selfish or accused of being needy or demanding for expecting the poor narcissist to honor his/her word like a normal adult. However, if you have a bad day, don’t expect to receive the same treatment. The narcissist will expect you to keep your promise and will minimize and invalidate your feelings by portraying themselves as the victim. The narcissist will always one-up you by reciting a litany of reasons why their day was so much worse than yours or lecturing you on how your life is so much easier than theirs, and so on. Whatever you can do, they can do better. Whatever bad thing happened to you, something worse happened to them.
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Our soul journey is about our own souls growth. Other people participate with us to help us learn our lessons and we do the same for them. We don’t have one true love who comes back with us time and time again to live the same life. Why would we? We have many lives and many loves because it is our nature to love. The fact that we feel a greater love or a greater attachment with the narcissist, who is obviously disordered, would show us that there is something dysfunctional or disordered about this attachment. This person has likely come into our lives to help us heal some childhood wound from this life, or to come face to face with our own narcissism or sense of worthlessness and inadequacy.
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I feel I had a Soul Contract with him... I told him what he was...
I know his smear campaign that I am mentally ill, I had already turned psychopath by this time... Told him only a psychopath can beat a narcissist... No tears just mad that I had beat his game... And did it make me feel good!

Last joke, we had to find our hamster a home and he says then I can get rid of 2 rats, fake laugh...

Yeah
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lot's of good people in this world.
if you are attracting moths, bugs, n' such
it's just a sign to you that your heart light
is shining.
what it's suppose to be doing.
i feel its warmth from here.
keep up the good effort, . .
never let the world become a colder place
by hiding the light just to avoid the bugs.
lots o' luv.
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Please be aware of these people! They have no empathy, no care of you at all! There mind games and emotional abuse are staggering! When dealing with them block yourself from the comments, gas lighting, and humor meant to be a jab at your self worth! Learn they're techniques! Especially the Narcissist ones, they think they are so special but they are all textbook...

Watch the love bombing! That's how they "hook" you!

Narcissists and those with antisocial traits tend to subject romantic partners through three phases within a relationship. The idealization phase (which often happens most strongly during the early stages of dating or a relationship) consists of putting you on a pedestal, making you the center of his/her world, being in contact with you frequently, and showering you with flattery and praise. You are convinced that the narcissist can’t live without you and that you’ve met your soulmate. Be wary of: constant texting, shallow flattery and wanting to be around you at all times. This is a technique known as “lovebombing” and it is how most victims get sucked in: they are tired of the “games” people play with each other in communication and are flattered by the constant attention they get from the narcissist. You may be fooled into thinking that this means a narcissist is truly interested in you, when in fact, he or she is interested in making you dependent on their constant praise and attention.
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Peace ! !
 Quoting: Earth420


I've written five books about narcissism in relationships and now I council people all over the planet. Doesn't matter the culture, the color, or the language...they are all the same. My recovery blog gets up to 5000 NEW HITS PER DAY - that should give a clue as to how this "disorder" has reached epidemic proportions.
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The gaslighting is easy because you simply describe what its like to be gaslit. :)

Imagine waking up every day as a reject.

You try to tell other people but they just ignore you or call you crazy.

Imagine this goes on for months and years and decades.

Over time, the narci develops all this anger and frustration into a skill set. No matter what they do or say, they cannot cure the wound that creates the behaviour in the first place.

Then they sit and listen to other people complaining about the same thing thats happening to them, all the while calling the narci mean and terrible things. Oh, the irony.





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