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User ID: 72908624 United States 09/27/2016 11:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Empathy is not self-centeredness as in egotistical. (We're all "Self" centered in the context of being centered within, connected to, and project from, the core of the self... the same connection of all selves. The self within the God Self.) Empathy is identifying with the feelings, thoughts, or attitudes of another. A balanced identification draws from both logic and emotion. Quoting: Pavana Empathy and Empath are not the same thing. Empaths, in addition to having empathy, are sensitive, intuitive and compassionate (to others). Intuition comes from "gut feeling"/emotion and from core connectiveness. Compassion and sensitivity also comes from feeling/heart/emotion. A narcissist is lacking in feelings and lacks in compassion toward others. Some Empaths can become victims (of hurt and suffering) if they allow it. Narcissists purposely try to invoke and provoke that in others. Technically, both create 'victims'... one is the self harming the self; the other is a self harming other selves, not to improve or teach them, but for control and manipulation and for empowering their own ego. They don't care about you other than what they can self feed from you. It does teach, but it's fear/hate based; it's chaos. Exactly. What happens to an empath raised by a narcissist? |
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User ID: 72908624 United States 09/27/2016 11:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do narcissists know they are narcissists and are they happy? Quoting: Earth420 The answer, from the mouth of a narcissist/sociopath: Real sociopaths (narcissists), like myself, are happy being a sociopath (narcissist). We could really care less about how others feel. We enjoy our so called cold existence. It’s all we know. So, (if you think) sociopaths really are hurting deep down inside and want to change if given a chance, nonsense! True (narcissists and) sociopaths don’t want to change. Most don’t even believe they have a problem. We love every minute of it. It’s who we are. We feel in total control of our lives using this method. Anything less is unacceptable. Why doesn’t the narcissist seem to miss me like I miss him when we break up? The answer, from the mouth of a narcissist/sociopath:We don’t need you. You could disappear tomorrow and we could care less. We’re not prone to being controlled in any way, shape or form. We are survivalists. Trust us we would live if the human race disappeared tomorrow. We are far too self serving and self absorbed not to. At the very least? We’d give it a damn good shot! And we don’t need you in some round about way either. You’re mistaking us for someone who gives a shit or has feelings like your own. Trust me we don’t. We simply use you because you’re nearby, you’re convenient or we’re bored and desire something you possess. Otherwise we would go on without you just fine. Because, again, we don’t possess feelings like you do. Getting it now? How can a narcissist just move on to someone else like it’s no big deal? The answer, from the mouth of a narcissist/sociopath:I think sociopaths do a good job of living in the now. They can focus on the task at hand without being influenced by feelings or events from the past, other lessons learned, and they don’t become so anxious about the future. When they do get anxious it’s more like a response to present situations, just like animals do. [link to www.thenarcissisticpersonality.com] "living in the now". Always knew there was a reason I thought the idea was horse shit. |
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(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/28/2016 08:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Soooo... I'm outside doing one of my favorite things, smoking a CIG... Leaning down, leg sprawl ed and oh, spider... Shift... And then it hits. I have more regard for this spider than my Narcopath had for me. I am in a good place, but I know I had healed very quickly by praying to God, doing my Mahayana Buddhist chants, dancing, reading others stories of their experiences with the Personality Disordered, and a friend to talk hours to like therapy ha ha I was a raging alcoholic for ten years and had still struggled to stay quit. 3 months ago in my stint in the mental ward I quit that and benzos with the help of a GABA antagonist, and had remained quit... For those healing I will give the advice to treat this as the most extreme drug in the world to get off of! Like, heroine times 420! That is why also we were so drawn to them, and gawd those silent treatments and lack of affection... Just waiting for the next hit... He'd give it to me, but oh just enough to get me to the next... Yes we loved SO deeply someone that would and could not feel love... So addicted to our drug of choice as they sucked our happiness and our souls from us... While I reflect I realise he can't. While I can change and adapt and learn and grow, he can't change... I Dont regret this. God is the way to go and LOVE truly is the most powerful emotion in the Universe! But there is evil and no love in others and I never wanted to see it or imagined it existed... Until I was forced to. God showed me the otherside of Creation. And soon Prime Creator will separate us. Love and Light and Happiness and Joy to you Peace will come Love to Mother Earth Always |
Cyrus User ID: 69533170 United States 09/28/2016 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what causes the narci to behave that way? narcis exist because they got burned so bad by something or someone that the old persona hides behind a new persona. at some point in time, there was a soul crushing blow taken by the narci, and most often it is something that is ignored by society, family, friends, or whatever. The narci will continue to hide or cover up the original persona until the original situation becomes righted or satisfied or the narci realizes and accepts that something bad happened to them, which often never occurs or occurs very much later in life. if you come across a narci, basically think of them as someone who got raped but no one gave a fuck, even after they told everyone. the larger problem is that in the human life, the soul crushing problem is often not able to be fixed without overpowering or crushing a different soul. this is the reason the narci develops. the narci is indeed responsible for the things he or she does, however it is often not the original persona that is doing it. typically a narci has rejected the old persona and is a 'super friendly and awesome and cool' new persona, to no end. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71976644 This is what people think create a Narcissist but it goes much deeper and much further than anyone realize. It has nothing to do with a tragic childhood but everything to do with darkness overpowering the light within the soul/spirit body. a Narcissist is born a narcissist. Simply a soul living lifetime after lifetime in selfishness. A parent with a narcissist child will find that child from very small unbending and self-willed. A difficult child and a out of control teen. A Narcissistic child cause a parent nothing but heartache and tears. Just like a Narcisstic parent cause their children unending pain. |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/28/2016 09:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Towards the end there I asked questions... I asked if he believed in God and he replied around it, then settled on maybe a source. Asked again and he said it in a way that I saw through and realized he doesn't believe in God. I told him I was a psychopath and him the Narcissist so game over and I let him ask me stuff and I asked him so that's how this was even possible. "What do you think God will do with us when we meet Him?" Silence, mask is off... Those dark abyss dead eyes... Semi glossed over. (I had really tried not to look him directly for too long... You look evil in the eyes long enough it really starts to get in you.) I asked about Hell. His reply was that the idea was so bad that he would not even entertain it. Oh I went on and on how I was scared of Hell and how I was praying to God for my soul! If you guys are around these watch how they react when you mention Hell... See they know deep down in their empty shell they fear Hell. I told him several times to pray to God over and over! Silence every time. Love to Mother Earth Always |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/28/2016 09:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I caused Narcissistic injury to him on my way out... I left EVERY gift, all the clothes, everything that would remind me of him- I left it all... I lied to his face about so much and yes f*cked with his head. I know I know! But, when my heart broke into a million pieces I didn't want revenge as much as I wanted JUSTICE! To show him I (not him) was so done and I was in charge of the final discard too. I Dont recommend what I did as I Dont want anyone to get hurt... Please plan your escapes wisely, leave everything! While they are gone and leave! RUN and Dont look back! Go No Contact Ever Again! I think me being Schizo affective made this even possible. God makes us the way we are on purpose. Accept yourselves, have that Self Love that is your gift from God! All of YOU! Peace Love to Mother Earth Always |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/28/2016 10:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They are so scared of ageing... It was all about anti ageing regimes, supplements, foods and to never say we would grow old because he would never grow old... Once he thought I was a psychopath, he blamed me sucking off of him and that's why he was ageing SO bad! Yeah... Love to Mother Earth Always |
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(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/28/2016 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh, and the meaning of Cognitive Dissonance... This is the feeling of uncomfortable tension which comes from holding two conflicting thoughts in the mind at the same time. Dissonance increases with: The importance of the subject to us. How strongly the dissonant thoughts conflict. Our inability to rationalize and explain away the conflict. Dissonance is often strong when we believe something about ourselves and then do something against that belief. If I believe I am good but do something bad, then the discomfort I feel as a result is cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is a very powerful motivator which will often lead us to change one or other of the conflicting belief or action. The discomfort often feels like a tension between the two opposing thoughts. To release the tension we can take one of three actions: Change our behavior. Justify our behavior by changing the conflicting cognition. Justify our behavior by adding new cognitions. Dissonance is most powerful when it is about our self-image. Feelings of foolishness, immorality and so on (including internal projections during decision-making) are dissonance in action. If an action has been completed and cannot be undone, then the after-the-fact dissonance compels us to change our beliefs. If beliefs are moved, then the dissonance appears during decision-making, forcing us to take actions we would not have taken before. Cognitive dissonance appears in virtually all evaluations and decisions and is the central mechanism by which we experience new differences in the world. When we see other people behave differently to our images of them, when we hold any conflicting thoughts, we experience dissonance. Dissonance increases with the importance and impact of the decision, along with the difficulty of reversing it. Discomfort about making the wrong choice of car is bigger than when choosing a lamp. [link to changingminds.org] Love to Mother Earth Always |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 10/01/2016 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | By Earth420 If time Was all I could see, I'd live A different memory. Yesterday, is all the sorrow That today holds for tomorrow. To be confused Is to live a lie. I'd never know the difference If I couldn't say goodbye. Friends, at all the same. Enemies, who know my shame. Time holds the promise And past holds the truth, Future holds the knowledge As life lives its youth. As a watch ticks As a heart beats The seconds go by, Until all who see And all who hold, Yesterday is gone And tomorrow untold. Love to Mother Earth Always |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16363866 United States 10/02/2016 12:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Today Tomorrow and Yesterday Quoting: Earth420 By Earth420 If time Was all I could see, I'd live A different memory. Yesterday, is all the sorrow That today holds for tomorrow. To be confused Is to live a lie. I'd never know the difference If I couldn't say goodbye. Friends, at all the same. Enemies, who know my shame. Time holds the promise And past holds the truth, Future holds the knowledge As life lives its youth. As a watch ticks As a heart beats The seconds go by, Until all who see And all who hold, Yesterday is gone And tomorrow untold. Very nice. |
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(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 10/02/2016 08:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh, I figured out what was the best thing garnered from this experience ! I no longer FEAR death... It is such a peaceful feeling, and also to know I will go onto a journey and meet GOD! I am looking forward to it, that when my work and lessons are done here, I will just go on... NO FEAR ! LOVE to all during these times that we are in ! I'm really pushing those vibes out and to EARTH ! My birthmark is a heart on my right hip... I really feel that love, this is what I am ! We all have a mission ! And in these times, its a GO ! We are the ones we have been waiting for Peace Love to Mother Earth Always |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16363866 United States 10/02/2016 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh, I figured out what was the best thing garnered from this experience ! Quoting: Earth420 I no longer FEAR death... It is such a peaceful feeling, and also to know I will go onto a journey and meet GOD! I am looking forward to it, that when my work and lessons are done here, I will just go on... NO FEAR ! LOVE to all during these times that we are in ! I'm really pushing those vibes out and to EARTH ! My birthmark is a heart on my right hip... I really feel that love, this is what I am ! We all have a mission ! And in these times, its a GO ! We are the ones we have been waiting for Peace |
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User ID: 69013890 United States 10/04/2016 07:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Please be aware of these people! They have no empathy, no care of you at all! There mind games and emotional abuse are staggering! When dealing with them block yourself from the comments, gas lighting, and humor meant to be a jab at your self worth! Learn they're techniques! Especially the Narcissist ones, they think they are so special but they are all textbook... Quoting: Earth420 Watch the love bombing! That's how they "hook" you! Narcissists and those with antisocial traits tend to subject romantic partners through three phases within a relationship. The idealization phase (which often happens most strongly during the early stages of dating or a relationship) consists of putting you on a pedestal, making you the center of his/her world, being in contact with you frequently, and showering you with flattery and praise. You are convinced that the narcissist can’t live without you and that you’ve met your soulmate. Be wary of: constant texting, shallow flattery and wanting to be around you at all times. This is a technique known as “lovebombing” and it is how most victims get sucked in: they are tired of the “games” people play with each other in communication and are flattered by the constant attention they get from the narcissist. You may be fooled into thinking that this means a narcissist is truly interested in you, when in fact, he or she is interested in making you dependent on their constant praise and attention. [link to selfcarehaven.wordpress.com (secure)] Peace ! ! Too bad it's already been proven that Trump isn't a narcissist. Narcissism is NOT the same as egocentrism. Feel dumb now? Isaiah 9:6 For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace. Matthew 1:23 Behold, a virgin shall be with child, and shall bring forth a son, and they shall call his name Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, God with us. |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 10/04/2016 09:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Please be aware of these people! They have no empathy, no care of you at all! There mind games and emotional abuse are staggering! When dealing with them block yourself from the comments, gas lighting, and humor meant to be a jab at your self worth! Learn they're techniques! Especially the Narcissist ones, they think they are so special but they are all textbook... Quoting: Earth420 Watch the love bombing! That's how they "hook" you! Narcissists and those with antisocial traits tend to subject romantic partners through three phases within a relationship. The idealization phase (which often happens most strongly during the early stages of dating or a relationship) consists of putting you on a pedestal, making you the center of his/her world, being in contact with you frequently, and showering you with flattery and praise. You are convinced that the narcissist can’t live without you and that you’ve met your soulmate. Be wary of: constant texting, shallow flattery and wanting to be around you at all times. This is a technique known as “lovebombing” and it is how most victims get sucked in: they are tired of the “games” people play with each other in communication and are flattered by the constant attention they get from the narcissist. You may be fooled into thinking that this means a narcissist is truly interested in you, when in fact, he or she is interested in making you dependent on their constant praise and attention. [link to selfcarehaven.wordpress.com (secure)] Peace ! ! Too bad it's already been proven that Trump isn't a narcissist. Narcissism is NOT the same as egocentrism. Feel dumb now? Or he's a Narcissistic sociopath Psychopath... Or a Narcopath or hey, maybe just plain psychopath... Hillary too... So we have 2 Personality Disordered people running for pres. God help us ! Love to Mother Earth Always |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72438608 Canada 11/10/2016 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Due to abuse in the early years of their lives potentially, they will never know empathy, love or the meaning or understanding of placing themselves in another's shoes. This is in my opinion the biggest problem in the world today. Sure you may say cancer, or AIDS and granted there are some very awful diseases out there, but imagine that the people who are supposed to protect you are a sociopath, psychopath etc? You'll never truly know what its like until you have been played by one. They are extremely damaging and sick. Now picture that they love power, control and are beyond greedy and selfish. They are in high positions in this world. Which by default means that we are being lied to each and every day in every facet possible. If the math is right, they say 1 in 25 Americans are roughly this way. Do the math on 7.4 billion people. Scary isn't it. This is bullying, this is what the nice way of saying what it truly is. It is evil. This is the problem. This is why laws are there to protect them. You should know this, they wrote them. This is all the agendas you have heard about, this is exactly why we are suffering on the planet. For those of you who need a frame of reference, this is Joffrey or Ramsey from Game of Thrones. If you know the show, you know how much you hate these characters. Now plot that in to real life. They are everywhere. They are in your governments, your workplaces, your families. The worst part is they don't stop until they get what they want. But their soul is empty, they are lifeless they never truly get fulfilled. I feel bad for saying all of this, but the reality of it is there. There is only 2 options right now. Try to keep in them in places where they are known, and try to help teach and make them better through whatever means necessary, or do like the farmer does. Out in to the back field. |
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(OP) User ID: 17804194 United States 11/13/2016 11:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give thanks to Mother Earth with all my heart ! She has been SO healing ! I have always had this deep love for Her... She held me close when the pain seemed to be unbearable... I am in awe of Her ! Thankyou SO much Earth ! Oh thankyou ! ! ! Peace Love to Mother Earth Always |
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