Beware the Narcissists Sociopaths Psychopaths!

So, to be successful, and to be such a pain to them, that they either move on, or behave themselves towards you, you need to reverse these things.

Show that you are not scared of them – there is no fear – there is no control
Feed him false knowledge
Additionally feed false knowledge about weaknesses
When a sociopath loses knowledge, he loses control. You win.

To get even with a sociopath, you need to treat him EXACTLY the same way that he treats you. I promise you that he won’t particularly like it. I also understand that for someone who has been emotionally, mentally, damaged and scarred by a sociopath, this might not be such a good idea. You do need to be strong. It is also not advisable for those involved with someone who is violent. But it works! I want you to remember that you have SURVIVED this, and you can make the aftermath both better and more tailored to your liking.

And so you do the following:

Give false information. Don’t tell him the truth. Make up where you have been, and where you are going (if he doesn’t know what you are doing, he cannot control you)
Tell out and out lies
Derail him, by saying one thing, and then changing and saying something else.
Whatever you say to him, make sure it is not the truth, and constantly change your mind
BE NICE
BE CHARMING
Say words that he wants to hear
If he threatens you (to call work, email people) do the same back
Lure him into a false sense of security
Be CALM
SMILE
The most important thing is MIRROR him, whatever he does, you do (but keep it within the law), let him know you are recording phone conversations…..
Be prepared to lose ‘friends’ who are not really friends. A real friend wouldn’t leave your side no matter what happens or what is said.
Lose your FEAR — he is controlling you through FEAR….. so (even if you are still scared) show you are no longer scared or intimidated by him – this is really important. Fake it if you have to. DO NOT SHOW FEAR EVER
I know that for most people, it can be difficult to act fake, as we are programmed as human beings to be kind, caring, to care about others welfare.

But remember that this is exactly what the sociopath has done to you. What you have to do is take away – remove his control over you.
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I think it's irresponsible to teach these things. Paths are experts at reading people and figuring them out and can beat/rape/kill if people fuck with them too much without remorse.

So, to be successful, and to be such a pain to them, that they either move on, or behave themselves towards you, you need to reverse these things.

Show that you are not scared of them – there is no fear – there is no control
Feed him false knowledge
Additionally feed false knowledge about weaknesses
When a sociopath loses knowledge, he loses control. You win.

To get even with a sociopath, you need to treat him EXACTLY the same way that he treats you. I promise you that he won’t particularly like it. I also understand that for someone who has been emotionally, mentally, damaged and scarred by a sociopath, this might not be such a good idea. You do need to be strong. It is also not advisable for those involved with someone who is violent. But it works! I want you to remember that you have SURVIVED this, and you can make the aftermath both better and more tailored to your liking.

And so you do the following:

Give false information. Don’t tell him the truth. Make up where you have been, and where you are going (if he doesn’t know what you are doing, he cannot control you)
Tell out and out lies
Derail him, by saying one thing, and then changing and saying something else.
Whatever you say to him, make sure it is not the truth, and constantly change your mind
BE NICE
BE CHARMING
Say words that he wants to hear
If he threatens you (to call work, email people) do the same back
Lure him into a false sense of security
Be CALM
SMILE
The most important thing is MIRROR him, whatever he does, you do (but keep it within the law), let him know you are recording phone conversations…..
Be prepared to lose ‘friends’ who are not really friends. A real friend wouldn’t leave your side no matter what happens or what is said.
Lose your FEAR — he is controlling you through FEAR….. so (even if you are still scared) show you are no longer scared or intimidated by him – this is really important. Fake it if you have to. DO NOT SHOW FEAR EVER
I know that for most people, it can be difficult to act fake, as we are programmed as human beings to be kind, caring, to care about others welfare.

But remember that this is exactly what the sociopath has done to you. What you have to do is take away – remove his control over you.
[link to datingasociopath.com (secure)]

Wow...

Wow what? It's the Truth.

I guess you would know...

I guess you would know...

Nobody has to take this advice...

I see your point, its cool

So, to be successful, and to be such a pain to them, that they either move on, or behave themselves towards you, you need to reverse these things.

Show that you are not scared of them – there is no fear – there is no control
Feed him false knowledge
Additionally feed false knowledge about weaknesses
When a sociopath loses knowledge, he loses control. You win.

To get even with a sociopath, you need to treat him EXACTLY the same way that he treats you. I promise you that he won’t particularly like it. I also understand that for someone who has been emotionally, mentally, damaged and scarred by a sociopath, this might not be such a good idea. You do need to be strong. It is also not advisable for those involved with someone who is violent. But it works! I want you to remember that you have SURVIVED this, and you can make the aftermath both better and more tailored to your liking.

And so you do the following:

Give false information. Don’t tell him the truth. Make up where you have been, and where you are going (if he doesn’t know what you are doing, he cannot control you)
Tell out and out lies
Derail him, by saying one thing, and then changing and saying something else.
Whatever you say to him, make sure it is not the truth, and constantly change your mind
BE NICE
BE CHARMING
Say words that he wants to hear
If he threatens you (to call work, email people) do the same back
Lure him into a false sense of security
Be CALM
SMILE
The most important thing is MIRROR him, whatever he does, you do (but keep it within the law), let him know you are recording phone conversations…..
Be prepared to lose ‘friends’ who are not really friends. A real friend wouldn’t leave your side no matter what happens or what is said.
Lose your FEAR — he is controlling you through FEAR….. so (even if you are still scared) show you are no longer scared or intimidated by him – this is really important. Fake it if you have to. DO NOT SHOW FEAR EVER
I know that for most people, it can be difficult to act fake, as we are programmed as human beings to be kind, caring, to care about others welfare.

But remember that this is exactly what the sociopath has done to you. What you have to do is take away – remove his control over you.
[link to datingasociopath.com (secure)]

Many of your posts seem quite petty and bitter. Like you just want to get back at them. They will relish that from you.

These purely evil, rotten souls can be your " friend", family member, Boss, work associate or lover.
Personality disorder B personas can be anyone to you .. but all will set out to destroy you with their slander campaigns, set ups and isolation.

Thanks OP for the thread, knowledge removes their power.
They get off on upsetting you as the sad gits are so control orientated, even having someone angry or crying to them shows they " control the persons emotions ".
Pathetic evil people who you must walk right away from and hold the NO CONTACT rule firm.