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(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/21/2016 11:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | FEEL LIKE YOU WERE BRAINWASHED BY THE NARCISSIST? You were. Through manipulative psychological techniques that effectively condition your subconscious mind. Narcissists use subtle clues and suggestions to guide you towards things that are not in your best interest by subverting your thought processes. It’s all about making you act how they want you to, and do what they want you to. Below is a sampling of subliminal persuasion techniques employed by Narcissists and other emotional manipulators. [link to letmereach.com (secure)] Love to Mother Earth Always |
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User ID: 72274748 United States 09/21/2016 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | narcissists are only interested in people who provide them with "love" and praise or who feed their own agenda in some way, be it shared beliefs, etc., or people who they can use nd / or manipulate G-d spoke all these words, to respond: "I am the Lord, your G-d, Who took you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall not have the gods of others in My presence. You shall not make for yourself a graven image or any likeness which is in the heavens above, which is on the earth below, or which is in the water beneath the earth. You shall neither prostrate yourself before them nor worship them, for I, the Lord, your G-d, am a zealous G-d, Who visits the iniquity of the fathers upon the sons, upon the third and the fourth generation of those who hate Me, and perform loving kindness to thousands [of generations], to those who love Me and to those who keep My commandments." ~ Exodus 20:1-6 "Woe to those who say of the evil that it is good and of the good that it is evil; who present darkness as light and light as darkness, who present bitter as sweet and sweet as bitter." ~Isaiah 5:20 "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt [link to immigrationcounters.com] “America is great because she is good. If America ceases to be good, America will cease to be great.”~ Alexis de Tocqueville “Liberty cannot be established without morality, nor morality without faith.” ~ Alexis de Tocqueville I'm voting for Hillary!!! [link to youtu.be (secure)] ....... |
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Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/21/2016 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Narcissistic and partners with Antisocial Personality Disorder engage in chronic manipulation and devaluation of their victims, leaving victims feeling worthless, anxious and even suicidal. This type of continual manipulation, which includes an idealization-devaluation-discard abuse cycle where they “lovebomb” their partners, devalue them through stonewalling, gaslighting, smear campaigns, verbal and emotional abuse, then discard them until the trauma begins again, also known as narcissistic abuse—abuse by a partner with NPD or on the far end of the narcissistic spectrum. Their manipulation is psychological and emotionally devastating and very dangerous, especially considering the brain circuitry for emotional and physical pain are one and the same. What a victim feels when they are punched in the stomach can be similar to the pain a victim feels when they are verbally and emotionally abused, and the effects of narcissistic abuse can be crippling and long-lasting, even resulting in symptoms of PTSD or Complex PTSD. Needless to say, this type of abuse can leave psychological and emotional scars that can last a lifetime. [link to www.elephantjournal.com] Love to Mother Earth Always |
FarMore
User ID: 72862546 United States 09/22/2016 12:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's one of those quandaries when you stand up to them; You indirectly and continually call them out on it, refuse to let them bully you, and they try to rot your reputation. I've had deep experiences with this type. It's like the "chaos principal", whereas however you try to influence the course, the worse the outcome. Nobody wins. Jude 1:4 "For there are certain men crept in privily, even they who were of old written of beforehand unto this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying our only Master and Lord, Jesus Christ." |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71976644 United States 09/22/2016 12:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what causes the narci to behave that way? narcis exist because they got burned so bad by something or someone that the old persona hides behind a new persona. at some point in time, there was a soul crushing blow taken by the narci, and most often it is something that is ignored by society, family, friends, or whatever. The narci will continue to hide or cover up the original persona until the original situation becomes righted or satisfied or the narci realizes and accepts that something bad happened to them, which often never occurs or occurs very much later in life. if you come across a narci, basically think of them as someone who got raped but no one gave a fuck, even after they told everyone. the larger problem is that in the human life, the soul crushing problem is often not able to be fixed without overpowering or crushing a different soul. this is the reason the narci develops. the narci is indeed responsible for the things he or she does, however it is often not the original persona that is doing it. typically a narci has rejected the old persona and is a 'super friendly and awesome and cool' new persona, to no end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 68703234 Australia 09/22/2016 12:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Narcissistic and partners with Antisocial Personality Disorder engage in chronic manipulation and devaluation of their victims, leaving victims feeling worthless, anxious and even suicidal. This type of continual manipulation, which includes an idealization-devaluation-discard abuse cycle where they “lovebomb” their partners, devalue them through stonewalling, gaslighting, smear campaigns, verbal and emotional abuse, then discard them until the trauma begins again, also known as narcissistic abuse—abuse by a partner with NPD or on the far end of the narcissistic spectrum. Quoting: Earth420 Their manipulation is psychological and emotionally devastating and very dangerous, especially considering the brain circuitry for emotional and physical pain are one and the same. What a victim feels when they are punched in the stomach can be similar to the pain a victim feels when they are verbally and emotionally abused, and the effects of narcissistic abuse can be crippling and long-lasting, even resulting in symptoms of PTSD or Complex PTSD. Needless to say, this type of abuse can leave psychological and emotional scars that can last a lifetime. [link to www.elephantjournal.com] Good stuff OP, Thanks for sharing |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/22/2016 12:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sex and intimacy are important in any mutually loving relationship. And while they are each separate elements to a successful connection with a partner, today’s focus will be on the subject of sex. And Narcissists. Narcissists and sex. For many of you reading this article, you may have felt a twinge of dread, sadness, anger, shame…or a combination of these emotions. Why? Because to the Narcissist, sex is another tool for manipulation and destroying the self-esteem of their partner(s). In most cases, there’s serial cheating, withholding affection, degrading requests, porn addiction, and verbal assaults. Or, on the opposite end of the spectrum, they’re such skilled lovers that their partners often stay in the abusive relationship because they’ve never had it so good, which creates a twisted dynamic leading to self-loathing, guilt, and shame. THE NARCISSIST IN THE BEDROOM Somatic (overt, and similar to the histrionic) – The somatic Narcissist is all about the body – what it looks like, what it can do, and using their sexual prowess to gain Narcissistic supply. Somatic types are often big into sports, working out at the gym, and adorning their physique with clothes that accentuate their efforts. He or she is sexually hyperactive and often very boastful of their sexual conquests, believing the more, the better. They are never faithful to their partners, and enjoy seducing people who are married, virgins, homosexual, and anyone who presents a carnal challenge. They may have cosmetic surgery to refine and sculpt their body in order to attract more targets. In the bedroom, Somatics seem to be very good lovers; magical and intimate…in the beginning. In the same way they learned to be charming while weaving in and out of society, they’ve also learned how to be good in bed. Though as time passes, the Somatic’s partner begins to feel like an object that the Narcissist uses to “masturbate on”. Sex with a Somatic ultimately morphs into something cold, emotionless, and shame-inducing. Once the relationship begins to sour (no doubt, because of the Narcissist), the Somatic’s true colors begin to show. This can manifest in several ways including their partner discovering the Narcissist’s porn addiction, multiple affair partners, online dating profiles, and degrading requests to do bizarre, uncomfortable, and emotionally traumatizing sexual acts. Both the Somatic and Cerebral Narcissist prefer masturbation to sex with a partner, only engaging in sex to secure supply. On occasion, the male Somatic Narcissist has been fapping for so long due to their porn addiction, that they develop porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Subsequently, they blame their unsuspecting partner for their inability to perform; instilling the false belief in said partner that they are no longer desirable. The Somatic Narcissist is able to comprehend that their sexual conquests are frowned upon by society in general, so they often try to convince their partners that they have a sexual addiction. They go even further by insisting that their partner(s) accept this about them. Cerebral (often covert) – The Cerebral Narcissist can be charming and sexual during the idealization phase, but their primary game is to flaunt their intellect, career and/or academic achievements in order to entice their supply source. And while they can put on a decent show in the bedroom in the beginning, it soon becomes obvious they have no interest in sex. (Ironically, the Cerebral Narcissist may seem insatiable in the beginning of the relationship, but that’s likely because they experienced a devastating life event prior to, forcing him or her to seek immediate supply, which they are able to experience by having frequent sex, often with various partners). Many targets of the Cerebral Narcissist have the complaint that their partner withholds sex from them as a form of punishment and/or control. This is absolutely true, but it’s important to also consider that the Cerebral Narcissist simply deplores sex. They believe acting upon animalistic, sexual urges is beyond them, and prefer to masturbate to satisfy themselves instead of “going feral” with a person they consider to be below them. In fact, they often acquire partners as a cover in order to fend off advances from other underlings of society. So, when it appears the Cerebral is withholding sex, often it’s just because they have no desire for it, and being a Narcissist, couldn’t care less about their partner’s desire for it. In fact, to the Cerebral Narcissist, their partner’s urges are abhorrent in his or her eyes, causing them to withdraw further. [link to letmereach.com (secure)] Last Edited by Earth420 on 09/22/2016 12:18 AM Love to Mother Earth Always |
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User ID: 70533942 United States 09/22/2016 12:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This reminds me of the good cop bad cop technique where you have one cop telling you good things and being nice to you while the bad cop is being the opposite, a jerk, the cognitive dissonance created by such situation, GLP. [link to www.goodtherapy.org] One of the key methods of emotional abuse employed by people with narcissistic tendencies is the generalized concept called cognitive dissonance. What this abuse tactic does is create in the target a sense of unreality, confusion, and a mind-set of not trusting his or her own perception of the situation. Leon Festinger (1957) was one researcher who studied the theory of cognitive dissonance. Essentially, cognitive dissonance occurs when humans experience a state of holding two or more contradictory thoughts or beliefs in their cognition at one time. The result is a state of anxious confusion and a desire to reduce the resultant overwhelm and unbalanced perception. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 852145 United States 09/22/2016 12:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I win because you're ________. Now you can use any word. Decades ago it was "I win because you're a n-word. Now its "I win because you're bipolar" or schizophrenic. and if you look in the dictionary it says people just like that diagnosis cannot ever be right compared to a normal, and anything a normal says about how someone with a diagnosis perceives things, the normal is always right...right? NO. It's hate speech to contrast people like that. So, with that, it's like saying, never believe a gypsy, you know that's offensive. Never do something for a ...psychopath, sociopath, narcissist. Do they have personal names or are you typecasting them for life like that? Are you saying they're diseased? Are you discriminating like that? "These people" oh go fuck off OP. |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/22/2016 12:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was an empath turned psychopath! I also have some narcissism by proxy... I already had schizo affective disorder bipolar type... I loved him... But he sucked it all out... I am 115 lbs right now, at least my hair isn't falling out... Love to Mother Earth Always |
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User ID: 63642413 United States 09/22/2016 12:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was an empath turned psychopath! I also have some narcissism by proxy... I already had schizo affective disorder bipolar type... I loved him... But he sucked it all out... I am 115 lbs right now, at least my hair isn't falling out... Empaths are the best prey for a narcissist. Pick yourself up and put yourself back together....it has ended much worse for some people. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 16363866 United States 09/22/2016 12:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Empaths are the best prey for a narcissist. Quoting: Deplorable Durden Pick yourself up and put yourself back together....it has ended much worse for some people. They don't only harm their mate or partner. It's their m.o. with others too. Empath versus Narcissist Quoting: Pavana A narcissist has little or no compassion or empathy for/toward others. That's why a narcissist is the opposite of an empath and also why they sometimes 'attract'. An empath is sensitive, compassionate, intuitive. A narcissist lacks empathy and feelings, seeks admiration, shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes, grandiose self-importance, rude, abrasive, controlling. One video portrayed empath/old soul vs. narcissist/dark soul. "Lack of empathy is one of the most striking features of people with narcissistic personality disorder. 'Narcissists do not consider the pain they inflict on others; nor do they give any credence to others' perceptions,' says Dr. Les Carter. 'They simply do not care about thoughts and feelings that conflict with their own. Do not expect them to listen, validate, understand, or support you.' He may call others 'stupid' or say other hurtful words when someone makes a mistake.” MILITARY BRAINWASHING TACTICS OF THE NARCISSIST This article mentions how they use "psychological warfare". "Through emotional manipulation and abuse, which is used to control, degrade, humiliate and punish. Humiliation is when a person uses words, silence, or actions to threaten or belittle another person. The purpose is to instill fear or to intimidate; the goal is control." [link to letmereach.com (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19254838 United States 09/22/2016 12:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This reminds me of the good cop bad cop technique where you have one cop telling you good things and being nice to you while the bad cop is being the opposite, a jerk, the cognitive dissonance created by such situation, GLP. [link to www.goodtherapy.org] One of the key methods of emotional abuse employed by people with narcissistic tendencies is the generalized concept called cognitive dissonance. What this abuse tactic does is create in the target a sense of unreality, confusion, and a mind-set of not trusting his or her own perception of the situation. Leon Festinger (1957) was one researcher who studied the theory of cognitive dissonance. Essentially, cognitive dissonance occurs when humans experience a state of holding two or more contradictory thoughts or beliefs in their cognition at one time. The result is a state of anxious confusion and a desire to reduce the resultant overwhelm and unbalanced perception. Good video. Be humble. |
Deplorable Durden
User ID: 63642413 United States 09/22/2016 12:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Empaths are the best prey for a narcissist. Quoting: Deplorable Durden Pick yourself up and put yourself back together....it has ended much worse for some people. They don't only harm their mate or partner. It's their m.o. with others too. Empath versus Narcissist Quoting: Pavana A narcissist has little or no compassion or empathy for/toward others. That's why a narcissist is the opposite of an empath and also why they sometimes 'attract'. An empath is sensitive, compassionate, intuitive. A narcissist lacks empathy and feelings, seeks admiration, shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes, grandiose self-importance, rude, abrasive, controlling. One video portrayed empath/old soul vs. narcissist/dark soul. "Lack of empathy is one of the most striking features of people with narcissistic personality disorder. 'Narcissists do not consider the pain they inflict on others; nor do they give any credence to others' perceptions,' says Dr. Les Carter. 'They simply do not care about thoughts and feelings that conflict with their own. Do not expect them to listen, validate, understand, or support you.' He may call others 'stupid' or say other hurtful words when someone makes a mistake.” MILITARY BRAINWASHING TACTICS OF THE NARCISSIST This article mentions how they use "psychological warfare". "Through emotional manipulation and abuse, which is used to control, degrade, humiliate and punish. Humiliation is when a person uses words, silence, or actions to threaten or belittle another person. The purpose is to instill fear or to intimidate; the goal is control." [link to letmereach.com (secure)] Thanks for the link, reading it. |
Earth420
(OP) User ID: 6106769 United States 09/22/2016 12:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Our soul journey is about our own souls growth. Other people participate with us to help us learn our lessons and we do the same for them. We don’t have one true love who comes back with us time and time again to live the same life. Why would we? We have many lives and many loves because it is our nature to love. The fact that we feel a greater love or a greater attachment with the narcissist, who is obviously disordered, would show us that there is something dysfunctional or disordered about this attachment. This person has likely come into our lives to help us heal some childhood wound from this life, or to come face to face with our own narcissism or sense of worthlessness and inadequacy. [link to www.narcissismfree.com] I feel I had a Soul Contract with him... I told him what he was... I know his smear campaign that I am mentally ill, I had already turned psychopath by this time... Told him only a psychopath can beat a narcissist... No tears just mad that I had beat his game... And did it make me feel good! Last joke, we had to find our hamster a home and he says then I can get rid of 2 rats, fake laugh... Yeah Love to Mother Earth Always |
TrustNoOneKS
User ID: 70716284 United States 09/22/2016 12:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Unfortunately, my daughter found out the hard way with one of these scum. They are separated now, but have a child together. He's a real piece of work. The lies that have come out of his mouth! He actually said he was a prisoner of war in Afghanistan and escaped and that he lost a child and girlfriend while he was there and they wouldn't let him come back for the funeral. Piece of shit has never even been out of the country! I Want To Believe |