Anonymous Coward User ID: 70960313 Mexico 09/07/2016 03:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City Recently I've had women cut off online private conversations for:
1. Claiming I'm not trustworthy when they lied like crazy to me.
2. Thinking I was chatting with them because of "ulterior motives" when there was no evidence for that.
3. Using a persona to post on an online forum when everyone does that. Everyone posts using a persona on a forum unless they're openly reavealing who they are.
I'm starting to think there's no point in even trying anymore.
Anyone have advice?
Here's my advice:
Never mention another woman to the woman you're chatting with. Even if the woman you're chatting with is married, they seem to look at any private communications with a man as being like a date. And, they want your full attention. They want to pretend it's just you and them...on a date. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70960313 Mexico 09/07/2016 03:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City It seems to me that even if women claim they're not interested in an online relationship, they still look at private communications with a man as a type of date. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72939925 Spain 09/07/2016 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City What do you try and chat to them about? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70960313 Mexico 09/07/2016 04:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City
What do you try and chat to them about?
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72939925 What do you try and chat to them about?
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72939925 Anything they bring up. That's a great point. Anything they mention is OK. If the male mentions something outside of that, you're on thin ice. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 15184272 Canada 09/07/2016 04:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City lol |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70960313 Mexico 09/07/2016 04:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City lol
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15184272 What specifically was funny? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72925060 United States 09/07/2016 04:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72376517 United States 09/07/2016 04:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City Sounds like op is either crazy or a bot. What are your ulterior motives op? Burn her alive in her car? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 70960313 Mexico 09/07/2016 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Having private conversations online with the opposite sex: Heartbreak City Sounds like op is either crazy or a bot. What are your ulterior motives op? Burn her alive in her car?
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72376517 She didn't specify any ulterior motives outside of "thread ideas" on the forum we both use. She got that idea because I started a couple of threads that were tangentially related to things we chatted about. The threads had nothing to do with her. |