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What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?

 
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What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
I'm 25 and my generation, and I do mean almost my entire generation, is ALWAYS loud and laughing loudly. Now, it's not that I don't have a sense of humor, but I generally only 'lol' out of courtesy. I'm also not a fan of generational meme humor and prefer more 'authentic', original, observational humor.

As of today the man I relate to most is a 72 year old Cherokee fella (quite excitedly) teaching me his trade secrets of woodworking. (Lots of extra detail there.. Pardon my egotism).

I've been described as the sort to not speak often, but people -listen- when I speak. It honestly stucks! Lol. I'm not sure if I'm insane, an individual or if I even care.

I am curious about polling for thoughts on it, or maybe just validation, ;) BUT I am completely open to ALL perspectives on the idea.

P.S. I've obviously been can an 'old soul' who know how many times. Looking forward to your input, and ty for reading :)
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
probably means you're brain is very much adjusted to using and socialising through a computer or technology whatever it may be.
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
or your just not an extroverted person which is totally normal and natural
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
probably means you're brain is very much adjusted to using and socialising through a computer or technology whatever it may be.
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Now that's a very interesting thought. Over the last few years that may be the case. I should note that I do laugh out loud more often in older company. Maybe I'm just tok jaded to keep up with my generation?
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
or your just not an extroverted person which is totally normal and natural
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(been introverted since I was a kid. Can entertain people but it tires me out after awhile)
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
probably means you're brain is very much adjusted to using and socialising through a computer or technology whatever it may be.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72735104


Now that's a very interesting thought. Over the last few years that may be the case. I should note that I do laugh out loud more often in older company. Maybe I'm just tok jaded to keep up with my generation?
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yeh perhaps, maybe you just aren't generally interested in whatever younger people are generally interested in these days.
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
just be a ass, its fun.
i also dont dont talk much.
some at work were talking about how some people are afraid of people and thats why they dont talk, started to laugh cuz i was sitting right next to them. and they walked away :p. anyhow people are fking retarded, you seem to knowing this

ps. woodworking sounds like a uphonism for something gay
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
probably means you're brain is very much adjusted to using and socialising through a computer or technology whatever it may be.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72735104


Now that's a very interesting thought. Over the last few years that may be the case. I should note that I do laugh out loud more often in older company. Maybe I'm just tok jaded to keep up with my generation?
 Quoting: ofLesserMatters


yeh perhaps, maybe you just aren't generally interested in whatever younger people are generally interested in these days.
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Is that not unhealthy in a way? It seems like someone should be able to relate well enough to their own generation? (I have s few very close friends my age who are simular)
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
I'm 25 and my generation, and I do mean almost my entire generation, is ALWAYS loud and laughing loudly. Now, it's not that I don't have a sense of humor, but I generally only 'lol' out of courtesy. I'm also not a fan of generational meme humor and prefer more 'authentic', original, observational humor.

As of today the man I relate to most is a 72 year old Cherokee fella (quite excitedly) teaching me his trade secrets of woodworking. (Lots of extra detail there.. Pardon my egotism).

I've been described as the sort to not speak often, but people -listen- when I speak. It honestly stucks! Lol. I'm not sure if I'm insane, an individual or if I even care.

I am curious about polling for thoughts on it, or maybe just validation, ;) BUT I am completely open to ALL perspectives on the idea.

P.S. I've obviously been can an 'old soul' who know how many times. Looking forward to your input, and ty for reading :)
 Quoting: ofLesserMatters


^ I think you answerd your own question. it sounds that youre just too individual and intelligent to run with the herd of sheep.
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
just be a ass, its fun.
i also dont dont talk much.
some at work were talking about how some people are afraid of people and thats why they dont talk, started to laugh cuz i was sitting right next to them. and they walked away :p. anyhow people are fking retarded, you seem to knowing this

ps. woodworking sounds like a uphonism for something gay
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70942021


Hahahaha yeah.. I can relate to that man.

Ofc I mean the 'woodworking' idea

;)
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
I'm 25 and my generation, and I do mean almost my entire generation, is ALWAYS loud and laughing loudly. Now, it's not that I don't have a sense of humor, but I generally only 'lol' out of courtesy. I'm also not a fan of generational meme humor and prefer more 'authentic', original, observational humor.

As of today the man I relate to most is a 72 year old Cherokee fella (quite excitedly) teaching me his trade secrets of woodworking. (Lots of extra detail there.. Pardon my egotism).

I've been described as the sort to not speak often, but people -listen- when I speak. It honestly stucks! Lol. I'm not sure if I'm insane, an individual or if I even care.

I am curious about polling for thoughts on it, or maybe just validation, ;) BUT I am completely open to ALL perspectives on the idea.

P.S. I've obviously been can an 'old soul' who know how many times. Looking forward to your input, and ty for reading :)
 Quoting: ofLesserMatters


^ I think you answerd your own question. it sounds that youre just too individual and intelligent to run with the herd of sheep.
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funny how not running off the edge of a cliff with the rest of the Buffalo can make you feel nuts tounge
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
Just sounds normal to me. I don't laugh at unfunny things. I find small talk boring. I don't use Facebook, Twitter, or anything similar. I post here because I don't have to go through the rigmarole of registering an account. If it became compulsory to register I just wouldn't bother.
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
Just sounds normal to me. I don't laugh at unfunny things. I find small talk boring. I don't use Facebook, Twitter, or anything similar. I post here because I don't have to go through the rigmarole of registering an account. If it became compulsory to register I just wouldn't bother.
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Recently, officially, dropped all that myself (never really used it in the first place). Maybe you're just nuts too, tho >:)
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
You're just an introvert. I guess it's less common in your culture.

I'm an introvert, too. I can socialize well enough, but it quickly drains my energy. I can't really stand being in a crowd for more than two hours. At that point I need a break or I'll get anxious. I prefer to listen and observe. Whenever I say something, it's usually a follow-up on whatever the others were just talking about. I don't like to start conversations, debate (I can out-debate anyone on the net, but get totally crushed in oral debates), meet new people, and have hard time remembering and following the proper social code for formal occasions (like weddings and funerals).

It's ok as long as you know it and can away from people once in a while.
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Re: What does it mean to prefer observation to conversing and often only laugh inside?
You're just an introvert. I guess it's less common in your culture.

I'm an introvert, too. I can socialize well enough, but it quickly drains my energy. I can't really stand being in a crowd for more than two hours. At that point I need a break or I'll get anxious. I prefer to listen and observe. Whenever I say something, it's usually a follow-up on whatever the others were just talking about. I don't like to start conversations, debate (I can out-debate anyone on the net, but get totally crushed in oral debates), meet new people, and have hard time remembering and following the proper social code for formal occasions (like weddings and funerals).

It's ok as long as you know it and can away from people once in a while.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72016321


Biggest difference there is I love a good, stimulating debate. Really 1 on 1 conversation in general. I'll also create topics (relevant to the conversation. If it's about Pokémon go I just hang back. I like talking about ideas) Luckily enough for me I love 5 miles outside a town of 600. Still have trouble getting alone at times so I stay up all night to get it (tonight) . My most productive days are actually after all-nighters
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