Years ago I saw an Ophra show on a person who was a hemetrodite ...
Or whatever they are called. Person born with ovaries and a partial penis. Person did not identify as either man or woman. Wore a leather vest, pants, long straight hair and was thin. You literally couldn't figure out what it was. You'd be thinking one way and then a gesture or voice inflection made you change your mind, and then you'd change your mind again. I never felt more sorry for someone and I am not liberal. I wonder if you could find that clip on you tube.