Runaway teen

Depends. If I have a good idea of where they would go, I'd try to contact them. If I had no idea where they went, I'd file a missing persons report.

girl or guy

boy or girl?

Girl, we think she is with her "girlfriend" 18+.
I have no idea where that girl leaves.

Well, at 16-17, did she "runaway" or did she "leave"?

im so sorry that its a girl well you know what if shes a lezzy im out

a girl having a "girlfriend" in american english doesn't mean she's a lezzy.

I don't know.
She has done this a few times before a day, and 2 days...now is a second night, no contact.
She doesnt want to folow any rules and now she has a place where to crush...but im only guessing.
I dont know if i should be worried/angry/scared/ disappointed or what...

Actually, it is worst she is female to male transgender, at least this is what she feels she is.


Last Edited by Lilac.Nights on 01/26/2016 02:15 AM

I'd do my best to try and find out where she is and contact her. If contact was made, I'd tell her I respect her, please keep in regular communication so I know she's OK, and if she wants to come home, she can at anytime and I'd help her if she needed it. Communication is the important thing, you want to know she's OK and you want regular communication.

Cut her out of your will. And Never talk to her again.


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Last Edited by Sky Ward on 01/26/2016 02:21 AM

Wouldn't this just make her feel a bit too special?
I don't know...I don't feel like this will do any good in her case.
My gut feeling is telling me to let her be for now, since I see some signs that she is out there...she just changed a pasword of one of her emails, so she is alive and well.

A runaway girl that think she's a guy?

What the heck happened here?!?!?!

I can't do that...it's her life in that sence.

maybe you are oppressing her?
she is nearly an adult.

I have no idea, the whole thing is like a nightmare.
She has also been involeved with her "girlfriend" since she was 14 i think.
That girl (young woman) moved across contry to our city 2 months ago to be close to my daughter...and this is when her "disappearances" started...but never like that.

the kids have lost their minds.

Could be...she is a little narcissistic, transgender and dysmorphic.
All she cares bout is to look like a boy, even though she is a very atractive girl. She is also a bit paranoid.

Never ever give up on her. Ever.

It was not like that in my time.
I could even think of being so disrespectful and arrogant .
What is going on?

Of coarse I'm not going to.
I'm just conflicted at how to handle the situation.
I plan to have her in my life always and as friends if possible.

What, are you kidding?

Give up on her.

Its her life, her choices.

Honestly, what are you accomplishing by giving up or not giving up? hmh?

Your admission of the fact that you really never had any rules, limits, or goals set for her?

An artistic way of saying "I never really gave a sh-t how you turned out" ???

Why are so afraid to admit your sincere feelings?


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What do you mean?
She always had rules and limits and goals...

How do you teach someone NOT TO BE transgender?

Cyrillic doesn't work on this board, but the simple answer is "you teach them".

I know it is very hard to teach children anything in north america that is contrary to the political line, though.

Its so easy to become a piece of shit in america.canada.

If you're coming from a slavic/soviet country, even harder, because you'll find no roots here.

My parents were very simple people with very simple values. Of course, I rebelled a little bit, but their simple sincerity is what inspired me to lead an upstanding lifestyle.

I'll leave it at that.

We come from Bulgaria(Eastern Europe)
We can't be any further from the trans/gay culture.

Belive me, it s NOT something we have controll over. I could feel she was going in this direction ever since she was 2-3 yo.
Our son is growing up in the same house, not even a hint that something is not "in norm" with him.

This is a ahick to me a hit, Im still getting used to it:

Yeah, but whiter. But you get the general idea.


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