How to Debate a Liberal and Win (Avoiding anger and using facts) | |
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(OP) User ID: 40425014 United States 10/18/2015 03:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There aren't just two kinds of people. I support gay marriage and am pro choice because those are decisions best left to individuals. Competitive free markets are good, but non competitive markets are flawed. I don't want to replace government power with private power. I'm not a libertarian because sometimes you just have to do things as a group (national security, probably health insurance among others). Gov should be limited and transparent. That appears to heard to do, but my opinion is that maybe its possible, or at least worth working for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69687979 I trust the private sector much more than government with anything. Why? Because in the private sector, if a product / service is bad - it won't sell, it won't succeed. If a government program is bad, it's forced upon the public either way. Nothing should be forced onto the people by the government, that's not how it works. Welfare won't fix poverty. |
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AntiPC
(OP) User ID: 40425014 United States 10/18/2015 05:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Continue on making up the fantasy you are living folks. Debating with a conservative is like arguing with a 3 year old... you'll never win if they can't even comprehend what you are saying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55041088 [link to www.theglobeandmail.com] This study is based on the opinion that "racism" is only a conservative trait - it's not. Racists come in all genders, races, and parties. Also it's talking about social conservatism - which I've said multiple times in this thread, this is mainly about fiscal / gun control / SJW liberals. But why am I not surprised that a liberal would come into this thread and use an argument that is the basis of the entire thread. Thanks for proving my point! Last Edited by AntiPC on 10/18/2015 06:47 AM Welfare won't fix poverty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 58686169 United States 10/18/2015 06:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Funny you talk about using opinions as facts and then line by line make sweeping declarations about what liberals think, say, and do....when its clear that you have no facts to back that up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70543385 I'm a "liberal" and none of your "liberals always" or "liberals never" statements fit me. Nor do they fit most of the liberals I know. I suggest if you want to debate a liberal and win, you might want to get rid of bullshit stereotypes you suspect or maybe just wish were true. At least then you'll have a chance. I've debated dozens and dozens of liberals, they're all the same. If you don't have the liberal mindset, you aren't a liberal. Pretty simple really Yeah, same here. Liberals are pretty much the same... All about emotions and no facts. One of the oldest friends is a liberal and she uses emotion, no facts. Same with my twin brother but he hasn't said anything for a few years. Seems he gave up or something. |
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(OP) User ID: 40425014 United States 10/18/2015 06:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Funny you talk about using opinions as facts and then line by line make sweeping declarations about what liberals think, say, and do....when its clear that you have no facts to back that up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70543385 I'm a "liberal" and none of your "liberals always" or "liberals never" statements fit me. Nor do they fit most of the liberals I know. I suggest if you want to debate a liberal and win, you might want to get rid of bullshit stereotypes you suspect or maybe just wish were true. At least then you'll have a chance. I've debated dozens and dozens of liberals, they're all the same. If you don't have the liberal mindset, you aren't a liberal. Pretty simple really Yeah, same here. Liberals are pretty much the same... All about emotions and no facts. One of the oldest friends is a liberal and she uses emotion, no facts. Same with my twin brother but he hasn't said anything for a few years. Seems he gave up or something. They are fed the narrative that all conservatives are bigots, racists etc. When all we really want is fiscal responsibility, less tax, and less government. The narrative overrides the logical part of their brain during a debate and they just think "racist" "sexist" or spew emotions / opinions. All of the young conservatives I know don't really care about social issues, sometimes I wish that shit wasn't tied to the party. If there's a gay dude that's a hard worker, I have no problem hiring him. Last Edited by AntiPC on 10/18/2015 06:51 AM Welfare won't fix poverty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61891479 United States 10/18/2015 06:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish I had read this before my last family get together, I've learned not to talk politics with the liberals in my family because as you said it's not a worthwhile battle and they are extremely intolerant. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70013402 I can listen to their opinions on politics without getting upset but if I say how I feel they will freak out, make me feel guilty and resort to emotional/moral-based arguments. If they cite anything factual it will be from a source that is biased and questionable, like something some Imam said overseas, or a La Raza organization. I'm fortunate to come from a conservative family, but I know exactly how you feel. The same thing happens with my friends, and I've actually lost a lot of friends over getting mad / telling them I never want to talk to them again because they're idiots. No you are the idiot. You are unable to entertain any idea other than what is in your made up mind. That also means you are incapable of learning or understanding that other peoples opinions are just as valid as yours. In order to get anything done people must work together and compromise in all things. Get over yourself and become someone worth listening to so you can stop alienating people. |
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(OP) User ID: 40425014 United States 10/18/2015 06:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish I had read this before my last family get together, I've learned not to talk politics with the liberals in my family because as you said it's not a worthwhile battle and they are extremely intolerant. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70013402 I can listen to their opinions on politics without getting upset but if I say how I feel they will freak out, make me feel guilty and resort to emotional/moral-based arguments. If they cite anything factual it will be from a source that is biased and questionable, like something some Imam said overseas, or a La Raza organization. I'm fortunate to come from a conservative family, but I know exactly how you feel. The same thing happens with my friends, and I've actually lost a lot of friends over getting mad / telling them I never want to talk to them again because they're idiots. No you are the idiot. You are unable to entertain any idea other than what is in your made up mind. That also means you are incapable of learning or understanding that other peoples opinions are just as valid as yours. In order to get anything done people must work together and compromise in all things. Get over yourself and become someone worth listening to so you can stop alienating people. What ideas am I unable to entertain? Be specific Last Edited by AntiPC on 10/18/2015 06:57 AM Welfare won't fix poverty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70577755 United States 10/18/2015 06:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 6. Pick your battles. Remember that 90% of liberals will not change their views, so you have to pick your battles. Ben, for example, recommends to always debate a liberal in front of a large crowd, and embarrass them as much as possible. The average liberal may not be worth wasting your time, because at the end of the debate, even if you have all the facts, their views will not change. Quoting: AntiPC Lmao, Ben has either been involved with the MRM at one time(before the homosexual marxists infiltrated and took it over), or copied them. This is an old tactic to deal with feminists. Good to see, the Right Wing, is picking up good tactics. |
Inquiring Mind
User ID: 70110064 United States 10/18/2015 07:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the longest time, I had much built-up anger against liberals. Every time I tried to have a discussion, this anger came out and lead to a bad place. Calling them names, personal attacks, etc. Quoting: AntiPC Fortunately I came across Ben Shapiro, and watched many of his videos. I want to share you with the basics of what I learned, and how you can use it to your advantage. Note: This isn't exactly what's in the video, just some things that I picked up along the way. Watch the video for the full presentation. 1. Frame the debate. The liberal will generally always try to use an opinion as fact. In this situation, you must frame the debate using a factual point of view. For example, if a liberal says "Trump is a racist", I might say "You're telling me a racist employs thousands of blacks/Hispanics, and married a woman who is from Slovenia?". The liberal may respond with "It doesn't matter, he's still a racist", and I might say, "You know what, you are the racist, you're the one calling Trump a racist without any evidence whatsoever. That means you're a bully and a nasty human being. If you're that type of person then we can't have a rational conversation. If you want to learn the facts, then maybe we can talk about it." 2. Do not get angry. We all know that liberals are bullies. They do not want to use facts, they prefer to argue with "feelz" instead. This can cause you to immediately go off on personal attacks. Do not do this. Beat them with logic and facts instead. 3. Know your facts. Have a good understanding of economic issues, trade deficits, FBI crime statistics, illegal immigration, foreign policy, gun statistics, and anything else that you think will be brought up during the debate. 4. Do not fall into their trap. The liberal will always try to make you feel guilty, because it makes them feel good. It's what they are taught to do, it's their only play. Do not fall into this trap, keep re-framing the debate back to a factual point of view. Never let them debate on "feelz". 5. They do not have control of you. Despite what the liberal may think, their insults have no power over you. So regardless of if they call you a racist, sexist, whatever, it doesn't matter. You have the facts, they have opinions. Keep debating them with facts, as the liberal cannot win a factual debate. 6. Pick your battles. Remember that 90% of liberals will not change their views, so you have to pick your battles. Ben, for example, recommends to always debate a liberal in front of a large crowd, and embarrass them as much as possible. The average liberal may not be worth wasting your time, because at the end of the debate, even if you have all the facts, their views will not change. Knowing that it is a losing battle (they won't change their minds) I usually try to avoid an argument by saying something like, "What we agree on is that we both have a strong desire to help people - where we disagree is on the best way to help them. Conservatives give more out of their own pockets to charitable organizations than liberals. Liberals advocate for government programs to do the giving." Sometimes I'll say something like, "I would LOVE to help all of the unfortunate poor people, and I think it would be grand if the money to pay for sweeping programs to solve a mass problem could appear out of thin air, but just like my house has to live within a budget, countries have to live within the realities of economics, and just like an individual can appear to have beaten the realities of economics when they finance their lifestyle on credit - one day the bill comes due. With countries it takes many more years for the bill to come due, but it will always come due. Sadly, in our situation, the bill in America will come due for my children, and theirs." Last Edited by Inquiring Mind on 10/18/2015 07:13 AM Inquiring Mind |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61891479 United States 10/18/2015 07:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish I had read this before my last family get together, I've learned not to talk politics with the liberals in my family because as you said it's not a worthwhile battle and they are extremely intolerant. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70013402 I can listen to their opinions on politics without getting upset but if I say how I feel they will freak out, make me feel guilty and resort to emotional/moral-based arguments. If they cite anything factual it will be from a source that is biased and questionable, like something some Imam said overseas, or a La Raza organization. I'm fortunate to come from a conservative family, but I know exactly how you feel. The same thing happens with my friends, and I've actually lost a lot of friends over getting mad / telling them I never want to talk to them again because they're idiots. No you are the idiot. You are unable to entertain any idea other than what is in your made up mind. That also means you are incapable of learning or understanding that other peoples opinions are just as valid as yours. In order to get anything done people must work together and compromise in all things. Get over yourself and become someone worth listening to so you can stop alienating people. What ideas am I unable to entertain? Be specific If you were able to entertain other viewpoints you wouldn't resort to getting mad/telling them you never want to talk to them again because they are idiots. They feel just as passionately about their stance on things as you do and the fact is a good place to come together is in the middle. People aren't going to listen to a ranter blowhard who believes he is right and everybody else is wrong. Respect others and you should get that in return. LIsten more than you speak, you might learn something. Ask questions without malice. Make your arguments politely as if…did you know that ………….. Calm collected prepared people come off as intelligent and involved not hostile or childish. |
AntiPC
(OP) User ID: 40425014 United States 10/18/2015 07:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: AntiPC I'm fortunate to come from a conservative family, but I know exactly how you feel. The same thing happens with my friends, and I've actually lost a lot of friends over getting mad / telling them I never want to talk to them again because they're idiots. No you are the idiot. You are unable to entertain any idea other than what is in your made up mind. That also means you are incapable of learning or understanding that other peoples opinions are just as valid as yours. In order to get anything done people must work together and compromise in all things. Get over yourself and become someone worth listening to so you can stop alienating people. What ideas am I unable to entertain? Be specific If you were able to entertain other viewpoints you wouldn't resort to getting mad/telling them you never want to talk to them again because they are idiots. They feel just as passionately about their stance on things as you do and the fact is a good place to come together is in the middle. People aren't going to listen to a ranter blowhard who believes he is right and everybody else is wrong. Respect others and you should get that in return. LIsten more than you speak, you might learn something. Ask questions without malice. Make your arguments politely as if…did you know that ………….. Calm collected prepared people come off as intelligent and involved not hostile or childish. Did you read the thread? The point of it was to encourage others to stop using emotion, and debate with intellect, thus avoiding telling friends they never want to talk to them again. I made the mistake of losing some liberal friends, and although I don't regret it, it could've been avoided by using the information in this thread. Welfare won't fix poverty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61891479 United States 10/18/2015 07:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 61891479 No you are the idiot. You are unable to entertain any idea other than what is in your made up mind. That also means you are incapable of learning or understanding that other peoples opinions are just as valid as yours. In order to get anything done people must work together and compromise in all things. Get over yourself and become someone worth listening to so you can stop alienating people. What ideas am I unable to entertain? Be specific If you were able to entertain other viewpoints you wouldn't resort to getting mad/telling them you never want to talk to them again because they are idiots. They feel just as passionately about their stance on things as you do and the fact is a good place to come together is in the middle. People aren't going to listen to a ranter blowhard who believes he is right and everybody else is wrong. Respect others and you should get that in return. LIsten more than you speak, you might learn something. Ask questions without malice. Make your arguments politely as if…did you know that ………….. Calm collected prepared people come off as intelligent and involved not hostile or childish. Did you read the thread? The point of it was to encourage others to stop using emotion, and debate with intellect, thus avoiding telling friends they never want to talk to them again. I made the mistake of losing some liberal friends, and although I don't regret it, it could've been avoided by using the information in this thread. Yes, I did. Looked like you might of been able to use a few more pointers. Good luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 43524246 United States 10/18/2015 08:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bring up the obvious fact that college campuses with students that have valid CCWs allowed to carry guns would actually make things safer, as very few people with CCWs go around with the intent of committing illegal acts, and very few of the people who go around shooting up theaters or schools care about the gun law when they go and do it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9081352 The logic of this argument is so obvious it baffles my mind how these airheads don't understand it. Teachers with CCW permits should be allowed to carry in public schools as well. Agreed. Liberals are taught a narrative but not the underlying statistics to back up the narrative. So when you put them in a position where they actually have to use facts and logic, they are unable to do so. It's quite satisfying, since I've been watching Ben, I've had a lot of fun debating these retards Liberal is too vague. I'm a recovering neocon, and now consider myself a "classical liberal" as defined by Wikipedia. Freedom. Progressives are mostly socialists in the communism style (with some Hitler facism thrown in, minus the race nationalism). ie they put the needs of "society" above individual freedoms. This is NOT classical liberism. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 65628652 United States 10/18/2015 08:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Conservatism and GLP do not mix. Too much inner conflict. It is impossible to be a "conservative" on this forum. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69377630 The liberals are actually right. They just don't know why. If you believe in 9/11 being an inside job and Sandy Hook being a complete hoax and generally have an honest distrust of the government, then there is no way that conservatism, in the Republican sense of the word, is acceptable nor is it ever applicable. GLP = Liberal.....but from a different perspective. Explain the specifics about this inner conflict. Give an example. explain how a general distrust of the government and conservatism cannot work. what is conservatism in the republican sense of the word. Explain how being conservative is impossible if you think sandy hook or 9/11 was fake. You arent a conservative so there must be some tangible evidence to all this, not just how you see it. If you dont, everything you typed are empty words with no supporting evidence...at all. Here ill get ya started. Many gun owners feel the number one reason for the right to own weapons is to defend ourselves from a tyrannical government. How does this fit in with what you said? Going off the fact most LEGAL gun owners (not criminal hip hoppin thugs) are conservative. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 64957503 United States 10/18/2015 08:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I do not debate liberals, I avoid them. They cannot be trusted and are quite evil in every way. They expect handouts for themselves and all others, "NeoCons" excluded. But soon....the economy will slide like not seen for decades. Liberals have never dealt with implosion all around them. The universal love belief is hard to hold onto when someone whips your ass for your shoes. Who will feed them and shelter them then? |
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AntiPC
(OP) User ID: 40425014 United States 10/18/2015 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't have enough time to debate a liberal. I usually just let them hand me my coffee and I'm on my way. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 64899572 Ahahahaha so true Last Edited by AntiPC on 10/18/2015 04:46 PM Welfare won't fix poverty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70592272 Austria 10/18/2015 05:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For the longest time, I had much built-up anger against liberals. Every time I tried to have a discussion, this anger came out and lead to a bad place. Calling them names, personal attacks, etc. Quoting: AntiPC Fortunately I came across Ben Shapiro, and watched many of his videos. I want to share you with the basics of what I learned, and how you can use it to your advantage. Note: This isn't exactly what's in the video, just some things that I picked up along the way. Watch the video for the full presentation. 1. Frame the debate. The liberal will generally always try to use an opinion as fact. In this situation, you must frame the debate using a factual point of view. For example, if a liberal says "Trump is a racist", I might say "You're telling me a racist employs thousands of blacks/Hispanics, and married a woman who is from Slovenia?". The liberal may respond with "It doesn't matter, he's still a racist", and I might say, "You know what, you are the racist, you're the one calling Trump a racist without any evidence whatsoever. That means you're a bully and a nasty human being. If you're that type of person then we can't have a rational conversation. If you want to learn the facts, then maybe we can talk about it." 2. Do not get angry. We all know that liberals are bullies. They do not want to use facts, they prefer to argue with "feelz" instead. This can cause you to immediately go off on personal attacks. Do not do this. Beat them with logic and facts instead. 3. Know your facts. Have a good understanding of economic issues, trade deficits, FBI crime statistics, illegal immigration, foreign policy, gun statistics, and anything else that you think will be brought up during the debate. 4. Do not fall into their trap. The liberal will always try to make you feel guilty, because it makes them feel good. It's what they are taught to do, it's their only play. Do not fall into this trap, keep re-framing the debate back to a factual point of view. Never let them debate on "feelz". 5. They do not have control of you. Despite what the liberal may think, their insults have no power over you. So regardless of if they call you a racist, sexist, whatever, it doesn't matter. You have the facts, they have opinions. Keep debating them with facts, as the liberal cannot win a factual debate. 6. Pick your battles. Remember that 90% of liberals will not change their views, so you have to pick your battles. Ben, for example, recommends to always debate a liberal in front of a large crowd, and embarrass them as much as possible. The average liberal may not be worth wasting your time, because at the end of the debate, even if you have all the facts, their views will not change. Cost/Benefit ?!? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70566922 Canada 10/18/2015 05:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Most of the time, arguments (about anything, really) can't be "won". Quoting: Adytum Reason is not really big with human beings. You can't reason people out of insanity, and at this point liberalism is mental illness. Just sayin' Agreed. I truly think liberalism is a mental illness. What's funny is that we base this belief off facts. They call conservatism a mental illness, based on opinions / narratives they've been fed, but are never able to back it up. yup, just like religion |
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