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hankie
Everything User ID: 66849899 United States 09/13/2015 03:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Can you afford a trip for a while, a vacation? That unexpected trip would do, not a lie. You see you were only expecting her, she did not tell you about the dog, but why would she ever bring her ex-boyfriend. Really her ex-boyfriend? I would just tell her, I can not accommodate her ex-boyfriend, the dog is enough. There is a word it is no, you do not want the guy at your house. You did not invite him. Sorry I got a headache These are the times that tries men's and women's souls! May we come though it victorious! |
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GoodKitty
(OP) User ID: 66021996 United States 09/13/2015 03:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Can you afford a trip for a while, a vacation? That unexpected trip would do, not a lie. You see you were only expecting her, she did not tell you about the dog, but why would she ever bring her ex-boyfriend. Really her ex-boyfriend? Quoting: hankie I would just tell her, I can not accommodate her ex-boyfriend, the dog is enough. There is a word it is no, you do not want the guy at your house. You did not invite him. I don't mind my friend staying, even though I am not happy about the dog, I already said it was OK as long as it stays in the side yard. But I NEVER told her it was OK to bring her ex who I have only met a handful of times and every time they were fighting and he was like a drama druggie type. I didn't invite him and the fact she just assumed it was OK with me really pisses me off but I feel like am being mean for saying NO. GoodKitty |
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GoodKitty
(OP) User ID: 66021996 United States 09/13/2015 03:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was in a similar situation before. I said NO, they got mad and never came back around. problem solved and any future problems were also solved. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70291736 That's the thing, if I say NO I look like the bad guy even though they are really the ones in the wrong for taking advantage of my hospitality. I want to keep my friendship with my friend because she's generally nice, but I could care less about the ex and don't trust him to be in my home. GoodKitty |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70306485 Singapore 09/13/2015 03:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Listen if you want to be a good kitteh then listen to me and tell her to fuck off.. if she wants to take advantage of you then she is no true friendand should be cut off.. no bs.. just tell her straight up you cant be invaded this way and she should have considered asking you how you feel before deciding it was ok for her to bring druggi asshole boufriend to rape and pillage your home and party all jours and mess with your space.. no.. straight up no.. and no big loss if you lose the stupid ho as your friend as she is clearly a piece of shit.. say no and thats all it takes.. |