Godlike Productions - Discussion Forum
Users Online Now: 2,008 (Who's On?)Visitors Today: 1,107,080
Pageviews Today: 2,003,983Threads Today: 883Posts Today: 15,426
10:37 PM


Rate this Thread

Absolute BS Crap Reasonable Nice Amazing
 

What to do?

 
GoodKitty
Offer Upgrade

User ID: 66021996
United States
09/13/2015 02:50 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
What to do?
I was trying to help out my friend who wants to move so I told her she can stay with me for a few weeks. Then it turned into her dog coming, and now she wants her crazy ex-boyfriend to come too. Staying in MY house! I don't even know or trust the guy.

I don't want any of them to stay with me. What do I say? I am afraid to call her and say NO.
GoodKitty
hankie
Everything

User ID: 66849899
United States
09/13/2015 03:03 AM

Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
Can you afford a trip for a while, a vacation? That unexpected trip would do, not a lie. You see you were only expecting her, she did not tell you about the dog, but why would she ever bring her ex-boyfriend. Really her ex-boyfriend?

I would just tell her, I can not accommodate her ex-boyfriend, the dog is enough. There is a word it is no, you do not want the guy at your house. You did not invite him.
Sorry I got a headache

These are the times that tries men's and
women's souls!

May we come though it victorious!
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 61554461
United States
09/13/2015 03:05 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
tell her she a one pimp ho, and needs to decide which one
GoodKitty  (OP)

User ID: 66021996
United States
09/13/2015 03:08 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
Can you afford a trip for a while, a vacation? That unexpected trip would do, not a lie. You see you were only expecting her, she did not tell you about the dog, but why would she ever bring her ex-boyfriend. Really her ex-boyfriend?

I would just tell her, I can not accommodate her ex-boyfriend, the dog is enough. There is a word it is no, you do not want the guy at your house. You did not invite him.
 Quoting: hankie


I don't mind my friend staying, even though I am not happy about the dog, I already said it was OK as long as it stays in the side yard.

But I NEVER told her it was OK to bring her ex who I have only met a handful of times and every time they were fighting and he was like a drama druggie type. I didn't invite him and the fact she just assumed it was OK with me really pisses me off but I feel like am being mean for saying NO.
GoodKitty
GoodKitty  (OP)

User ID: 66021996
United States
09/13/2015 03:09 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
tell her she a one pimp ho, and needs to decide which one
 Quoting: Boris the Cat


What do you mean which one? I can tolerate the dog but not the weirdo ex in my home.
GoodKitty
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 61554461
United States
09/13/2015 03:11 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
tell her she a one pimp ho, and needs to decide which one
 Quoting: Boris the Cat


What do you mean which one? I can tolerate the dog but not the weirdo ex in my home.
 Quoting: GoodKitty


you ain't pimpin you "friend"?
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 70291736
United States
09/13/2015 03:11 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
I was in a similar situation before. I said NO, they got mad and never came back around. problem solved and any future problems were also solved.
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 63871468
United States
09/13/2015 03:12 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
You don't always have to be a good kitty. Lol

If your not comfortable with it just be honest and speak the truth.
GoodKitty  (OP)

User ID: 66021996
United States
09/13/2015 03:13 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
I was in a similar situation before. I said NO, they got mad and never came back around. problem solved and any future problems were also solved.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70291736


That's the thing, if I say NO I look like the bad guy even though they are really the ones in the wrong for taking advantage of my hospitality. I want to keep my friendship with my friend because she's generally nice, but I could care less about the ex and don't trust him to be in my home.
GoodKitty
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 37689631
United States
09/13/2015 03:14 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
Trailerpark problems, they never seem to end...
GoodKitty  (OP)

User ID: 66021996
United States
09/13/2015 03:14 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
You don't always have to be a good kitty. Lol

If your not comfortable with it just be honest and speak the truth.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 63871468


They told me I always have to be good or else.
GoodKitty
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 70315478
United States
09/13/2015 03:14 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
Kick em' all out and save the frustration. It will never end.
GoodKitty  (OP)

User ID: 66021996
United States
09/13/2015 03:16 AM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
Trailerpark problems, they never seem to end...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 37689631


I live in a nice neighborhood
GoodKitty
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 69171077
United States
09/13/2015 03:47 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
I assume you're an adult. Learn to say no.
ps you don't need to explain yourself to anyone, a simple no will suffice
Anonymous Coward
User ID: 70306485
Singapore
09/13/2015 03:52 PM
Report Abusive Post
Report Copyright Violation
Re: What to do?
Listen if you want to be a good kitteh then listen to me and tell her to fuck off.. if she wants to take advantage of you then she is no true friendand should be cut off.. no bs.. just tell her straight up you cant be invaded this way and she should have considered asking you how you feel before deciding it was ok for her to bring druggi asshole boufriend to rape and pillage your home and party all jours and mess with your space.. no.. straight up no.. and no big loss if you lose the stupid ho as your friend as she is clearly a piece of shit.. say no and thats all it takes..





GLP