My Wife and I Just Failed out IVF Treatment, lost close to 18,000.00- I'm Utterly Heartbroken | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70139376 United States 08/29/2015 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there. Infertility-wise. Today 30 years later I have found peace with it. Life goes on. We adopted a daughter. We now have two grandsons. You will be amazed how you will find strength one moment at a time and before you know it, you can breathe again. Smile even. It will happen |
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User ID: 69630441 United States 08/29/2015 11:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This problem AC cannot be solved emotionally, only rationally. The only way to judge your present circumstances is from the rear view mirror looking behind after some time passes. It is impossible to view this from the front windshield. It is the worst viewpoint for a rational decision. Many times later in life we look back and see that whatever happened to you, albeit bad, happened to turn out for the best. Best of luck. "I fear the day that technology will surpass our human interaction. The world will have a generation of idiots."--Albert Einstein "The future must not belong to those who slander the prophet of Islam."--President Barack Obama addressing the United Nations General Assembly “Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.”—Martin Luther King Jr. “The most effective way to destroy people is to deny and obliterate their own understanding of their history. […] He who controls the past controls the future. He who controls the present controls the past.” – George Orwell, 1984 "In the event that I am reincarnated, I would like to return as a deadly virus, in order to contribute something to solve overpopulation." - Prince Philip (Great Britain) |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 68631635 United States 08/29/2015 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there. Infertility-wise. Today 30 years later I have found peace with it. Life goes on. We adopted a daughter. We now have two grandsons. You will be amazed how you will find strength one moment at a time and before you know it, you can breathe again. Smile even. It will happen Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70139376 I feel like i'd be OK if the Doctor told us "There's a problem with your reproductive organs" But to have NO Answers, is brutal, |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 66518137 United States 08/29/2015 11:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thats what happens when you take all your shots like a good little slave and eat all the GMO, you are both now STERILE.. Your family tree will never live on.. Thank the globalist elites,, within another 2 generations all humans eating gmo and taking shots will be sterile and infertile.. Welcome to hell |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61769800 United States 08/29/2015 11:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Wife and I have been trying to have a Child for close to 5yrs now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68631635 After Saving every penny for the past 2 1/2 year, we finally saved enough to do a round of IVF. The Doctor told us: "By your numbers and tests, There is NO reason you shouldn't be able to conceive, We had am 80% chance of of success through IVF for every egg we implanted, We chose to place 2 eggs, So really we had 160% Chance out of 200% to get pregnant.Our eggs were rated A+ and B+ so they grew nicely. We were unsuccessful on both eggs, I'm not out 18,000.00- and have no child. Devastated is not a strong enough word to express my feeling right now . I'm truly in the throws of hopelessness They charged you $18,000??? They kill babies for free. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 20840111 Sweden 08/29/2015 11:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Wife and I have been trying to have a Child for close to 5yrs now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68631635 After Saving every penny for the past 2 1/2 year, we finally saved enough to do a round of IVF. The Doctor told us: "By your numbers and tests, There is NO reason you shouldn't be able to conceive, We had am 80% chance of of success through IVF for every egg we implanted, We chose to place 2 eggs, So really we had 160% Chance out of 200% to get pregnant.Our eggs were rated A+ and B+ so they grew nicely. We were unsuccessful on both eggs, I'm not out 18,000.00- and have no child. Devastated is not a strong enough word to express my feeling right now . I'm truly in the throws of hopelessness Relax : This is how you do it : She must go for chinese medicine treatmemt. A real one. It often involves releasing qi stagnation and strngthening kidney yin. Now look it up dont shake your head it is real and worked for us after having trying everything else. For you my friend it is fresh raw juices and raw egg yolks and a lot of ginger fresh pressed. You also have to take raw orchic extract. And please save yourself for the few days that she is receivable. For her a lot of fresh pressed grapejuice will resolve any mucus in her channels that might be obstructing. No dairy please and keep away from wheat and of course all radiation. Think feel baby is on its way and stay positive. This above works for many of our friends. Ihope you get a nice warrior to carry on your knowledge |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70105595 United States 08/29/2015 11:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there. Infertility-wise. Today 30 years later I have found peace with it. Life goes on. We adopted a daughter. We now have two grandsons. You will be amazed how you will find strength one moment at a time and before you know it, you can breathe again. Smile even. It will happen Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70139376 I feel like i'd be OK if the Doctor told us "There's a problem with your reproductive organs" But to have NO Answers, is brutal, Jesus has other plans for you. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70197782 United States 08/29/2015 11:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Wife and I have been trying to have a Child for close to 5yrs now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68631635 After Saving every penny for the past 2 1/2 year, we finally saved enough to do a round of IVF. The Doctor told us: "By your numbers and tests, There is NO reason you shouldn't be able to conceive, We had am 80% chance of of success through IVF for every egg we implanted, We chose to place 2 eggs, So really we had 160% Chance out of 200% to get pregnant.Our eggs were rated A+ and B+ so they grew nicely. We were unsuccessful on both eggs, I'm not out 18,000.00- and have no child. Devastated is not a strong enough word to express my feeling right now . I'm truly in the throws of hopelessness They charged you $18,000??? They kill babies for free. That's exactly why they CHARGE for making babies. It's all a fucking fraud. |
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User ID: 67536071 United States 08/29/2015 11:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there. Infertility-wise. Today 30 years later I have found peace with it. Life goes on. We adopted a daughter. We now have two grandsons. You will be amazed how you will find strength one moment at a time and before you know it, you can breathe again. Smile even. It will happen Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70139376 If all else fails....This^^^ Government... Govern: CONTROL Ment: MIND CONTROL MIND;MIND CONTROL The terrorists attacks which will be launched in the United States will be blamed upon middle eastern religious fanatics, Christian fundamentalists, white supremacists, Patriots, or Militias. A more immediate result of these operations will be the increased use of military forces, weaponry, and equipment such as tanks and armored personnel carriers in civilian law enforcement, the suspension or elimination of Habeas Corpus, the elimination of jury trials, the attempted disarming of the American People, and the institution of martial law with show-trials conducted by a tribunal of judges. - William Cooper 1997 (RIP) "If it's TRUE, it cannot be a THEORY!" -- Kentroversy (02/23/07) The light is always stronger than the darkness. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. - John 3:19 Even so, when you see these things happening, you know that it is near, right at the door. - Mark 13:29 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69666655 United States 08/29/2015 11:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP we ended up adopting as I was in pre-op when I told my husband that I wanted to leave, so we did and I never had the procedure- it was not IVF. To all the shill SOBs, eat shit. Until you've been through the hell of infertility, you don't know the pain. If I was a true bitch, I'd wish infertility on each person who acted the ass. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69546725 United States 08/29/2015 11:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Wife and I have been trying to have a Child for close to 5yrs now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68631635 After Saving every penny for the past 2 1/2 year, we finally saved enough to do a round of IVF. The Doctor told us: "By your numbers and tests, There is NO reason you shouldn't be able to conceive, We had am 80% chance of of success through IVF for every egg we implanted, We chose to place 2 eggs, So really we had 160% Chance out of 200% to get pregnant.Our eggs were rated A+ and B+ so they grew nicely. We were unsuccessful on both eggs, I'm not out 18,000.00- and have no child. Devastated is not a strong enough word to express my feeling right now . I'm truly in the throws of hopelessness Sorry to hear and I wish you peace in the situation... However, it really is probably better to not bring any children into this world... Shit is just about to go full scale Apocalypse.. . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 47964546 United States 08/29/2015 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And you come to GLP for all of the happy news about the world? Be happy that you won't have children. Would you really want to bring them into this current existence? Are you new to GLP or just don't know about the doom? |
Carimbo Hanky
User ID: 70090199 United States 08/29/2015 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | thats life telling you is not the best time to bring kids to this fucked up world! ...if injustice, is of such a nature that it requires you to be the agent of injustice to another, then, I say, break the law. Let your life be a counter friction to stop the machine. -Henry David Thoreau |
BunBun
User ID: 64023872 United States 08/29/2015 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there. Infertility-wise. Today 30 years later I have found peace with it. Life goes on. We adopted a daughter. We now have two grandsons. You will be amazed how you will find strength one moment at a time and before you know it, you can breathe again. Smile even. It will happen Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70139376 I feel like i'd be OK if the Doctor told us "There's a problem with your reproductive organs" But to have NO Answers, is brutal, Jesus has other plans for you. I'm so sorry, OP. I can only imagine your pain. Just know that even if you cannot conceive, you are still loved by God. He has a reason for not allowing this to work this time. I know that isn't easy to accept, but maybe he does want you to adopt a child. You have to understand that I had a natural child and he turned out to have autism. OP, as devastated as you are right now, you have no idea what it is like to discover that your precious child is never going to be normal. I have watched my son in the throws of violence. I have dealt with the school system and have literally had to lock the doors of my house with a key and keep the key with me to prevent his escape. I had to hide the knives. You may feel like you have been cheated. I understand. But, I am telling you that the dream of parenthood can become a nightmare that will damage your mind. You have to remember that things don't always go according to plan and that there will be times when bad things are going to happen. I know you are devastated, but OP, we are living in a fallen and imperfect world and the dreams that you have for your child/children is probably not what would really happen. It's time to be realistic instead of idealistic and to realize that God may have done you a huge favor. Maybe adoption would be a better answer. It's still risky, but you might have a chance at a child who will grow up and be healthy and viable. Christard and Lover of God |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1853049 United States 08/29/2015 11:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | $18,000 for one round of IVF is insane. Call the Cooper Center for IVf in New Jersey, they have high success rates and are much more affordable. You can be monitored at a local facility, then go there for the retrieval/transfer. Even if you have to fly there, you come out way ahead. It worked for me. [link to ccivf.com] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69386754 United States 08/29/2015 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A much overlooked culprit in infertility... the Thyroid. Its complicated, and you really have to get educated and PERSISTENT about receiving the correct tests. Just testing "thyroid levels" isn't enough. Read below. Every Woman’s Guide to Hypothyroidism and Fertility [link to natural-fertility-info.com] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 65972159 United States 08/29/2015 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Iam sorry for your loss. Yes, I know it is a huge loss. I went thru ivf twice unsuccessful . It broke me broke my heart. That was 20 years ago. I still feel ripped off. I never adopted. I am more at peace with not having children., but the ache and the loss is still with me. Time does help. I become sad when I dwell on it. Please consider adopting. I wish I would have. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69764701 United States 08/30/2015 12:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there. Infertility-wise. Today 30 years later I have found peace with it. Life goes on. We adopted a daughter. We now have two grandsons. You will be amazed how you will find strength one moment at a time and before you know it, you can breathe again. Smile even. It will happen Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70139376 I feel like i'd be OK if the Doctor told us "There's a problem with your reproductive organs" But to have NO Answers, is brutal, I'd rate that doctor terribly on Yelp! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69764701 United States 08/30/2015 12:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | $18,000 for one round of IVF is insane. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1853049 Call the Cooper Center for IVf in New Jersey, they have high success rates and are much more affordable. You can be monitored at a local facility, then go there for the retrieval/transfer. Even if you have to fly there, you come out way ahead. It worked for me. [link to ccivf.com] There are also surrogate programs too, where the donor egg an sperm come from the parent but is placed in a surrogate. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70197637 United Kingdom 08/30/2015 12:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Wife and I have been trying to have a Child for close to 5yrs now. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68631635 After Saving every penny for the past 2 1/2 year, we finally saved enough to do a round of IVF. The Doctor told us: "By your numbers and tests, There is NO reason you shouldn't be able to conceive, We had am 80% chance of of success through IVF for every egg we implanted, We chose to place 2 eggs, So really we had 160% Chance out of 200% to get pregnant.Our eggs were rated A+ and B+ so they grew nicely. We were unsuccessful on both eggs, I'm not out 18,000.00- and have no child. Devastated is not a strong enough word to express my feeling right now . I'm truly in the throws of hopelessness dude culture the sperm in a bottle and fill your bitch it works |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 68631635 United States 08/30/2015 12:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thats what happens when you take all your shots like a good little slave and eat all the GMO, you are both now STERILE.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 66518137 Your family tree will never live on.. Thank the globalist elites,, within another 2 generations all humans eating gmo and taking shots will be sterile and infertile.. Welcome to hell seriously? youre gonna start in with this bullshit? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 68631635 United States 08/30/2015 12:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Iam sorry for your loss. Yes, I know it is a huge loss. I went thru ivf twice unsuccessful . It broke me broke my heart. That was 20 years ago. I still feel ripped off. I never adopted. I am more at peace with not having children., but the ache and the loss is still with me. Time does help. I become sad when I dwell on it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65972159 Please consider adopting. I wish I would have. adoption looks like our last best hope |