Men and women are different - why can't we just accept it?

Everyone who's been in a long-term relationship knows how men and women are different not only in body but also in spirit.

As a male, I don't understand what makes women tick and I am totally at ease with it. Yeah, I do get in fights with my wife over stuff that I often don't understand even after she explains her reasons for gettting mad, but I just accept that. That's the way she feels about it and who am I to deny her subjective experience?

My wife also hears me out and goes a long way to accommodate my differences even when she doesn't comprehend them.

That's one reason why we've been married for almost 20 years now. Accepting that we're different even when it doesn't make sense to us.

There is, however, one difference that I don't really understand. Many, but not all, men accept that women are different and sometimes incomprehensible and leave it at that without making a right/wrong judgement. We'll just do stuff the way she wants, because that's the way she feels and neither of us can prove logically if it's right or wrong. Many women, however, can't let it go. Even if they give in to their man, they keep talking with their friends as if there's something objectively wrong in the way the man is thinking/acting. There's a hint of supermacist thinking: as if women can objectively say that the male way of thinking is wrong even though they can't define 'the wrong' in a logical way. I've heard many of my female friends talking with their friends this way, especially when it comes to issues of raising a child.