Hey GLP family, need some help. Girlfriend might be pregnant. UPDATE: confirmed!

I gave you phone numbers and addresses of the DHS in IL. They are the agency that provides ILMED (Medicaid insurance to people who are on welfare, can't afford insurance, or people who simply have no other option). Do not be afraid, ashamed or anything. The health and wellbeing of a baby is more important then pride.

I had to use Medicaid once and I had a great experience. I have friends who have used Illinois Medicaid and they will never turn a pregnant woman away unless you financially sufficient to do so.

Be thankful the Creator (Whomever you deem God to be) bestowed the gift of Life onto you. You are lucky. There are people all over the world, with lots of money, stability, everything, and they are infertile, and have failed attempt after attempt to try to have a baby with technology and cannot. I know this, because I work in Healthcare.

You can do this. You have to be the strong one and you will be. Now go and do what a father should do and help, guide, and protect your family.

God Bless!

Abort it, or say goodbye to your life.

get married immediately!!!

Wow negative much? Unfortunately you have seen the bad and obviously never the good. I am a proud person and was laid off with no insurance when I got pregnant with my daughter I cried when I applied for Medicaid but needed to get to a doctor. Before I had my daughter I had a new job and insurance. Me and my husband have a huge happy family and are currently self sufficient he works as do I and that is the only time I took any handouts. Btw canceling Medicaid is near impossible. My point is sometimes things dont turn out for the worse. We learn and are blessed with amazing things we never thought possible.

So obviously this wasn't planned and is not coming at a great time. Have fallen in hard times and was in the process of trying to start building my life back up. This is going to be a severe bump in the road.

It's not confirmed yet, we are going to take a test tomorrow but she is pretty late and both of us have a feeling she is. How it happened is a moot point so please don't ask. Neither of us like the idea of abortion and I can't help but feel that it would destroy our relationship.

What I need help with is some ideas on where to start looking for assistance. What kinds of assistance are available. Any and all ideas are welcome.

I don't ask for a lot from my GLP family, and most who know me will know I often offer advice when I was more active. I had my computer break a few months back and have pretty much just stuck to lurking around on my phone.

For reference to assistance available we live in lake county Illinois.

I have to go somewhere pretty soon here so I might not be here right away to answer any follow ups. Will be back and bumping this later. I really need help here guys, don't even know where to start looking.

Also taking green karma so I can get a member upgrade to use the email features.

Thank you GLP!

Any and all ideas are welcome.

Keep her awaaaay from the doctors!

NO ULTRASOUNDS

NO PRENATALS

NO HOSPITAL DELIVERY

IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE ME LOOK UP WHAT THEY DO TO PREGNANT WOMEN!

DID YOU KNOW THAT GIVING BIRTH ON YOUR BACK LOCKS YOUR MUSCLES?

THAT'S WHY YOU HAVE BREACH BABIES!

ignore this person OP - take your damn gf to a dr for the sake of her life and the baby's. If not regularly, at least once or twice to ensure the baby is developing and positioning well.
breach babies do not come from laying down during labour. Babies turn before then.

So obviously this wasn't planned and is not coming at a great time. Have fallen in hard times and was in the process of trying to start building my life back up. This is going to be a severe bump in the road.

It's not confirmed yet, we are going to take a test tomorrow but she is pretty late and both of us have a feeling she is. How it happened is a moot point so please don't ask. Neither of us like the idea of abortion and I can't help but feel that it would destroy our relationship.

What I need help with is some ideas on where to start looking for assistance. What kinds of assistance are available. Any and all ideas are welcome.

I don't ask for a lot from my GLP family, and most who know me will know I often offer advice when I was more active. I had my computer break a few months back and have pretty much just stuck to lurking around on my phone.

For reference to assistance available we live in lake county Illinois.

I have to go somewhere pretty soon here so I might not be here right away to answer any follow ups. Will be back and bumping this later. I really need help here guys, don't even know where to start looking.

Also taking green karma so I can get a member upgrade to use the email features.

Thank you GLP!

Don't get me wrong, I want to work and am getting a job. What I want help with is where to start looking for research into what I should be doing. Also will take whatever assistance I can to give this kid the best life it can have.

Don't get me wrong, I want to work and am getting a job. What I want help with is where to start looking for research into what I should be doing. Also will take whatever assistance I can to give this kid the best life it can have.

So obviously this wasn't planned and is not coming at a great time. Have fallen in hard times and was in the process of trying to start building my life back up. This is going to be a severe bump in the road.

It's not confirmed yet, we are going to take a test tomorrow but she is pretty late and both of us have a feeling she is. How it happened is a moot point so please don't ask. Neither of us like the idea of abortion and I can't help but feel that it would destroy our relationship.

What I need help with is some ideas on where to start looking for assistance. What kinds of assistance are available. Any and all ideas are welcome.

I don't ask for a lot from my GLP family, and most who know me will know I often offer advice when I was more active. I had my computer break a few months back and have pretty much just stuck to lurking around on my phone.

For reference to assistance available we live in lake county Illinois.

I have to go somewhere pretty soon here so I might not be here right away to answer any follow ups. Will be back and bumping this later. I really need help here guys, don't even know where to start looking.

Also taking green karma so I can get a member upgrade to use the email features.

Thank you GLP!

Busting your nuts in the anal cavity is the only way to avoid this.


Just for future reference.