Sounds a bit like my situation! I travelled for a looong time and now I have been home for 10days and wow my family did not change a bit..but I changed. And now there are a certain respect for me, because now they know I do whatever I want EVERY day, I show love even though it seem I should get angry with them and I dont get into their energy.

The best thing I did for myself was reversing energy (if you know they talk bad behind your back, DONT take it personal, BUT think it is because of THEIR fear and illusions they try to seem "better")