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Message Subject Outcast in your own family? Your advice/experience is welcome
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Live and let live, remember everyone has an opinion, they are voicing theirs, you are voicing yours.

So you voice yours nicely when they voice theirs.
Just say, well can we agree to disagree and go about your life.

Look EVERY family I've ever known, including my own talk *hit about each other behind their backs, some small, some nonconsequential, etc. It's not unless the *hit talk starts affecting you negatively that you have to take stronger action, affecting your health, sanity, employment, other relations within the family.

Inject some humor into it if you can, make jokes out of what they say about you, take on the banner of the joke! At best it'll make some of them laugh and see that they are hypocrites, at worst, they will call you a smart *ass and resent you calling them out on their fooishness.

Oh well.

Now, if they are little psychopaths or sociopaths, RUN.

For example, my sons GF the other day was all upset because one of the coattail family members talked some crap about her, and I had to remind her she talked crap about this person too, so even-steven.

What comes around goes around, if you are going to play the game, well play the game, if not, then remove yourself, that's about all you can do, can't have your cake and eat it too, some family members like to Cherry Pick...so can you.

Good Luck
 Quoting: InTheHood


hmm yes I am afraid they are sociopaths and narcissists. I was hoping they had at least a speck of a soul to love... but I am not sure.
 
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