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Anonymous Coward User ID: 43156991 Spain 07/11/2013 01:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | look at it this way..if you are hurting or hurt it is because you are a sensitive soul..if you are sensitive it is because you feel..if you feel it is because you love..if you love you are so so valuable to this world alive..to spread your light to others that don´t have it Quoting: wildhoney If you take your life it will be that bit darker in this world..you are needed...you..you..can make the difference..because you are important in the grand scheme of things Beautiful post. beautiful thread and much needed Many people have posted here allegedly when thinking of suicide..on Glp ..and unfortunately their threads had to be deleted..you can help many op Beautiful gesture |
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Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/11/2013 01:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Suicide is not the answer, unless the question is "What do you call killing your self?" Quoting: Anonymous Coward 42022752 Humour is a necessity! Thank you :)) energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
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(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/11/2013 01:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its an answer. Quoting: Archos 42857583 And why do you feel bad? Because you care about her, or care about what others think of you now your daughter killed herself? Asshole.. much.? energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
Elemental
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User ID: 43184254 United Kingdom 07/11/2013 02:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm ready to die at any moment (I never plan on being here the following year), but I never do it because I feel "unfinished", is probably the only word I can think of to describe it. I don't want to die feeling low, angry, hateful and anxious. I want to die of healthy mind and body, knowing and choosing to go of my own accord. BUT...I have no energy, no will to do anything, and barely feel joy or happiness anymore. They say just push yourself through, "soldier on", eventually things get better. While true plenty more opportunities for love appear, my own personal activities/my mood, I just feel nothing. It is a chore to get through each day, sometimes it really DOESN'T get better. Last Edited by Master X on 07/11/2013 02:29 PM |
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(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/11/2013 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm ready to die at any moment (I never plan on being here the following year), but I never do it because I feel "unfinished", is probably the only word I can think of to describe it. I don't want to die feeling low, angry, hateful and anxious. I want to die of healthy mind and body, knowing and choosing to go of my own accord. BUT...I have no energy, no will to do anything, and barely feel joy or happiness anymore. They say just push yourself through, "soldier on", eventually things get better. While true plenty more opportunities for love appear, my own personal activities/my mood, I just feel nothing. It is a chore to get through each day, sometimes it really DOESN'T get better. Quoting: Master X I hear you completely. The pain never leaves and can be intolerable. Soph died in December 2007, it's no less hurtful now than then; It's finding a way of accepting the sadnesses and finding the beauty in what's around you & what's there to be grateful and thankful for :) Last Edited by Elemental on 07/11/2013 03:39 PM energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
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Elemental
(OP) User ID: 40155592 United Kingdom 07/12/2013 04:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This thread is so needed Elemental..so many people need help Quoting: wildhoney Just a bit of love makes all the difference..to know someone really cares about you Thankyou so much energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 963352 Malaysia 07/12/2013 04:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My darling, beautiful daughter hanged herself, the repercussions are far reaching and deep. Please, think twice, three times, a thousand times before giving up your life and your truth. You are loved more than you know xxxx Quoting: Elemental If it weren't for religion, I'd have done it a long time ago. Thank God religion exists and I have been given a chance to find happiness. I'm truly sorry for your loss... |
Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/12/2013 06:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My darling, beautiful daughter hanged herself, the repercussions are far reaching and deep. Please, think twice, three times, a thousand times before giving up your life and your truth. You are loved more than you know xxxx Quoting: Elemental If it weren't for religion, I'd have done it a long time ago. Thank God religion exists and I have been given a chance to find happiness. I'm truly sorry for your loss... Searching for happiness is the first step...pas a pas...step by step :) thank you for your kindness. energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
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Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/17/2013 09:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It seemed like the answer a few hours ago when I was coming down off those yokes. I was once again in the horrors, didn't sleep, just tossed and turned with this unbearable fucking heat. Feel a lot better now thank God. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43571778 I love your strength! Spread a bit my way please :) energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 43571778 Ireland 07/17/2013 09:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It seemed like the answer a few hours ago when I was coming down off those yokes. I was once again in the horrors, didn't sleep, just tossed and turned with this unbearable fucking heat. Feel a lot better now thank God. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43571778 I love your strength! Spread a bit my way please :) |
Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/17/2013 09:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It seemed like the answer a few hours ago when I was coming down off those yokes. I was once again in the horrors, didn't sleep, just tossed and turned with this unbearable fucking heat. Feel a lot better now thank God. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43571778 I love your strength! Spread a bit my way please :) Thanks....cos I'm struggling like heck today :(( energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
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Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/17/2013 10:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi Ele. No wisdom today, sorry. I just thought I'd send you a Not much, I know, but I hope it helps a little bit. You're doing a good thing with this thread. Thank you Tex xx struggling big time today but tomorrow will be better I hope :) much love xx energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 43502063 Spain 07/17/2013 10:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi It usually happens that way..you feel it after some time has past..but time does heal..it really does you will eventually remember just the love I believe..the beautiful moments spent together..they are eternal..as is love..the love you shared with your daughter lives on..and is part of you and her..it is ever lasting.. |
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Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/17/2013 10:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi It usually happens that way..you feel it after some time has past..but time does heal..it really does you will eventually remember just the love I believe..the beautiful moments spent together..they are eternal..as is love..the love you shared with your daughter lives on..and is part of you and her..it is ever lasting.. What would I do without you my lovely? Time hasn't even started healing me yet tho, at least not so as I'd notice. The pain is bad today x energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 43502063 Spain 07/17/2013 11:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi It usually happens that way..you feel it after some time has past..but time does heal..it really does you will eventually remember just the love I believe..the beautiful moments spent together..they are eternal..as is love..the love you shared with your daughter lives on..and is part of you and her..it is ever lasting.. What would I do without you my lovely? Time hasn't even started healing me yet tho, at least not so as I'd notice. The pain is bad today x It takes time patience..it will pass Pray for your daughter..light a candle..send her much much love special souls..sensitive souls hurt more..the world and some of its people can be very very cruel to other without measuring the implications and consecuences of their actions and words to others.. but her love is alive..and she lives on in her love that will never leave you and its a bond that unites you for all eternity there are many that need help op..in this cruel harsh world they can be helped..it just takes love..as simple as that to show them they are genuinely loved as they are..as Gods Creation..independent of what they achieve or how they are..special because God made them |
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(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/17/2013 11:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Its the lack of love..it can be translated or manifested in many ways..but the feeling of not being loved..of being rejected..thats the killer Quoting: wildhoney and to show them that one cares and loves is all it takes... Last Edited by Elemental on 07/18/2013 02:17 AM energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
stillhere
User ID: 29204297 United States 07/17/2013 11:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We are among other things chemical beings. These chemicals can influence our moods (a lot). Sunshine on your skin makes vitamin D which is really a hormone. There is a huge amount of information that points to Vitamin D in LARGE quantities as helping depression, among other health issues. I'm talking 50,000IU a day. [link to www.amazon.com] [link to www.amazon.com] Read the reviews. Magnesium, Iodine, Vitamin C, Niacin..... When your body has what it needs to be healthy, you will heal and sleep better which makes even the most devastating pain a bit easier to handle. The pain will never go away, expecting it to might add guilt to the failure to "recover". Owning a pet, helping others in any way adds joy to our lives. Getting out in nature, reaching out to others. Life has pain in store for every soul, but with that is the opportunity for Joy. Everyone can be of service in some small way, we are here for a reason. Music can be helpful also. I remember thinking as a teen if I killed myself wouldn't they be sorry--truth is revenge backfires. Suicide might be acceptable for instance in cultures like the Eskimo peoples where when one gets old and is putting their family at risk for death by keeping them alive they go off and freeze to death. None of us are perfect and tomorrow is a new day, forgive yourself, forgive others and just do the best you can and look for the good-- it is there. "You can bend it and twist it... You can misuse and abuse it... But even God cannot change the Truth.” Michael Levy |
Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/17/2013 11:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Last Edited by Elemental on 07/18/2013 02:16 AM energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |
Elemental
(OP) User ID: 13461811 United Kingdom 07/17/2013 11:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We are among other things chemical beings. These chemicals can influence our moods (a lot). Quoting: stillhere Sunshine on your skin makes vitamin D which is really a hormone. There is a huge amount of information that points to Vitamin D in LARGE quantities as helping depression, among other health issues. I'm talking 50,000IU a day. [link to www.amazon.com] [link to www.amazon.com] Read the reviews. Magnesium, Iodine, Vitamin C, Niacin..... When your body has what it needs to be healthy, you will heal and sleep better which makes even the most devastating pain a bit easier to handle. The pain will never go away, expecting it to might add guilt to the failure to "recover". Owning a pet, helping others in any way adds joy to our lives. Getting out in nature, reaching out to others. Life has pain in store for every soul, but with that is the opportunity for Joy. Everyone can be of service in some small way, we are here for a reason. Music can be helpful also. I remember thinking as a teen if I killed myself wouldn't they be sorry--truth is revenge backfires. Suicide might be acceptable for instance in cultures like the Eskimo peoples where when one gets old and is putting their family at risk for death by keeping them alive they go off and freeze to death. None of us are perfect and tomorrow is a new day, forgive yourself, forgive others and just do the best you can and look for the good-- it is there. energy cannot be destroyed, it can only be transformed. Nothing is so potent as the silent influence of a good example. Illegitimi non carborundum Alea iacta est. Dum vivimus vivamus |