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Message Subject In Love with 2 People?
Poster Handle Manu-Koelbren
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I've been in a relationship for 6 years and yet all this time also I've kept contact with an ex gf with whom we have this great friendship. This has caused me a lot of trouble with my gf cuz she thinks I am still in love with this other girl.

The thing is my gf is very simple and caring and also she is very affectionate. We joke around a lot and have great sex but we don't have a very intellectual relationship.

The other girl is very spiritual and smart and we connect to a deeper level, but on another level she's colder and we never were that close emotionally nor sexually. Still she writes to me and wants to see me, and I am just making excuses because i know my gf will find out and get pissed off. But I'd really love to just hang out with her for a week or something.

It's a weird scenario but just in case you find it of interest.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren



Yeah. I can understand that. It makes sense to me. I wonder if we are supposed to settle for just some qualities that we like, or try to find someone will all of the qualities that we like? I don't know.

In my situation, we had a lot of issues. He is 8 years younger than me. I have 3 kids, he has 1. I've been raising his daughter just fine, but I've been a mom for awhile. He didn't do so well with mine. I've been with him since his daughter was 6 months though. We fought a lot. Since leaving, a lot of the issues have been resolved or we have found ways to deal with them. But now, meeting this new girl, there are things about her that aren't like me that I'm sure are refreshing for him. She is 8 years younger than him and not 8 years older. She has no kids, no responsibilities, no cares, just smokes weed and works at a convenience store so she is able to give him all the attention in the world.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Well that's the thing, sometimes you have to make compromises and it's hard knowing exactly which person you should choose, sometimes you wish you could be with two at the same time. But life is about choices so one needs to take a stance.
 
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