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In Love with 2 People?
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I personally believe so.
what some consider love is simple infatuation wherein they become angered, lost, confused with the distancing of another.
Anyone that says this is impossible is stuck in this sort of infantile infatuation mode.
If it is not possible, how then can a parent love their children, and their spouse. In most peoples own words this the most basic example of love is lost.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19133785 Okay, I can understand that too. I still have love for a lot of my exes, but I'm not in love with them. If you are indeed in love with two people, what do you do about it? Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship. Quoting: IndigoSerenity76In this instance, it sounds like you are in love with him, yet he/you gave up meaning some need was not being met. Is that fixable? or do you end back as you begin again? If so its a wash, better keep looking. It sounds more as if you might have some familiar love with this person and not a deeper soul connection that would bind you together when you use the word "try". In my opinion to try is to lie. Love is not a battle, nor a game, it is or it isnt. My other pisses me off at times, yet even as she does her things, I can not look at her and think I could ever live without her. I dont pick some stupid thing found in time and use it to form a battle and begin to draw lines, it is her, I am I, sometimes the day just gets in the way. Yes, I think we both forgot ourselves at times throughout the relationship. Between work, 4 kids, sports, all of that, we forgot to make any time for ourselves at all and got lost. We never stopped loving each other though. Even during the past 10 months when I haven't lived there, we still saw each other often and the love was always still there.
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