I've been in a relationship for 6 years and yet all this time also I've kept contact with an ex gf with whom we have this great friendship. This has caused me a lot of trouble with my gf cuz she thinks I am still in love with this other girl.

The thing is my gf is very simple and caring and also she is very affectionate. We joke around a lot and have great sex but we don't have a very intellectual relationship.

The other girl is very spiritual and smart and we connect to a deeper level, but on another level she's colder and we never were that close emotionally nor sexually. Still she writes to me and wants to see me, and I am just making excuses because i know my gf will find out and get pissed off. But I'd really love to just hang out with her for a week or something.

It's a weird scenario but just in case you find it of interest.