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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18771852 United States 12/31/2012 07:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible. Quoting: IndigoSerenity76 I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time? Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :). Love no...Lust yes. |
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IndigoSerenity76
(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 07:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible. Quoting: IndigoSerenity76 I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time? Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :). Love no...Lust yes. My thinking as well. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
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(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 07:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Liked the "Lust/Love" post above! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151 Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ... THAT will Wane! Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ... They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else! Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
Bluepill
User ID: 29175099 United States 12/31/2012 07:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too. |
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User ID: 29175099 United States 12/31/2012 08:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Liked the "Lust/Love" post above! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151 Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ... THAT will Wane! Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ... They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else! Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship. Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin |
IndigoSerenity76
(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 08:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too. Do the two people know about each other? "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
Bluepill
User ID: 29175099 United States 12/31/2012 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too. Do the two people know about each other? NO (one does) Ok, let the insults fly...... |
IndigoSerenity76
(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Liked the "Lust/Love" post above! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151 Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ... THAT will Wane! Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ... They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else! Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship. Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin So, you think I should let him go even though we love each other? Also, I did leave him and pushed him away, so I don't blame him for meeting someone else. I just wish I had figured out how I really felt sooner. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
IndigoSerenity76
(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 08:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too. Do the two people know about each other? NO (one does) Ok, let the insults fly...... No, I'm not one to judge. I'm trying to get different opinions. The one that knows, is that one okay with it? "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
Bluepill
User ID: 29175099 United States 12/31/2012 08:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Liked the "Lust/Love" post above! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151 Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ... THAT will Wane! Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ... They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else! Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship. Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin So, you think I should let him go even though we love each other? Also, I did leave him and pushed him away, so I don't blame him for meeting someone else. I just wish I had figured out how I really felt sooner. Not at all, I thought correctly that you did want him. I play poker and it would be a poker move. You go all in here. Yes, you could lose him but I think it would shake him up a bit and maybe make him realize you're it... Both of you vying for him will probably lead to neither of you getting him or he'll just play it for as long as possible..IMHO |
Bluepill
User ID: 29175099 United States 12/31/2012 08:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Bluepill Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too. Do the two people know about each other? NO (one does) Ok, let the insults fly...... No, I'm not one to judge. I'm trying to get different opinions. The one that knows, is that one okay with it? Yes she is...she is in the same situation as me...probably all I should say about it on a public forum :) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26372742 Canada 12/31/2012 08:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Liked the "Lust/Love" post above! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151 Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ... THAT will Wane! Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ... They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else! Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship. |
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IndigoSerenity76
(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 08:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: IndigoSerenity76 Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship. Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin So, you think I should let him go even though we love each other? Also, I did leave him and pushed him away, so I don't blame him for meeting someone else. I just wish I had figured out how I really felt sooner. Not at all, I thought correctly that you did want him. I play poker and it would be a poker move. You go all in here. Yes, you could lose him but I think it would shake him up a bit and maybe make him realize you're it... Both of you vying for him will probably lead to neither of you getting him or he'll just play it for as long as possible..IMHO Okay. That's kind of what I did...I stop contacting him and told him to stop contacting me after he told me about her. He then told her he loved me and she stopped speaking to him. But now, he isn't sure if he made the right decision because he misses her. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
IndigoSerenity76
(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 08:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, I'm not one to judge. I'm trying to get different opinions. The one that knows, is that one okay with it? Yes she is...she is in the same situation as me...probably all I should say about it on a public forum :) Do you two plan on keeping it that way, or do you plan to be together? "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
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(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like he's keeping his options open. Very typical. Quoting: gurunade You should probably break it off clean with him and stop playing his game as he sounds like a manipulator playing the role of hurt puppy dog to both women. Kind of. She isn't speaking to him anymore and he isn't contacting her, but he is torn up over it. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |
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User ID: 1488460 Czechia 12/31/2012 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible. Quoting: IndigoSerenity76 I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time? Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :). Just two ? Hahahahaha ! "Have a vision of life that inspires you, then try every day to grow closer to the fulfillment of that vision." Deepak Chopra Cetrified Moran on a Divine Mission ! |
IndigoSerenity76
(OP) User ID: 26030910 United States 12/31/2012 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Normally, I would think that as well. I understand though his feelings. I hurt him when I left and even though he loves me, he is terrified of being hurt again and I get that. I told him to go find someone else, so he did. Now, I changed my mind and finally heard what he has been saying to me for months and now he has to hurt this girl and he hates it. He says they were perfect, got along great, she makes him smile, but he still loves me. "Imagine no possessions" "As Above, So Below" )O( Rach |