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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28604904  Canada11/27/2012 06:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: mopar28m 25 year anniversary coming up in May. We had been married 14 years when I told him my fantasy. Is that the only fantasy you have? Is that the only fantasy he didn't agree with? Are you happy? Forgive me questioning is my nature. My intentions are of love Yep, the only one. What was the fantasy? Yeah right...like she's gonna admit it to you that it's rape fantasy.  90% of women have rape fantasies. |
Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160  United States11/27/2012 06:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or how about this? If one says 'get a room' jokingly, do they have a fetish for voyeurism. If one says 'get a room' with sincerity, do they have a fetish for exhibitionism? Or is it the reverse? oh man.... The statement alone shows a lot. If they truly thought that why would they feel the need to post such a thing unless there was a point of personal gain......... "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/27/2012 06:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Qarley Is that the only fantasy you have? Is that the only fantasy he didn't agree with? Are you happy? Forgive me questioning is my nature. My intentions are of love Yep, the only one. What was the fantasy? Yeah right...like she's gonna admit it to you that it's rape fantasy. 90% of women have rape fantasies. Domination "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28541844 United States11/27/2012 07:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have always had the mind set when engaged sexually bring the woman to her climax first. Then I would finish. Always worked great. Well in my new relationship she wants us to climax togethere(same time). And when she is ready to climax she wants be to be still at the point I need to be moving! She is sexy beautiful and extremely intelligent. For you women do you want your man to be still while you climax?? I am at a loss on this one??? |
| Jonny Blaze
User ID: 22472711 United States11/27/2012 07:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | oh man.... Quoting: Qarley The statement alone shows a lot. If they truly thought that why would they feel the need to post such a thing unless there was a point of personal gain......... Exactly. People often reveal their intent without consciously realizing it. Especially those who keep a tight lid on their sexual side when they are in a 'non sexual' public mode. That's why I'm curious about people who may be sexually repressed and sincerely offended when people display intimacy publicly. Perhaps such people deep down are exhibitionists or have exhibitionist fantasies? The engravings translate to "This space intentionally left blank." The prayer is inscribed in an ancient script, rarely used today. It seems to be a philippic against small insects, absent-mindedness, and the picking up and dropping of small objects. The gate is open; through it you can see a desolation, with a pile of mangled bodies in one corner. Thousands of voices, lamenting some hideous fate, can be heard. The way through the gate is barred by evil spirits, who jeer at your attempts to pass. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27108958 United States11/27/2012 07:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25063563 Three years so far, but it feels like we just met 3 weeks ago. I think alot of people get bored sexually because they stop taking care of themselves, don't make the effort to please the other, forget the element of surprise and occasional spontanious activities. If you touch a spot long enough it will become insensitive or not enjoy that touch as much. Sex is a basic need and if you're just with one person it helps to give yourself to them emotionally and physically in a variety of ways. The masses are over dosing on sex... Im glad to hear someone who understands the importance of the sexual relationship. You are correct. When it comes down to sex for pleasure we focus entirely on what WE want. However i believe that in every aspect of a relationship the point is to never stop asking yourself how to please the other. That is why it is important to know yourself, and know that the other person is deserving of that attitude. To form a true bond so that when you think that way it isnt abused. Bravo Qarley! That is the secret to a happy relationship. But wanted to say it's not always about people being 'dishonest' in the beginning of a relationship, but that over some years many people change, their desires change. Their sex drives don't necessarily stay compatible. And some people - men and women - just age differently. Some are young at heart and enthusiastic FOREVER and others not so much. Wow I didn't know you were so bold to start a thread about this, hahaha! :Wave33: I just found your post!! HI!! When you find true love sexual desires would grow together. Yes we change constantly. But that is what tests our love. The ability to change together. To become one spirit by uniting both.  But . . . many of us have more than one true love in a lifetime - even if it ends it was still TRUE. And another secret to having your desires fulfilled, is keeping yourself desirable. Stay in shape, take care of yourself ;) |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/27/2012 07:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The shock value of being discovered, or not has intrigued a partner or 2 engaging in a semi public place. Yes, the adrenaline rush of getting caught. People seek that rush with different methods. It's always there when it is a new partner. Unless one constantly fucks new partners...then it degrades. Then they move on to other methods...asphyxiation, public exposure, etc. Not sure if i agree. Many fetishes can be achieved with the same person "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/27/2012 07:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have always had the mind set when engaged sexually bring the woman to her climax first. Then I would finish. Always worked great. Well in my new relationship she wants us to climax togethere(same time). And when she is ready to climax she wants be to be still at the point I need to be moving! She is sexy beautiful and extremely intelligent. For you women do you want your man to be still while you climax?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28541844 I am at a loss on this one??? No. Maybe after. However the BEST is when you both achieve climax at the same time "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Jonny Blaze
User ID: 22472711 United States11/27/2012 07:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The shock value of being discovered, or not has intrigued a partner or 2 engaging in a semi public place. Yes, the adrenaline rush of getting caught. People seek that rush with different methods. It's always there when it is a new partner. Unless one constantly fucks new partners...then it degrades. Then they move on to other methods...asphyxiation, public exposure, etc. Not sure if i agree. Many fetishes can be achieved with the same person True. I was thinking more in terms of 'the average person' who endlessly indulges. You are not the average person. ;) The engravings translate to "This space intentionally left blank." The prayer is inscribed in an ancient script, rarely used today. It seems to be a philippic against small insects, absent-mindedness, and the picking up and dropping of small objects. The gate is open; through it you can see a desolation, with a pile of mangled bodies in one corner. Thousands of voices, lamenting some hideous fate, can be heard. The way through the gate is barred by evil spirits, who jeer at your attempts to pass. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24677767 United States11/27/2012 07:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The shock value of being discovered, or not has intrigued a partner or 2 engaging in a semi public place. Yes, the adrenaline rush of getting caught. People seek that rush with different methods. It's always there when it is a new partner. Unless one constantly fucks new partners...then it degrades. Then they move on to other methods...asphyxiation, public exposure, etc. Not sure if i agree. Many fetishes can be achieved with the same person I was speaking about my own experiences, while single dating as a man slut. |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/27/2012 07:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Justalittlebad The shock value of being discovered, or not has intrigued a partner or 2 engaging in a semi public place. Yes, the adrenaline rush of getting caught. People seek that rush with different methods. It's always there when it is a new partner. Unless one constantly fucks new partners...then it degrades. Then they move on to other methods...asphyxiation, public exposure, etc. Not sure if i agree. Many fetishes can be achieved with the same person True. I was thinking more in terms of 'the average person' who endlessly indulges. You are not the average person. ;) i see your point then "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/27/2012 07:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Qarley The masses are over dosing on sex... Im glad to hear someone who understands the importance of the sexual relationship. You are correct. When it comes down to sex for pleasure we focus entirely on what WE want. However i believe that in every aspect of a relationship the point is to never stop asking yourself how to please the other. That is why it is important to know yourself, and know that the other person is deserving of that attitude. To form a true bond so that when you think that way it isnt abused. Bravo Qarley! That is the secret to a happy relationship. But wanted to say it's not always about people being 'dishonest' in the beginning of a relationship, but that over some years many people change, their desires change. Their sex drives don't necessarily stay compatible. And some people - men and women - just age differently. Some are young at heart and enthusiastic FOREVER and others not so much. Wow I didn't know you were so bold to start a thread about this, hahaha! :Wave33: I just found your post!! HI!! When you find true love sexual desires would grow together. Yes we change constantly. But that is what tests our love. The ability to change together. To become one spirit by uniting both. But . . . many of us have more than one true love in a lifetime - even if it ends it was still TRUE. And another secret to having your desires fulfilled, is keeping yourself desirable. Stay in shape, take care of yourself ;) Hence the expression 'the new thirty'  There is only one. But many that are VERY close to being the one. Someone recently put it in terms of percentages for me. It makes sense that way. There is only 1 one hundred percent... However you have all the other percentages leading up to it. "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/28/2012 12:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | bump for more juicy discussion "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 21645121 United States11/28/2012 01:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/28/2012 01:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | you could be trolling. However i have met a man who actually liked those things. So i'll ask why is it thrilling? "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/29/2012 02:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 5542489 United States11/29/2012 02:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have always had the mind set when engaged sexually bring the woman to her climax first. Then I would finish. Always worked great. Well in my new relationship she wants us to climax togethere(same time). And when she is ready to climax she wants be to be still at the point I need to be moving! She is sexy beautiful and extremely intelligent. For you women do you want your man to be still while you climax?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28541844 I am at a loss on this one??? Older woman here and disagree with your lady. Coming together is the BEST but just not possible every time. And I need my man to keep moving at that moment, to keep the rhythm. I'd be a little concerned about her being controlling if she is trying to control not only when you have your orgasms, but how you move during it? For me that moment of orgasm is out of control, that's part of the bliss, you are totally in the moment, out of control, allowing your body to do what it needs to do. |
| Jonny Blaze
User ID: 22472711 United States11/29/2012 04:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice. ;) The engravings translate to "This space intentionally left blank." The prayer is inscribed in an ancient script, rarely used today. It seems to be a philippic against small insects, absent-mindedness, and the picking up and dropping of small objects. The gate is open; through it you can see a desolation, with a pile of mangled bodies in one corner. Thousands of voices, lamenting some hideous fate, can be heard. The way through the gate is barred by evil spirits, who jeer at your attempts to pass. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1579668 United States11/29/2012 04:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Qarley
(OP) User ID: 28448160 United States11/29/2012 04:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i never meet expectations lovely. Im not gonna lie though the psychology behind sex is a fascination of mine. I like to poke and prod and see what people think. "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." |
