How to keep a woman.

^^^I think your on to something here!^^^

There are many kinds of kissing. I would say that the drive by thoughtless kiss that ranks with things like saying hi, how are you, fine, good morning, good night, bla bla bla......is meaningless in women's eyes..

A thoughtful hug, a look deep into the eyes.....a woman is looking for an emotional connection not a physical action--just be careful not to confuse a kiss, with a kiss--and a kiss that expects sex....is about the worst thing for a long term relationship with a woman.

Give the emotional connection and sincere interest in her person and she will want to please you.

If you love a woman, truly and selflessly love a woman, she will not leave you.

If she does, she is not worth your love.

I like how they deleted their post after that.

Women are difficult and wonderful at the same time.

'how to keep a woman' is actually a different topic than elements that 'contribute to the longevity of a love story'

your a) 'money' answer depends on a not totally controllable thing, and you may run out
your b) 'compromise' answer puts you at the whim of someone else, again not controllable
your c) orgasm answer is a good one

the simplest, and most effective way to keep a woman, is to care less than she does (not saying this makes you the happiest, just the best way to keep her)

I am sure you are too. xxooxxoo

That is the true answer. Why it is, I'll never know. If you respect them, they withdraw, if you pay attention, the same, if you ignore it has the same outcome as the other two.

Wife said you needed a pat on the back.. /heh.

It sounds like they are non entities. Do you know any women? I can't stay here tonight because I know the thread is going to piss me off and so I will have to respectfully withdraw. But I like threads like this so I can add to my ignore list. Are you paying attention? I listen.

I'm listening. You aren't saying much. I love women. The presents of them make me re-evaluate a sitiuation every time. Sorry if it makes you mad that some of us wonder what the hell you are thinking.

Tell me the end thought, not the one I should use to figure it out...

Clearly, I don't understand why women are "mysterious". That kind of pisses me off. We actually communicate if you don't know, ask. That's all.

Imply would be a more accurate word. To communicate would mean to pass on a complete thought. Not just hint at it.

Well, I hope you find one that can say what is on thier mind. I was at work once and they had money for classes you could take ( you could spend $1000 dollars a year on classes (and I thought...and not come to work because I am taking a class). One class was on assertiveness so I said I wanted to take that class and they said "you don't need it." :)

Die in a fire, you piece of shit

Ok, let's pause here. Is this a Rodney Dangerfield routine or are you implying something. This is exactly what I was talking about.

Whatever your point is, reduce it to 3 words or less not using any kind of feelings in the description.

I guess WindyMind is implying. Let me guess what's implied.

"I hope you find one that can say what is on their mind." = You're less likely to find a straight forward women (where the talk equals the thought).

The rest, "I was at work ...", is the explanation of non straight-forward-ness of women. Yes can means no, no can means yes. Available can means you don't need it.

Am I guessing it right?

Pretty much nailed it. Vague. You are just supposed to know. No wonder women don't really get along with each other.. heh.

How to keep a man is just as important

It's as simple as be mindful of him. His needs are simple, and he wants you happy. Keep up with his needs, and let him know what will keep you happy. Perfect existence.

Pick up a broom or vacuum. Love her children whether they are you're or not. That is the true way to a real women's heart,

Strong rope and a good double half-hitch.

Been there. Very true.

Noone has to keep. But one might want to stay.

One day I found this Krishnamurti thingy in another thread (mebbe from calin or so). I think it can mean a lot


A: Mr Krishnamurti, in this series of conversations we have been exploring the general question of the transformation of man. A transformation, which as you say, is not dependent on knowledge or time. And, as I recall, we arrived at a point that was very crucial, namely the one concerned with relationship and communication. I remember one point in our conversation together that was extremely instructive for me, a point at which, when you asked me a question I began to answer it and you interrupted me and reminded the viewers and me, that the important thing here is, is not to finish out a theoretical construction but rather to attain to the right beginning point so that we do not go beyond where we haven't yet begun. This, as I repeat, was extremely instructive for me and I was thinking, if it is agreeable with you, it would be helpful today if we could begin at the point of concern for communication and relationship to go into that question and begin to unravel it.

K: Unravel it, quite. I wonder sir, what that word communication means. To communicate implies not only verbally but also listening in which there is a sharing, a thinking together, not accepting something that you or I say, but sharing together, thinking together, creating together, all that is involved in that word 'communicate'. And in that word is implied also the art of listening. The art of listening demands a quality of attention in which there is real listening, real sense of having an insight as we go along, each second, not at the end, but at the beginning.

A: So that we are...

K: ...together...

Let her learn the hard way. Punch her in the tits and tie on a shock collar.

Nothing says you are my property quite like telling a woman she is your property.

Don't encourage him.

I'd break your willful spirit without missing a beat.

clitorial massages !

OK Here goes...

Pay the bills..

Do fun stuff with us...

Appreciate what we do for you...

Appreciate what we earn and work for..

Let us have kids...

Love, lots of it...

Sex, lots of it...

Help out w the household stuff...

Keep a smile on your face mostly...

Don't go crazy when things go wrong...

No shit. Read the bolded part.

The road down marriage lane can get bumpy. Having at least a "comfortable" income helps to smooth over many of the potholes, making it a more bearable ride. It's a cushion that helps absorb an awful lot that would otherwise not be easily bearable.