Serious question for Christians. What's the deal with "rebeliousness"

Hi

I'm not a Christian but I have no issues with those that are adherents of one religion or another. What I am is curious about people and what makes them tick. But I don't want to bore you with a whole lot of "all about me". What I am after is the deal with Christian people and "rebelliousness".

I see "rebelliousness" is spoken of a lot here on GLP as if it is the ultimate sin. And I have heard Christians that I know talk about it like that too. Now, as I say I am not a Christian myself so I don't consider myself an expert at all but I just don't remember ever encountering
"Thou shalt not be rebellious" in the bible.

Am I wrong? Is it in there?

Or is it a derivative, implied commandment perhaps? Like "honor your mother and your father" essentially means don't be rebellious? Or something like that?

I'm kinda keen to see the real biblical origins of the "don't be rebellious" thing - if someone will be so kind?

And then. If you'll indulge me a little further, please. I'd also like to know where rebelliousness ends and defying unjust authority starts. Because, if I am not mistaken, Jesus himself often defied authorities. Didn't he? So it MUST be okay to stand up against authority and say "no" if they are wrong? Sometimes? So where is the line? Personally I wouldn't have a question if the thing was just not to rebel against God. But it is clear to me from what Christian folks are saying that you must not be rebellious in general. So then what? Just listen and obey to all figures of authority? Even when those figures are wrong? Even when they are evil? Even when they are putting money-changers in the temple?

And what happens if, what is required to reinstate justice is precisely rebellion: an uprising of the serfs and peasants to overthrow the masters and the overseers? That's pretty much by definition, "rebellion". Is that wrong?

What if the serfs and peasants are good christian folk under the heel of godless and wicked masters and overseers who will not permit you to observe your faith? Rebellion okay then?

I am asking a question out of honest curiosity and I ask respectfully. I am purposefully pushing the boundaries, not to hurt or to insult but really... to understand what those boundaries are and what they mean to you. I hope a christian that knows his/ her bible and is willing to speak to this will answer my questions.

Oh, finally. I am not here to be converted or anything... just to understand your worldview a little better. If you can help me understand then that would be appreciated.

If nothing else, thank you for taking the time to read my question.