Have you emailed a High/ School Sweetheart, behind your spouses back?

Yes, I have, but never got a response back.

I used Facebook to reconnect with almost each one of my ex-girlfriends and apologize to them for being such a jerk in HS. It was never weird and I have even helped a few of them with advice. I am not married though.. so I guess my post is not at all relevant to this thread ... sorry.

what a cool thing to do Magnus. Kudos.

That is sincerely a nice thing to do! I'm sure most of us (at one time or another) have inadvertently given someone a complex! ;) ... j/k

Simply put & most sadly, alot of guys are just horn dog stalkers. I had to take my Myspace page down last year. I've always been a magnet for the problem children and I should have known better than to allow dialog to be opened. Sometimes when you're cordial 'they' get all excited.

Then again, this is predominantly an issue faced by the fairer sex. So OP, you're probably safe. Though, let's be honest, how 'pure' is your intention..... if you're even entertaining the idea....?

I'm actually best friends to this day with my highschool sweetheart. We are 3,000 miles away from one another, but we chat regularly online and talk on the phone. My boyfriend knows this, so I've never had to go behind his back. If you have to go behind your significant other's back, why are you with that person in the first place?

Never e-maild one. But my haught ex-high school girlfriend found me on classmates. We met, but my wife knew because I told her. The girlfriend is still haught. But we are both happily married. Hey she may have wanted the old sausage, but I love my wife.

The next Pud?

data mine much?