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In Love with 2 People?
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[quote:IndigoSerenity76:MV8yMDk5MzUwXzM1MzY0NjQ2X0MxNzFCNjdC] [quote:ANHEDONIC:MV8yMDk5MzUwXzM1MzY0NTYwXzE4NjJDRjk1] [quote:IndigoSerenity76:MV8yMDk5MzUwXzM1MzYzOTE1X0IzODQ2QzAw] [quote:ANHEDONIC:MV8yMDk5MzUwXzM1MzYzODcxX0UzNzE2NUE4] The only feasible solution is for all parties to ride solo. :cool2: [/quote] I'm thinking that's what is going to happen :(. [/quote] Your friend needs to spend the necessary time to sort out that mess of emotions that he's dealing with. Until he takes the time to work through the emotions that he's battling with, he won't be able to make any sound, confident decisions about resolving these circumstances. You kind of hinted at it but could his fear of being hurt (again) make him subconsciously feel noncommital towards both parties? It seemed kinda odd to me that you said he's only known the other woman for 2 weeks. Aside from the obvious butterflies that people can get when they first meet someone, two weeks doesn't sound like a suitable amount of time for two people to really know the extent of their feelings for one another under normal circumstances. Is he empathetic? Is that why he's so torn up about hurting her feelings? Does hurting her feelings make him identify with those feelings from his past and that's why he's so bent out of shape about this? Maybe you could take a step back and grant him some space to sort his emotions out and clear his mind. It wouldn't hurt to tell him that's what you want him to do. You know that's what he has to do for this situation to proceed in a healthy direction for all parties. If he doesn't address the heart of the matter then the same emotional 'conflicts' will continue to resurface and manifest in different ways in the future. Plus in light of recent discussions it sounds like you could benefit from devoting some more time focusing on YOU. That's why I hinted at riding 'solo' for a bit. :hf: [/quote] Yep, I agree totally. You always give some of the best advice on there. Thank you!!!! Right, 2 weeks isn't very long, lol. However, he hasn't been happy for a very long time. My fault. He has been trying to show me how much he loves me since I left and I have just made him feel unloved, when that wasn't the case. So, this is the first time in a long time he has had fun with someone. This girl is also really young and fairly innocent, he doesn't want her to feel used and have a messed up view of guys. He is afraid of going back to hell with me. I am also extremely apprehensive, but fear gets us nowhere. You are absolutely right about that. I definitely lost myself for quite some time and that will be my main focus in 2013...in addition to parenting, of course. :hf::hf::hf::hf: [/quote]
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I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible.
I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?
Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :).
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